Confused hearts and souls - Page 5

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@Megha: No, for me Paro's biggest fault isn't that she is keeping Laila in the house despite Rudra not wanting it.

No, Laila is just the surface issue...I respect it when someone takes ownership of their mistakes, their flaws...which Rudra has done time and again.

To me, it's not fair that all of Paro's mistakes be brushed under the carpet saying "Oh she was naive"...I don't blame/hate her for anything cuz I can understand her naivete...but what I do not agree with is that she not even be held ACCOUNTABLE for her claims...no, that is not right...both Rudra and Paro need to be held accountable for everything they've said and done...in Paro's case, the list of claims is quite long and comprehensive so I don't find it so easy to forget them in the blink of an eye.

Rudra is also being held accountable by Karma for the relationship he had with Laila...so Karma finds its ways to make everyone pay up.

Originally posted by: Struggler

Naivety doesn't work, people have to smart up. Everyone makes mistakes, apparently Rudra did and now Paro is doing. I totally agree with the points made above that Rudra accepts his mistakes, his flaws.

However without mistakes, there will be no story at least not the way things are generally told on television these days.

Yes, everyone makes mistakes...how you own up to, learn from those mistakes decides how your character evolves...and yes for any story to run, characters need to make mistakes, learn from them, move on from them...

The story is poised at a point where Paro will have to outgrow some of the naivete that has carried her through her life so far...some innocence will have to be lost in this bargain if she is to understand Rudra in totality as a flawed human being not exactly fitting in with her ideal traits.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@Megha: No, for me Paro's biggest fault isn't that she is keeping Laila in the house despite Rudra not wanting it.

No, Laila is just the surface issue...I respect it when someone takes ownership of their mistakes, their flaws...which Rudra has done time and again.

To me, it's not fair that all of Paro's mistakes be brushed under the carpet saying "Oh she was naive"...I don't blame/hate her for anything cuz I can understand her naivete...but what I do not agree with is that she not even be held ACCOUNTABLE for her claims...no, that is not right...both Rudra and Paro need to be held accountable for everything they've said and done...in Paro's case, the list of claims is quite long and comprehensive so I don't find it so easy to forget them in the blink of an eye.

Rudra is also being held accountable by Karma for the relationship he had with Laila...so Karma finds its ways to make everyone pay up.

Anu by the way, today's sbs increased my hopes.

Agreed. However with the way the story appears now, this seems like a huge task. Lets see if the writers are willing to show some courage and take the curve instead of walking the straight line like every other show.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@Megha: No, for me Paro's biggest fault isn't that she is keeping Laila in the house despite Rudra not wanting it.

No, Laila is just the surface issue...I respect it when someone takes ownership of their mistakes, their flaws...which Rudra has done time and again.

To me, it's not fair that all of Paro's mistakes be brushed under the carpet saying "Oh she was naive"...I don't blame/hate her for anything cuz I can understand her naivete...but what I do not agree with is that she not even be held ACCOUNTABLE for her claims...no, that is not right...both Rudra and Paro need to be held accountable for everything they've said and done...in Paro's case, the list of claims is quite long and comprehensive so I don't find it so easy to forget them in the blink of an eye.

Rudra is also being held accountable by Karma for the relationship he had with Laila...so Karma finds its ways to make everyone pay up.

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

Anu by the way, today's sbs increased my hopes.

No more dissing of major saab, that he does not claim his feelings, or he does not give her rights, he is so honest and blunt that he will directly tell her that its hurting him, her condition is hurting him, and he is finding it hard to tolerate.

i just hope writers give a good closure to laila, and keeps the maturity and rawness in Rudra intact.

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

Anu when i menat that i cannot justify her for laila's stay, i meant that my sympathy for her reduces time again, when i correlate her TALL CLAIMS of understanding Rudra but keeping laila in the house. That makes me lose my temper because, Girl at one side you are claiming that you understand him and the very immediate moment you ignore his opinion and keep laila in the house . Thats absurd Anu.

LOL to Paro, her trust and understanding of Rudra were seperate from the Laila issue...and I'm talking about the situation before Rudra told her the truth...Paro was acting in accordance with her trusting nature which wants to believe in the good for everyone unless proven otherwise...and Laila knew exactly how to play on her sympathies by acting the victim...Mohini doesn't bother hiding her evil side much cuz the taunts keep slipping out...but initially atleast Laila was playing the victim.

And maybe Paro somewhere genuinely doesn't want to be the cause of someone possibly dying cuz she didn't give them shelter...since she believed Laila's life to be in danger from Tejawat.

This all Paro's own belief system making her act this way...this wasn't necessarily about her faith or understanding in Rudra...that test has come NOW...but initially about Laila, Paro was just presuming that Rudra is being his usual irritable self and didn't take him seriously...she chooses to overlook his anger/grouchiness many times despite there being plenty of examples of the perils she's gotten herself into when she hasn't listened to him😆...But some basic personality traits won't change I guess since they have to use excuses to build drama😆

Originally posted by: ttt1

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