Please explain..... - Page 3

Originally posted by: eveline

Thanks for your comments, but i refuse to divulge in a war of words with you. It is clear you are out to offend, so lets leave it at that. 😊

That is rather convenient..expect something from others,do something else yourself and then when someone points this out then refuse to divulge in a "war of words" with that person.But fine..you shall have your way, I cant make you divulge...though my intention was not to unneccessarily offend, just to state things the way they are and get a response.I failed ofcourse 😆

@ eveline now you are again asking the same questions which i already answered and somewhat u too said the same thing,, on one hand u say she tries to be Mahaan and on the other side u complain that she is furious and does not want to interact with Rudra which is actually a sign of basic human characteristics,, if u do not want her to be mahaan then how can u expect her to cut some slack to Rudra,,😕

and if we come to that, she listened to what Rudra said , processed his words and then came to a conclusion that it is not Laila who is bothersome but her relationship with Major Saab,,
You do not want her to be jealous, you want her to understand her husband, You do not want her to be Mahaan,, Then what do u want exactly,,,🤓
Believe me if i say that i was among those who were not all satisfied with how Paro's character was shaping up,, but lately i feel CVs are trying to put some sense,, but one thing i am sure is that NO MATTER what paro does, she will always be questioned,, has she reached that point where there are no chances of any redemption whatsoever,, i do not think so,,

WORD, WORD, SO much worddd to everything you said.

And honestly Rudra still isn't guilty like a husband caught cheating as much as Paro is behaving like a wife WRONGED...that is the part that REALLY stumps me...wherein she is giving off the impression that she is the stoic one bearing everything and Rudra OWES her answers...lol I keep asking myself what epis did I skip when this relationship became so normalized.

Last I knew the status quo was Rudra only accidentally/subconsciously admitting that she is his wife...her wholeheartedly CLAIMING to be his wife no matter what he says...

Cut to today where she is DEMANDING answers from him, demanding RIGHTS from him...LOL...I can't help but laugh...I mean if Dilsher asks Rudra these questions, I still understand.

But Paro? When exactly did Rudra ever give her the impression that he had accepted her fully as his wife that now she is DEMANDING a haq? Last I checked, Paro was happy proclaiming to everyone that she is happy with this marriage no matter how it came to be and she will happily make it work no matter how much Rudra shuns her...so what now then?


All I can think and HOPE for is that SOMEONE will point this out in the show...if not, then I guess we have no choice but to swallow it as a contrivance to make Rudra CONFESS and move the story forward.

I seriously fail to understand that when did Paro behave like a WIFE WRONGED,, are we all watching the same episode,, she was just running away from the truth but she came to terms with it too,, Didn she say that She had no right to question Rudra about the things which didn evn happen during her presence,,

The same ppl who wanted her to be HUMAN are actually baffled with her jealousy ,, 🤡

Originally posted by: soulspirit

Did u skip that part where she says that Rudra was in relationship with Laila BEFORE their marriage,, and that she has no right to question him about the things which happened before they got married,,,
ofcourse she took time to come to terms with the truth and to take that in a positive stride,, Cut her some slack i would say,,,

and pray tell me that how throwing Laila out of the house would help Paro,,??? i mentioned somewhere else too that it is no big deal for Rudra to hav sex with her outside , that is if he wants too,, so what does it makes a difference anyway,, She proved that Laila or any 3rd person does not bother her,, She is more worried about her equation with her husband ,, and laila in or out of the haveli bear absolutely no relevance to Parud's relationship,,

Originally posted by: soulspirit

I seriously fail to understand that when did Paro behave like a WIFE WRONGED,, are we all watching the same episode,, she was just running away from the truth but she came to terms with it too,, Didn she say that She had no right to question Rudra about the things which didn evn happen during her presence,,

The same ppl who wanted her to be HUMAN are actually baffled with her jealousy ,, 🤡

Originally posted by: CyberOstrich

@ Bold- if throwing her Laila is of no relevance here than why is Paro running away hurt when she sees Laila with Rudra when she was sort of massaging his hands?

Why is it of no relevance when her HUSBAND from WHOM she wants the answers is saying that he DOES NOT want Laila to be in the house? Doesnt she realise/sense that it makes him uncomfortable? OR she WANTS him to be MORE uncomfortable? She can have her answers without Laila being there as well?

ANd she goes ahead and says that in FRONT of Laila- WHY?

Why is she asking Laila questions that how did she find out that Rudra had told her about their past? what was the point of that question?

Forgot- the most important one- WHy does she want answers when she's taken an oath to leave anyways?

@black: 😆...In that scene, it was almost like Laila was her ally and Rudra the outsider😆...the women have ganged up against him...ab Rudra toh gaya😆

@blue: Yeah if Paro isn't bothered by Laila's presence, why did she leave the scene there? And why list out things like, "Laila is beautiful, she's spent 8 years doing you know what with my husband?"

I agree, it's become illogical. The CVs might marry Laila to Sumer to keep her in the house. This way we will continue to see endless torments of Paro and frustration from Rudra😕

Eve,

Originally posted by: surabi

Eve,

For once I liked the way paro reacted... To me she is not showing any fury... She is just avoiding him... she is not asking him anything at all... she is just keeping a distance... yeah- her face showed hurt when she saw laila with him- traces of jealousy... If she did not show that, I will agree with you that she is a mahan character... that was a humanly reaction..

I do not like the fact that she wants laila to stay there. Keeping that aside, the bigger question here is how laila's presence is going to affect her/their life? her question is correct- laila ke hone ya na hone se kya farq padtha hai?? I think for the first time she came out of her fairyland bubble... Now she realizes (that song and her cries after Rudra explains everything) the situation in its true sense.. That she is married to him but does not know her true meaning or place in his life... she is alluding to the fact that he has not given her any rights as a wife..

BUt here, she has not demanded any explanations or apology from him.. it is him who is going after her...

what do you want her to do- if she is mad at him for his affair, that would be not right since as she herself said "it happened before they even met "

if she act like nothing happened and back to her old self, that would make her character look very weak... that She has no earthly reactions at all.. then she would be like a superficial character...

My personal viewpoint-Under the situations, this was the perfect reaction... She is sad about the fact that there is a third person in their life and that she is not sure about her position in his life... How can she fight laila when she herself does not know what she is to rudra.. Apart from the fact that he shows that cannot stand to see her pain, he has not given any promise to her so far...

What complicates the whole scenario in my opinion is the fact that she is planning to leave him at some point..

For me I would have liked this paro right after their marriage instead of acting all lovey dovey after the eight phera marriage... silent but powerful...

Ermm I don't think eveline's point is being understood here...she isn't questioning Paro's silent treatment of Rudra in so much as she is questioning when exactly did this relationship EVER normalize enough for Paro to DEMAND her rights as a wife? You may have wished for these reactions right after the 8 phere wedding but can we just FORGET entire MONTHS of scenes where Paro was on a divine trip and happy almost INSTANTLY after the 8 phere wedding? Umm not so easily forgotten.

Liking Paro's reactions today doesn't take away from the fact that an INCONSISTENCY very much exists and calling a spade a spade is not a crime like this forum generally likes to paint it.