Sushpective: Shaken and Stirred! Updated posts 2& 3 - Page 13

Great Post Sush and equally good comments!
But first 👏 to the tiltle! SHaken and stirred indeed! Not only Paro but Forum too!

First furore over Rudra's reaction which turned out to be nightmare and then Paro's reaction!

But I really like Paro's questions and Friday's episode and of course Rudy's concern for Paro!

Also less Laila + KCM!

Hi Sush ,Great post as usual 👏

Originally posted by: SanayaIsBest

Really look forward to your take these days, couldn't comment last night cuz I was out till late.

Coming to episode I totally loved it. You are so right.

Watching desi soaps with a logical mind is suicidal.

Expecting a character to act a certain way is inviting disappointment.

How cam we expect the leads to have the same characterization 100 episodes in to the show?

So much has changed for Rudra and Paro, so they will react differently.

Today I found nothing wrong in the way Rudra and Paro reacted.

Paro doesn't blame him for his past.

She has emotionally hit rock bottom since the show started. .

She was never insecure even in the hate marriage because she was sure of her love and faith.

She was seeing small acts of care from him, she saw him smile, change.

With Laila's entry she is highly insecure, not about Laila but about herself.

She is angry at herself, feeling humiliated, sad.

She is so shaken that the promise to Bholenath does not even figure.

The core of her belief system is shaken and for the first time her faith is not giving her answers.

So she is turning to the object of her being, Rudra.

She want answers from him to help her, guide her.

She can handle Laila but not her own questions and doubts, which will not go away even if Laila does.

Laila is inconsequential and insignificant in her scheme of things right now.

Rudra is totally confused and to some extent guilty that for the first time he is not being able to protect her. The only way he sees is to remove Laila. And I do not think he is ready to let out his feeling yet.

This is a test of his love and her faith.

I am wondering if this is leading towards separation without Rudra's confession.

Loved the episode also because of less of Laila.😛

Yet to catch up on the rest of the thread.

Originally posted by: ttt1

Nice post sush
Nice responses ladies

I never found base of this marriage strong , it took paro a day to realiZe she and Rudra are meant to be together oh sorry 5 mins , she saw the doll and assumed the rest
a MU is very much possible because the base of their relationship is not trust , but some delusion which broke with a reality check
dilsher i disagree with keeping the truth from paro , she needs to knowi partially agree with diisher about the timing thats the whole issue , its too early for her to understand him or his standhe did what was best that is the another issue
actually i liked paro today , for the first time i saw a real girl , who was just jealous and subconsciously angry and demanded for security demanded for answersrudra did whatever he thought was best , very sincere and honest attempt
paro is not angry with rudra , she is angry or rather hurt that her dream is broken , so she is questioning the base of the relationship
and she is right here , what is the base of their relationship ?????about paro keeping laila at home , i think she is trying to get answers , she always justifies thing her way , so yeah this is her way
i think what she meant is , if its his past it shouldnt bother at all , it is not it is no point at all
underlying feeling is she is insecure , and she doesnt want to believe it is cos of laila ,not a correct way to deal
i think a conversation is not sufficient to mend trust , i am curious how they take it from here
All said I completely agree with spirit sa what is the point in knowing so much if the ishe is e anyway planning to leave

My assumption about paro always was her dilusion is not a failed attempt but a intentional part of characterization
When ever she mentioned all that I am parvati you are shiv , what I infered isShe is q girl who wants to live her dream love story without wanting to accept the reality
It is like closing eyes and making darkness , she saw what she want to , I don't blame her for that but this I thought was in character , laila.thing keeping laila at home , I completely fail.to understand , arguing for laila
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She wants to be parvati.to her shiv , but they e are human at the end of the day , and human is good

Originally posted by: ultimaterudra

GM Sush ,

Don't worry girl we aren't getting the traditional " I Love You " yet ...will happen when Paro walks out he has to woo her back . So you can't hide behind "I am Done "...we are getting our SUSHPECTIVE'S 😃

Another question nothing to do with RR hmm maybe some 😆

Why do saying " I Love You " by either is the very crux of a relationship ? Words could be empty right . I have seen many broken relationships ...where I Love You was said everyday ...

For me actions speak volumes baas ...Rest my case .

Originally posted by: -Sush-

Anisha! What you wrote makes perfect sense! Thanks for sharing...👍🏼

Where is Diya today? Would have loved to hear her take too!

Thanks Sush!!! Diya is busy for 2-3 weeks, so not active with posts. She is watching the episodes but unable to post. Want to thank you for this thread, a very neutral one where all perspectives are expressed without judging. 🤗

Hi Sush, loved reading your posts and the wonderful responses and discussions here.
I for one is enjoying the show and am a happy camper as far as Paro's response for Rudra's revelation of his not so proud to be past. In fact i'm liking the character of Paro now which many of the girls are finding inconsistant. Having been married for 25 years i find Paro's behaviour as normal as any emotionally down human being does, as it is with the revelation she is feeling insecure about her relationship with Rudra and why in the world would she think about her promise to Bholenath about leaving Rudra while the roots of her belief are shaken. When you're emotionally down and angry, we don't behave normally, you think something and say something totally unrelated and sometimes illogical too. So i'm quite fine with Paro's behaviour towards Rudra and others and quite find it reasonble.
SHwetha, as usual nice collages, thanks.

Malini

loved all the updated posts...👏

Originally posted by: -Sush-

Ha ha...I appreciate the LOVE for Sushpectives, Shwets...

Reality Check- Only 68 people cared for what I wrote yesterday...😆

So perhaps best for me to not live in a bubble of self importance!😆