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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tennessean

Hi Sush- It is nice to see you back and a nice post.👏

Shweta- great collage.👏

These are some of my thoughts.

1) Major- He is very much in the hubby mode and took full care of Bai Sa.😛 He fed her, wiped her lips, made her go to sleep. But his only mistake was when he held Laila's hand and she made a game out of it. It did go to Paro Bai Sa's knowledge and she asked Major directly as to why did he hold her hand. Major was back in his usual self that he didn't give anybody the right to question. Now if he had said this thing a month ago, then it wouldn't have made a difference. However, today the situation has changed and they are much closer to each other.

2) Paro Bai Sa- She loved being pampered and showered with attention.😛 She was made to sleep in the most affectionate manner and she loved every bit of it. I really loved that scene when Major puts her to bed. 😉 It was nice to see her patti open but she may have to see and hear the harshest reality of her life. It is going to hurt big time but everything depends on what she has to say. Major cannot change his past, but she can give a future to her and Major's life. 😛

3) Laila- Stop touching other people's stuff. 😡 I didn't like it when she was taking the patti away from Bai Sa. Talk of torture. I just have one thing to say to her. You are on an airport waiting for a ship.

Precap- I wrote in Diya's post yesterday and I am going to say it again that I am glad that the truth is coming out from Major's mouth and not through KCM or Laila. We just to wait for Bai sa's decision on this one

I didn't know what to choose for today's acrostic, so I chose "Care" keeping that Parud moment in mind.

C- Cozy( Major made Bai Sa feel cozy and comfy by making her go to sleep)😛
A- Awesome(how he wiped her lips and she loved it)😉
R- Razor-sharp (When he yelled at Laila for wearing her churi)👏
E- Effective (Truth is important in Parud relationship and I like that it is coming from him, she deserves to know and he should be the one to tell)👏

Everybody- buckle up for the storm. We are going to sail through this together.😊


Ha ha...can I say Major has been playing daddy to Paro and Paro has been playing mommy to Rudy...lately...now it will be more like hubby wifey...

T you are much more romantic than I am...personally I found the doting to be an overkill...I don't know why last couple of days have annoyed me this much...but I was ready to wish for the same Danda on Paros and Rudy's head ...which I had wished for before...Chalo looks like Paro is going to wake up and smell the coffee tomorrow...

Lovely acrostic as always!👏


Edited by -Sush- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post good to see you back dear. .always loveto read your post...good episode that inspire you..but laila got more screen space and it was too irritating.
Edited by sukhminderkaur7 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think she will be happy he trusted enough to share
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sush-


Z...I have been thinking ..could it be dependence means love is a very Indian concept and livng abroad for so many years...some of us have come to believe that dependence and love don't have much to do with each other?

About Rudy holding her wrist...as much as he wants to leave her...he can not change the fact that he has been intimate with her...and some interactions come natural to him...he would neve hold Maithlis hand that way...would he?

Inappropriate it was...no doubt!


You know, I think you're right...Indian society is very collectivist and many of us abroad have an individualistic state of mind...that could explain why in Indian dramas there is always an overload of dependency between couples and in family 🥱

Yeah it bugs me how holding Laila like that comes natural to him. He is lucky that he has such a beautiful wife like Paro, if I was his partner I would not spare him for touching Laila like that 🤢

Speaking of Maithili, don't kill me for saying this, but I wish Samrat died or something (don't worry I would never wish something like that on a real person, but since this is a fictional character we're talking about I figured it would be okay to want him dead😛); so Maithili could get a better man in her life...I don't see Samrat changing and Maithili deserves so much better 😭 I feel for her, seriously. She deserves a Rudra of her own.

Did I mention what else I found inappropriate and aggravating? Laila putting on Paro's bangles!
Those bangles were special and now Laila has tainted them 🤢 I hate how she wore them again at the end of the episode...and she was playing around with the sindoor...and what was she trying to tell Paro when she said having a mangulsutra symbolized a long life (either for the wife, the husband, or just the relationship in general)? How did Paro STILL not sense that this woman didn't mean well? 😡 Since Mohini loves planning to kill people, can she form a plan to kill Laila baisa as well? 😃
Edited by Zeeliciousxo - 11 years ago
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Hi Sush,
What a pleasant coincidence...today is the day I came back to the forum...made a post after what seems like ages and I come across your post too. It's always a pleasure to read yours. I came back because one of my very close friend mentioned that I should give it a try once again because the upcoming promo might change the equation after all. And boy am I waiting to see a real woman with feelings in Paro...am I waiting to see her realize that the man she married is not a god who should be worshipped on a pedestal. I am waiting to see Paro's reaction to the revelation...and the wife in me is desperately hoping to see a real believable reaction from Paro. What I don't want to see is a saint who has found her new BFF in Laila. It's utterly unbelievable the way she simply doesn't care that Laila is in love with her husband. Anyways, I don't want to go all ranting and just put it to as I simply cannot relate to Paro's character anymore.

It saddens me to say that I actually relate to Laila ...absolutely. Here, this woman has been committed to this man for 8 long years...8 freaking years. Rudra admits it or not he has given Laila the rights. He in his own words searched and found solace in her physically for 8 yrs...used her for his convenience and discards her at his own sweet will...repeatedly mentioning that he never promised any commitment. That is utter bullshit. Did he say...every night...he went to her every night and not any other woman. And he thinks, he is not committed. Laila sure as hell needs an explanation from him. She needs closure. No wonder she feels a sense of authority over Rudra.

Now coming to Rudra...I seriously have no respect for such men who uses woman as he pleases. The fact that bothered me is the way he exercises his rights on Laila...the way he held her hand. I get it...he is an angry man who shows his emotions physically but he has on numerous occasions manhandled Paro exactly the same way...so what is the difference here? He handles both the women in the same way. In so many of my posts I have been repeatedly explained that...Rudra manhandles Paro because he feels for her deeply...he is fighting back his emotions. I guess he is doing the same for Laila here. For all I know he needs to respect both the women. He needs to stop insulting Paro by repeatedly saying that she has no rights over him...very hypocritical and he definitely needs to let Laila know in clear words that he made a mistake by treating her like a piece of meat. He needs to explain that he didn't plan in falling in love with Paro ...but he does ( I am guessing he does) and that he is committed to her. Plain and simple.

But above all I hate that the cvs are demeaning and insulting a woman's character ( here Laila's) to clean up a man's past. Why is Indian society so fake and shallow to think that a woman who has physical relationship without marriage is a s**t ? Why does a man get away with sleeping with her saying that he didn't 't promise commitment? They are demonizing Laila just to clean up Rudra. When is having an adult relationship bad? Why can't a woman have physical relationship and enjoy sex just as a man does? I am very interested to see Paro's reaction here.

But last but not the least I hate kitchens politics and I believe Mohini/Laila are getting too much screen space...that is what I felt today though. I watched today's episode after about a month or so.


Edited by Rupunzale - 11 years ago
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Sush Updated by post 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yay Sush! Glad to see you back 😃 how I missed everybody's post in here as I'm not very good with writing analysis myself and is a better reader so don usually make post much.. Anyways well last few episodes I feel the chemistry between the leads did lack some spark maybe coz of their characterization for Trp aunties they reduced Rudy to a puppy dog running after his wife however all hopes on today's episode I hope the intensity is back and Paro stop worshipping Rudy and takes in that after all he is human... I miss the angry Rudra and his no nonsense attitude so hoping we get to see that in future..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo


You know, I think you're right...Indian society is very collectivist and many of us abroad have an individualistic state of mind...that could explain why in Indian dramas there is always an overload of dependency between couples and in family 🥱

Yeah it bugs me how holding Laila like that comes natural to him. He is lucky that he has such a beautiful wife like Paro, if I was his partner I would not spare him for touching Laila like that 🤢

Speaking of Maithili, don't kill me for saying this, but I wish Samrat died or something
(don't worry I would never wish something like that on a real person, but since this is a fictional character we're talking about I figured it would be okay to want him dead😛); so Maithili could get a better man in her life...I don't see Samrat changing and Maithili deserves so much better 😭 I feel for her, seriously. She deserves a Rudra of her own.

Did I mention what else I found inappropriate and aggravating? Laila putting on Paro's bangles!
Those bangles were special and now Laila has tainted them 🤢 I hate how she wore them again at the end of the episode...and she was playing around with the sindoor...and what was she trying to tell Paro when she said having a mangulsutra symbolized a long life (either for the wife, the husband, or just the relationship in general)? How did Paro STILL not sense that this woman didn't mean well? 😡 Since Mohini loves planning to kill people, can she form a plan to kill Laila baisa as well? 😃


Z baisa ...you are FUNNY...😆

Of course ...Laila trying bangles was another symbolism...Laila wanting Paros life...

About some of the characters in Indian dramas...yes I look at them and I I go...a 12 year old typical American kid is more independent than this 24 or 27 year old woman or man...and I don't find some behavior that is supposed to be cutsie...rather...juvenile or even less than that...

That's why Rudy's independent character is something I have related to from the very beginning...and when he just forgets that he has any traces of that in his character, and starts acting like he is some one from the same cookie cutter mould ...I go...SAY WHAT???
Edited by -Sush- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tennessean

Hi Sush- It is nice to see you back and a nice post.👏

Shweta- great collage.👏

These are some of my thoughts.

1) Major- He is very much in the hubby mode and took full care of Bai Sa.😛 He fed her, wiped her lips, made her go to sleep. But his only mistake was when he held Laila's hand and she made a game out of it. It did go to Paro Bai Sa's knowledge and she asked Major directly as to why did he hold her hand. Major was back in his usual self that he didn't give anybody the right to question. Now if he had said this thing a month ago, then it wouldn't have made a difference. However, today the situation has changed and they are much closer to each other.

2) Paro Bai Sa- She loved being pampered and showered with attention.😛 She was made to sleep in the most affectionate manner and she loved every bit of it. I really loved that scene when Major puts her to bed. 😉 It was nice to see her patti open but she may have to see and hear the harshest reality of her life. It is going to hurt big time but everything depends on what she has to say. Major cannot change his past, but she can give a future to her and Major's life. 😛

3) Laila- Stop touching other people's stuff. 😡 I didn't like it when she was taking the patti away from Bai Sa. Talk of torture. I just have one thing to say to her. You are on an airport waiting for a ship.

Precap- I wrote in Diya's post yesterday and I am going to say it again that I am glad that the truth is coming out from Major's mouth and not through KCM or Laila. We just to wait for Bai sa's decision on this one

I didn't know what to choose for today's acrostic, so I chose "Care" keeping that Parud moment in mind.

C- Cozy( Major made Bai Sa feel cozy and comfy by making her go to sleep)😛
A- Awesome(how he wiped her lips and she loved it)😉
R- Razor-sharp (When he yelled at Laila for wearing her churi)👏
E- Effective (Truth is important in Parud relationship and I like that it is coming from him, she deserves to know and he should be the one to tell)👏

Everybody- buckle up for the storm. We are going to sail through this together.😊


T 🤗 I am enjoying one refreshing difference in RR is the openness about Rudra and Paro's relationship . Perfect word chosen for your acrostic 👏 A romantic at heart this is for you babe ...



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ultimaterudra


T 🤗 I am enjoying one refreshing difference in RR is the openness about Rudra and Paro's relationship . Perfect word chosen for your acrostic 👏 A romantic at heart this is for you babe ...





Hi Shweta- Thank you, girl. It is a treat for the eyes.😛 I really loved these moments and once this Laila factor is out, hopefully we will get to see more of this.

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