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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Sush,

Firstly Ultimaterudra's collages are just fabulous and tell a story of their own. Love how she captures every emotion in the frames.

Another lovely episode and I must say wasn't the least confused with Paro's questioning or wanting some answers for herself or from Rudra.

Glad that all of my favourite characters had value screen time today. Kakisa MIA and Laila was as good as not being around.

In my previous post, I did say that Laila's presence and this revelation has only cemented Rudra's 8th vachan. This makes it easier for Paro to keep up to her promise.

What is the problem is that most of us are reacting episode wise and seeing no consistency in Paro's character. But I see it this way. Is Paro on the path to justifying leaving him?

I will go back to the laddoo track? What really made Paro offer up the love of her life to Bholenath in the first place. It's plain and simple. Because that is what RUDRA WANTS. HE wanted her out of his life. He participated in the SN pooja only so that she walks out of his life. So Paro's promise to is give up something that she wanted (her own desires), her love for him.

Now back to Laila track...who is simply a catalyst to the PaRud relationship. The Laila matchstick/WD40 that works to spark a stagnated/standstill relationship between P & R.

The CVs did right in bringing in Laila because there was nothing much happening apart from laddoos between R & P.

Paro asked these questions, because on the basis of these answers will she justify to his family and him that her sacrificial tyaag was a selfless act.

And does not measure up to what his mother did to him. It shouldn't because he has no feelings for her nor any bandhan. .

Note, she already has a dejected look and has accepted that she won't get any answers ever. If you notice she spoke of Laila but not of her leaving Rudra to Maithli. Why did she hide this bit from M?

It's like this for Paro, he never married me in the true sense. He does not want this marriage with me. So I am only forcing myself upon him. Now that it's clear, I can walk away without any guilt feelings.After all her giving up Rudra contradicts her belief that they are Shiv & Parvati and meant to be together.

Also Rudra won't give an answer until the day she walks out of his life.

Don't know maybe I am completely off track and it all sounds pretty illogical, but it's the typical filmy tyaag way of thinking if you look at it.

hugs

dd

Edited by ddFan2012 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Hope



Hahaha, Ya. When I saw everyone dancing on PaRud's sangeet, I thought we will never get to see PaRud dancing as I couldn't imagine Rudra dancing. Then we got fabulous Jaipur track which made me watch the Love Birds in Aww... Now with puppet dance, CV's definitely are thinking out of the box. By making mighty Rudra Pratap Ranawat puppet dance. 😆

In between, want to share this. I just forced my hubby to watch the promo (He knows I am RR crazy) He took a few seconds to grasp the scene and laughed asking me if someone made this video for fun. When I said it was the new promo... He laughed and laughed and laughed saying hilarious😆. And the show was supposed to be a dark ...
😳


Yes it's hilarious, is Rudra a Major or a full-time husband 😆 Dancing along to all his wife's tunes...metaphorically and literally...😛

Aww oh man that's exactly what I was thinking as well 🤣 Can't believe this is the same dark and passionate RR we all know and love 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
I loved today's episode Sush...wanna know why...didn't have to see Laila overdose...and ofcourse no Mohini...what a relief...and I am sure today's trps will be rocking.

After 100 episodes or so I got to see the Paro I always wanted to see. She made perfect sense today ...what right does she has to throw Laila out because it's Rudra who hasn't given her any right...what right does she have to blame the other woman when her husband hasn't declared any feelings for her.
Laila isn't her problem...she least cares about her...what killing her is knowing that Rudra married her in hate and promised her a tearful life...I am going by the flashbacks here.

Dilsher asked a very important question too...You do want to stay with her for the rest of your life ...right?

The ball is in Rudra's court now...Paro knows that she cannot fight for something that is not hers in the first place. Rudra needs to give her the right and respect or just let her go. She deserves happiness and respect.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Sush I loved the slip of pen and thought ..Arnie...oops Rudy!!🤣 I miss Arnie too and see bits of Arnie in Rudy as well!
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Posted: 11 years ago
lovely post as always 😊👍🏼
i agree paro's reatcions actually confused me, starting from her dream to her talk with maithli...on an emotional front i agree they are justified but what is she actually trying to find out... just few days before she was acknowledging the change that had taken place in her relation with rudra and was quite content with it.. now she wants him to define the relation and her place in his life... and all this is happening when eventually she is going to leave him..🥺. so what is her point i totally cudnt grasp... she loves him and i guess dosent want to impose her love if rudra dosent want it.. this was all i cud take out from her reactions...😳

coming to rudra banna😳 loved the father son convo.. dilsher totally played his part... pushing rudra to realise that why does it matter that paro is upset... why does he want to come clean about laila part.. although initially i thot dilsher might not be knowing about laila.. but i guess our honest banna didnt hide it from his father as well...😲
i have to say i agree that rudra has to give time to paro to heal and come to terms with the reality ...
also loved when rudra said its not laila but its u paro that matters...cmmon paro he loves u cant u see😳
...maybe all this will eventually make rudra realise that he has indeed fallen in love with her and accepted her as his wife...😳
other supporting factors like maithli, were also good.. she in true sense is paro's jija... she has loads of good advices in her kitty... if only paro would listen to them..
all in all...
laila toh sirf ek bahana hai.. rudra aur paro ko nazdeek lana hai 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: nema123

Wonderful post Sush...!

Paro is emotional .. she want the assurance that Rudra considers her as his wife... give the circumstances they got married.

But just rudra saying "I love you" will be sufficient ?
And given Rudra's personality... it is more in action that just a talk... which he did actually...


@bold...is what I too wonder...I read many opinions that he has not acknowledged her as his wife...and that's her problem...but...didn't she herself say when he questioned her about how she being his wife could allow Laila to stay in the haveli...that once he has said she is his wife Laila doesn't matter? Or is it because at that time she didn't know the truth about Laila and does now ?

Yes..would him saying he loves her be sufficient? What Exactly would convince her...and I agree that he has shown in action that he cares...and he is a man of action more than expressive words...

Telling her he cannot see her in pain..twice...buying bangles for her...remembering how she takes her tea...shouting at everyone for her eye injury...and today he said she is the one who has meaning for him and not Laila...to me those seem pretty evident signs of not simply care or actions in the name of protection!

The thing is yes she is human and insecure today...as evidenced by that dream...but that contrasts with her telling Maithili that Laila was his past...in the dream she saw Laila taking over from her and pushing her away ..so why make the statement that Laila doesn't matter...agreed that she wants to know what Rudra feels for her...he has to say it...but aren't his actions worth anything?.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Nice post Sush.. loving your written abt Paro POV. episode filled wit paro's emotionals really awesome episode
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ultimaterudra

@BLUE Good catch , we think alike ...thought I was the only one 😆



I also noticed it. And wondered why nobody else mentioned it ...
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: shamyj

Sush I loved the slip of pen and thought ..Arnie...oops Rudy!!🤣 I miss Arnie too and see bits of Arnie in Rudy as well!


Hi Shamyj! Yes...I miss Arnie ...Loved watching him failing in love for so long...For Rudy...it happened so quickly...I was like...Oh...happened already? And now we are talking about confession...100 episodes into the show...
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ddFan2012

Hi Sush,

Firstly Ultimaterudra's collages are just fabulous and tell a story of their own. Love how she captures every emotion in the frames.

Another lovely episode and I must say wasn't the least confused with Paro's questioning or wanting some answers for herself or from Rudra.

Glad that all of my favourite characters had value screen time today. Kakisa MIA and Laila was as good as not being around.

In my previous post, I did say that Laila's presence and this revelation has only cemented Rudra's 8th vachan. This makes it easier for Paro to keep up to her promise.

What is the problem is that most of us are reacting episode wise and seeing no consistency in Paro's character. But I see it this way. Is Paro on the path to justifying leaving him?

I will go back to the laddoo track? What really made Paro offer up the love of her life to Bholenath in the first place. It's plain and simple. Because that is what RUDRA WANTS. HE wanted her out of his life. He participated in the SN pooja only so that she walks out of his life. So Paro's promise to is give up something that she wanted (her own desires), her love for him.

Now back to Laila track...who is simply a catalyst to the PaRud relationship. The Laila matchstick/WD40 that works to spark a stagnated/standstill relationship between P & R.

The CVs did right in bringing in Laila because there was nothing much happening apart from laddoos between R & P.

Paro asked these questions, because on the basis of these answers will she justify to his family and him that her sacrificial tyaag was a selfless act.

And does not measure up to what his mother did to him. It shouldn't because he has no feelings for her nor any bandhan. .

Note, she already has a dejected look and has accepted that she won't get any answers ever. If you notice she spoke of Laila but not of her leaving Rudra to Maithli. Why did she hide this bit from M?

It's like this for Paro, he never married me in the true sense. He does not want this marriage with me. So I am only forcing myself upon him. Now that it's clear, I can walk away without any guilt feelings.After all her giving up Rudra contradicts her belief that they are Shiv & Parvati and meant to be together.

Also Rudra won't give an answer until the day she walks out of his life.

Don't know maybe I am completely off track and it all sounds pretty illogical, but it's the typical filmy tyaag way of thinking if you look at it.

hugs

dd


Wow dd...you have a very different take!
I didn't think she was thinking about the future at all...it was about now...
It was about reassurance not about justification...I think..

Some have said...it was about her fear that without a proper marriage symbolized by a proper Manglasutra ...she feels like she is in the same boat as Laila...From who Rudy feels no qualms about walking away after 8 years of relationship...what do you think about that angle?

Edited by -Sush- - 11 years ago

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