Sushpective: Shaken and Stirred! Updated posts 2& 3 - Page 12

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I loved today's episode Sush...wanna know why...didn't have to see Laila overdose...and ofcourse no Mohini...what a relief...and I am sure today's trps will be rocking.

After 100 episodes or so I got to see the Paro I always wanted to see. She made perfect sense today ...what right does she has to throw Laila out because it's Rudra who hasn't given her any right...what right does she have to blame the other woman when her husband hasn't declared any feelings for her.
Laila isn't her problem...she least cares about her...what killing her is knowing that Rudra married her in hate and promised her a tearful life...I am going by the flashbacks here.

Dilsher asked a very important question too...You do want to stay with her for the rest of your life ...right?

The ball is in Rudra's court now...Paro knows that she cannot fight for something that is not hers in the first place. Rudra needs to give her the right and respect or just let her go. She deserves happiness and respect.

Originally posted by: arman_kash4ever

lovely post as always 😊👍🏼

i agree paro's reatcions actually confused me, starting from her dream to her talk with maithli...on an emotional front i agree they are justified but what is she actually trying to find out... just few days before she was acknowledging the change that had taken place in her relation with rudra and was quite content with it.. now she wants him to define the relation and her place in his life... and all this is happening when eventually she is going to leave him..🥺. so what is her point i totally cudnt grasp... she loves him and i guess dosent want to impose her love if rudra dosent want it.. this was all i cud take out from her reactions...😳

coming to rudra banna😳 loved the father son convo.. dilsher totally played his part... pushing rudra to realise that why does it matter that paro is upset... why does he want to come clean about laila part.. although initially i thot dilsher might not be knowing about laila.. but i guess our honest banna didnt hide it from his father as well...😲

i have to say i agree that rudra has to give time to paro to heal and come to terms with the reality ...

also loved when rudra said its not laila but its u paro that matters...cmmon paro he loves u cant u see😳

...maybe all this will eventually make rudra realise that he has indeed fallen in love with her and accepted her as his wife...😳

other supporting factors like maithli, were also good.. she in true sense is paro's jija... she has loads of good advices in her kitty... if only paro would listen to them..

all in all...

laila toh sirf ek bahana hai.. rudra aur paro ko nazdeek lana hai 😆

Originally posted by: prettypri

@bold...is what I too wonder...I read many opinions that he has not acknowledged her as his wife...and that's her problem...but...didn't she herself say when he questioned her about how she being his wife could allow Laila to stay in the haveli...that once he has said she is his wife Laila doesn't matter? Or is it because at that time she didn't know the truth about Laila and does now ?

Yes..would him saying he loves her be sufficient? What Exactly would convince her...and I agree that he has shown in action that he cares...and he is a man of action more than expressive words...

Telling her he cannot see her in pain..twice...buying bangles for her...remembering how she takes her tea...shouting at everyone for her eye injury...and today he said she is the one who has meaning for him and not Laila...to me those seem pretty evident signs of not simply care or actions in the name of protection!

The thing is yes she is human and insecure today...as evidenced by that dream...but that contrasts with her telling Maithili that Laila was his past...in the dream she saw Laila taking over from her and pushing her away ..so why make the statement that Laila doesn't matter...agreed that she wants to know what Rudra feels for her...he has to say it...but aren't his actions worth anything?.

Originally posted by: -Sush-

I don't know Priyanka...This is a husband...who in my POV...declares a lot more than at least what I would expect...saying her tears are all he cares about...and wants to make her happy...is willing to throw the X out without questions and considerations ...Is pretty unequivocal about not having feelings for the X...doesn't dance around or leave things for imagination...

I do think the use of word "right" was misplaced.....when she is the one who decided that Laila will stay in the house in the first place...She has already exercised that right.....and to turn around and say...Do I have the right...and push a position and image forward that she is not getting a say on the matter ...is ...how shall I put it...a complete emotional over-reaction...But yes...the emotions of insecurity are justified...and The over emotional response is natural...

Originally posted by: ultimaterudra

GM Sush ,

Don't worry girl we aren't getting the traditional " I Love You " yet ...will happen when Paro walks out he has to woo her back . So you can't hide behind "I am Done "...we are getting our SUSHPECTIVE'S 😃

Another question nothing to do with RR hmm maybe some 😆

Why do saying " I Love You " by either is the very crux of a relationship ? Words could be empty right . I have seen many broken relationships ...where I Love You was said everyday ...

For me actions speak volumes baas ...Rest my case .

Originally posted by: ultimaterudra

@JJKL

Left a note for you in Sush's friday post ...You better go check that 😆