Sushpective: Shaken and Stirred! Updated posts 2& 3 - Page 10

Originally posted by: ttt1

Nice post sush
Nice responses ladies

I never found base of this marriage strong , it took paro a day to realiZe she and Rudra are meant to be together oh sorry 5 mins , she saw the doll and assumed the rest
a MU is very much possible because the base of their relationship is not trust , but some delusion which broke with a reality check
dilsher i disagree with keeping the truth from paro , she needs to knowi partially agree with diisher about the timing thats the whole issue , its too early for her to understand him or his standhe did what was best that is the another issue
actually i liked paro today , for the first time i saw a real girl , who was just jealous and subconsciously angry and demanded for security demanded for answersrudra did whatever he thought was best , very sincere and honest attempt
paro is not angry with rudra , she is angry or rather hurt that her dream is broken , so she is questioning the base of the relationship
and she is right here , what is the base of their relationship ?????about paro keeping laila at home , i think she is trying to get answers , she always justifies thing her way , so yeah this is her way
i think what she meant is , if its his past it shouldnt bother at all , it is not it is no point at all
underlying feeling is she is insecure , and she doesnt want to believe it is cos of laila ,not a correct way to deal
i think a conversation is not sufficient to mend trust , i am curious how they take it from here
All said I completely agree with spirit sa what is the point in knowing so much if the ishe is e anyway planning to leave

My assumption about paro always was her dilusion is not a failed attempt but a intentional part of characterization
When ever she mentioned all that I am parvati you are shiv , what I infered isShe is q girl who wants to live her dream love story without wanting to accept the reality
It is like closing eyes and making darkness , she saw what she want to , I don't blame her for that but this I thought was in character , laila.thing keeping laila at home , I completely fail.to understand , arguing for laila
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She wants to be parvati.to her shiv , but they e are human at the end of the day , and human is good

Originally posted by: Hope

Z, being upset with your husband and imagining puppet dancing with him are two different things. Imagination has no boundaries... You are free to imagine anything... even puppet dancing with your soul mate, with an evil witch in between of course😆... I am with you in the laughing part. Can't control myself...🤣

But got to admit, Paro and Rudra are awesome puppets. Oops! sorry. I meant awesome as as puppets 😉

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

So here's how I see Paro's reaction...All along Paro was confident that Rudra will begin to love her one day.. she saw Rudra reciprocating kindly to her too.. then came Laila .. when she heard that he shared a special relationship with Laila for 8 years (for a man to visit the same girl daily for 8 years it better be special 😃) I am sure this got her thinking.. here she is, with no commitment from Rudra... what is the difference between this relationship to the one she shared with Laila.. please don't tell me they are married because I did not see any wedding wows being taken.. it was a mockery of a ceremony.. Plus Laia too asked her the question about not having a mangalsutra.. all this got her ticking.. 😆 she wants reassurance... afterall Paro too is human and is fallible.. she too longs to be loved back by her so called Pati... just like Rudra she too has lost a lot in life.. here was her last hope for happiness.. she almost had it but all of it was put to test when she heard about Rudra's and Laila's relationship...

Its not as if their relationship is on strong ground.. ... naturally she is bound to feel insecure after hearing about his past liaison.. as she put it, she is not concerned about his past but is keen to know about their equation.. whether she means anything to him.. he says so today but a couple of days ago he lashed out her stating that she had no right to question him..😕 In fact I feel it is Rudra who has to decide if he wants to be in this relationship or clarify what Paro means to him.. otherwise Paro could think that the fate that befell Laila could be upon her after 8 years.. she never committed to an unrequitted love.. all she said was I will wait till the day you love be back..

Originally posted by: spirit

Hi Sush, thanks for posting...very honest thoughts like someone else mentioned...I did not think you were going to post today. I was not planning on writing anything but I have a few questions.

My initial reaction to what Paro was saying was 😳 it made some sense by the end, sort of... I guess Paro despite saying all those things is jealous...come on Paro admit it, a tiny winy twinge of jealousy has to be there. She raised a very valid point by the end, leaving the Major Saab stunned as well as the audience agreeing, nevermind she confuses you in typical Paro fashion first up😆 Paro always ends up saying the right things... somehow.

Only if Paro would answer, why does she ask that question now? And not earlier...come on admit it, it's got everything to do with emotions triggered due to Laila's truth. You might say a hundred things, but this one truth has forced you to question, whether this marriage is real, will it ever be...was it ever!? She has doubts,...that faith of earlier shaken greatly... her doubts and insecurity are now magnified by that farce of wedding they had. He was drunk, and said all those things he did... was I living in a bubble all these days? Paro has been forced to question... Forget the damn tea major, you r not getting any if that's all I'm too you, a tea making machine - she seems to saying😆 Rattled! Is what comes to mind. Shaken and stirred, so aptly titled. When that happens, you react emotionally.

But then I want to ask her, what is the use of figuring these things out, making him realize or accept what she means to him...what this marriage means and whether is has any significance in his life...when she intends to leave him once he gets better?

Let me edit and add here more as an after thought, Paro is in all possibility trying to stay away from thinking about this because, she simply does not want to go through with it, she will deal with it only when the time comes... It won't be an easy one. I suspect, we may begin to understand her better, when we keep this question aside. She has not been shown to be thinking about this at all since her return from the hospital, either she is running away from it, till she can run away no more or the makers are 🤔

That aside, it appears that Paro will finally get a new mangalsutra finally.

KCM went on a break. Possibly to pacify Sumer. Hopefully it was to Jaipur so she will stay a week at the least.

BapuSa got a hair cut between his talk to the jungleee son and before Paro brought him that half-cup cold tea. May be. But looked like it, I only saw the episode once.

Rudra has no idea he is investing in Samrat's new business.

Because Paro thinks, Major brought her home to rescue from the Thakur back then, she is under the impression that that's how he rescues all women facing Thakur's threat.🤪No BaisSa , there is a proper way BSD do this, just send Laila there, she will be much safer. And so will you.

Major saab has no clue, the price of bringing back that elusive smile and the twinkle back in those eyes will cost him those 8 vows.

ps. Shweta. Greatwork with the collages, I hope the tutorials were of some use. We will find out now

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Hola Priya </font>🤗 <font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">It has been a while since i was on the forum at the same time you were ... how goes it? good to see you posting.. 😊</font>

Originally posted by: habs

Wonderful post!!

Particularly the bolded part.

Originally posted by: habs

Ladies,

The day he says he loves you to Paro is the day the show is over. It will not be anytime soon.

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

Oh yes I know but I don't know why Paro would want to imagine something like this when she is in such a broken emotional state 😆 But I guess you're right...I really really hope this scene doesn't actually play out...I kept laughing even more while viewing the promo because I just couldn't believe this is our Rangrasiya...in the beginning Rudra was just so angry and rough and tough...promos were dark...and now we're getting this light comedic promo 🤣 puppet dancing...who would have ever thought Rudra was ever capable of such a thing!! 😆

Haha they definitely are, their expression in the end before Laila aims the dagger at Paro were hilarious...both literally looked like puppets and had blank expressions on their faces...Ashish's blank expression killed me 😆

Originally posted by: msin

Hi just saw the episode.. Days are so busy... Thought I will see the episode on tv only...

I liked it.. News travels fast in this house...

Night paro knew, now mythili dilsher everybody knows.. It's quite like real life..

Tv lands were so Ekta inspired that I have only seen fl cry for weeks then tell a friend.. After 2 weeks ..

Dilsher was giving relationship gyaan to his son... 😆... It's good ...

I think rudra was right to lay the bare facts before going any further with paro...but paro baffles me.. She is being sanctimonious about Laila staying... And she asked rudra what is her importance in his life.. But if rudra says u matter to me... Then she's going to leave him. To fulfill her promise..😕

what are cvs thinking..

Promise or no promise.. I still think paro was right to ask the pertinent question... About their relationship.. It seems her dream bubble has snapped and she has woken up to reality and so is asking the hard questions...

Ankita is a very poor actress... I had sympathized with the other woman.even in Balika vadhu the other woman got my sympathy.. I had loved lavanya .. Most of ipk fans do... But she has made twitching twirling..irritating..in RR..

If she is negative.what is her motive . Mohini has greed and avarice to hate rudra and dilsher and also anger and hatred against dilsher.. It spurs her,...

Laila has been used and discarded by rudra..she could have bottled her anger against rudra to spoil his life.. Or used the jealousy against paro to destro her.. In haldi her emotions were spot on even in jhaanki.. But right now I don't think she can handle so many scenes..her expression makes her look like a delusional woman.. No wonder mohini laughs at her..

I was surprised paro in her dream gauged Laila and her dialogues correctly that means she realises Laila for what she is..

I liked ur post Sush...