Sushpective: Getting Real! Edit-APOLOGY post 7

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Guys ...how are you?

Just saw the episode today...and it looks like some grip is coming back to the story...don't ask me how I feel about last few episodes...if you already don't know... Now we are dealing with some real issues Instead of some delirium that was set after the mirchi episode closely following the laddoo one...! Jesus Christ...! Why do people think that the moment hero and heroine fall in love...the heroine has to act all cutsie...who has forgotten how to walk even before the injury and needs to be supported by a doting husband...and why does the hero have to become someone...who is walking around the heroine like a puppy...being ...and doing what he is told to do...

Does " love" always have to fit the same mould? ...why are people expected to lose any sense of personality...they may have because who they are...when they are in love? The most enjoyable romance for me is when the emotions and personality interact...Love is real ...when it meets the real you...

Any way...lets try and not talk about that...

The real issue is of course, Rudra trying to think that the past never existed and he can just move on...Well not so fast Mr... All the pleasure comes with a consequence ...Human relationships are complex and one does not have as much control on the situation as one would like...

So, the wild card in this situation of course is...Laila having feelings for Rudy...She took Rudra for his word...he likes jale hue aalloo...he doesn't want to get tied down...he will never marry...and then he single handedly decides...He is done with jale hue aalloo, he is done with Laila, he is just as happy to play the guy next door ...who is ...oh...just so ready to shower all his love, and be happily married...Who cares about Laila...didn't he say he wasn't making any commitments...? She shouldn't have expected any better...should she?

And better still...he didn't even think about telling it to the wife...until Laila challenged him to...Well, truth has a funny habit of showing up when you least expect it...so as much as Rudy can scream and dole out sentences like ...I never gave you the right to ask me any question...he knows that he has GIVEN the very same right...

So, he decides to tell her himself...from his mouth...why risk her version of it to Paro...which was imminent...whatever his immediate reasons were ...I liked it that he is dealing with the issue head on...and being completely honest about it...I would expect no less...and today I was reminded what makes me interested in Rudy's character...

What I liked about today...that we have been missing since last few days...

Where characters ...who looked more real...and whose emotions I could connect to...The characters are who they are...not someone else...Liked how Paros perceptive powers came back...when she sensed that Rudy was trying to hide something...liked Rudy's reflex response of not owing an answer ...as a matter of habit until he thought about what is different...👏

Good progress...may be there is hope after all...love the symbolism about blindfold...and opening eyes...Didn't Priya...made a post about that symbolism and picked up on it a few days back...? Good Catch! 👍🏼

Shwets...great collage bud!

Overall, quite good...even though I was annoyed with Laila entering the house and encroaching the couples personal space...Rudy's confession caused by her presence is very interesting!

And

I am finding KCM Laila equation to be interesting...both women have HUGE personalities...it would be quite a riot if she does marry Sumair...😆

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Reserved for one development I noticed...today...

That is Maithalis hubby coming up with a business idea of about embroidery work...I can totally see...Paro supporting him and Maithli...and using her own talent...to make this a thriving business...and a way to have a sense of independence...Nice!

But seriously what kind of mother ridicules her own sons like this?

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Zeeliciousxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yay you're back! Glad you felt inspired enough to write something!

I also don't like how after couples fall in love they are shown to become all mushy, and the man is shown to become super dependent on his wife. How bleh is that?!

Today's episode was a huge Laila overdose but if you ignore all of her scenes (😆) I felt that some of the old RR was back. My favourite part of the episode was when Rudra reminded Paro that he had fed her burnt aloo ki sabzi/roti...he was basically saying to Laila: Paro knows all of this already...she knows what I eat and what I like and dislike...it's nothing new to her...Laila's face after he said that compensated for all her other OTT facial expressions 😆

I also loved how he indirectly told Laila that she was his aadat, but not his pasan.

Rudra owes Laila some sort of closure but this woman is so bat crazy all she deserves right now is a tight slap across the face. I wonder how the confession will go down tomorrow...what I'm afraid is that Paro will feel Laila belongs with Rudra because she was with him for 8 years...like I don't think I can handle that...and can Laila please not get so much screen space...seeing that woman on-screen constantly is suffocating...I don't want 5 minutes of Parud and 15 minutes of bakwaas (Mohini, Laila crap)...it should be the other way around...

What was that sudden randomness with Samrat and Mohini? 😆 What a blatantly filler scene...

One thing I didn't like today was how Rudra held onto Laila's wrist when he was talking to her. I get that he is a man of emotions and so in a fit of anger grabbed Laila's wrist, but why did he have to keep a hold on her wrist? You can only grab/hold a woman like that when you have some sort of haq over her, and like even Laila said, Rudra has no haq over her. So he should keep his hands to himself.

Another user, Rupunzale, described why Rudra holding Laila's wrist was inappropriate in a very good way on her/his own thread, but I don't know if I can copy and paste what she/he said, so I will just post the direct link to her/his comment if you're interested in reading: Direct Link

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Jasmin

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Posted: 11 years ago

Sush I will hopefully get back to u tomwo, sleep calls!

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Hope

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Posted: 11 years ago

Sush, you are back...

----UnReserved------

Nice Post, Sush. I am really happy to see your post. Thank you for posting, I know it was not easy for you to make a post with the current track. I am happy that the truth will finally be out tomorrow. And I am glad it will be Rudra and not the other ladt who reveals it to Paro. For a second today I thought Laila was going to spill the beans to Paro and Man! was I horrified ?😆.

I decided to shut down the logical part of my brain for this track 😃 or else it was getting difficult for me to watch RR. Any way I loved how Rudra gave back to Laila at the beginning. It was bang on. I would have loved it more if he had told her to knock before entering PaRud room the next time 😉. That said, Rudra's next encounter with Laila didn't meet my expectations. The Rudra with killer attitude was missing there for me. And Ufff! the hand hold...Nothing to say there 😳. I guess his past habits kicked in at that point 😛.

Laila is turning into a Psycho by each day and making it hard for me to look at her. I just couldn't watch her, when she wore Paro's bangles and held on to her sindoor dabba. She looked so creepy. If that scene was meant to be creepy, then kudos to CV"s for nailing it 👏. That whole scene left a bad taste in my mouth. And I really don't understand why a couple's bedroom, which is their personal space is treated as a public foot path in Indian teles . Anyone walks in and out as they please, no privacy at all 😡. I mean... Oops! sorry... No point in banging my head... Didn't I say, no logic thinking 😃.

I enjoyed the PaRud moments to the fullest 😳 as I have a feeling that I won't get to watch such sweet moments of PaRud any time soon. I don't know what will happen after tomorrow. But from all the build up, like the storm, the lights... etc I am sure it is not going to be good . I think, I am more nervous than Rudra about the truth coming out 😕and more eager than Laila to see Paro's reaction 😵. I just hope CV's make it all worth it *Fingers Crossed*. I mean, we did endure this whole crappy track for this one revelation. Didn't we?😔 Also I wish they don't drag Paro's reaction for next week. Now that would definitely ruin my weekend.

I know my post looks messed up today. But so am I. This track is taking its toll on me. I want it to end. Sooonnn. I can't take the fevicol lady any more.

I would like to end with a quote:

"If you shut up the truth ad bury it under the ground, it will but grow, and gather to itself such explosivec power that the day it bursts it will blow up everything in its way."

Emile Zola

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Tennessean

@Tennessean

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Sush- It is nice to see you back and a nice post.👏

Shweta- great collage.👏

These are some of my thoughts.

1) Major- He is very much in the hubby mode and took full care of Bai Sa.😛 He fed her, wiped her lips, made her go to sleep. But his only mistake was when he held Laila's hand and she made a game out of it. It did go to Paro Bai Sa's knowledge and she asked Major directly as to why did he hold her hand. Major was back in his usual self that he didn't give anybody the right to question. Now if he had said this thing a month ago, then it wouldn't have made a difference. However, today the situation has changed and they are much closer to each other.

2) Paro Bai Sa- She loved being pampered and showered with attention.😛 She was made to sleep in the most affectionate manner and she loved every bit of it. I really loved that scene when Major puts her to bed. 😉 It was nice to see her patti open but she may have to see and hear the harshest reality of her life. It is going to hurt big time but everything depends on what she has to say. Major cannot change his past, but she can give a future to her and Major's life. 😛

3) Laila- Stop touching other people's stuff. 😡 I didn't like it when she was taking the patti away from Bai Sa. Talk of torture. Also, why did she put on the churis on and why touch the sindoor? Those are exclusive property of Paro Bai sa. Yes, she has her name on it. Bas. I just have one thing to say to her. You are on an airport waiting for a ship.

Precap- I wrote in Diya's post yesterday and I am going to say it again that I am glad that the truth is coming out from Major's mouth and not through KCM or Laila. We just to wait for Bai sa's decision on this one

I didn't know what to choose for today's acrostic, so I chose "Care" keeping that Parud moment in mind.

C- Cozy( Major made Bai Sa feel cozy and comfy by making her go to sleep)😛
A- Awesome(how he wiped her lips and she loved it)😉
R- Razor-sharp (When he yelled at Laila for wearing her churi)👏
E- Effective (Truth is important in Parud relationship and I like that it is coming from him, she deserves to know and he should be the one to tell)👏

Everybody- buckle up for the storm. We are going to sail through this together.😊

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Hope
Sush, you are back...

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Ha ha like Rudy...felt its best to tell it in my own words...😆

EDIT ADDITION

Hi Guys,

I have to issue an apology for using a gif image in a post a few days back...that was insensitive...

Although it wasn't my intention to criticize Rudy boys crying looks in such an insensitive manner, and the post was made in jest...and those who read my post know I do not hold that opinion about his looks in general at all...but I did use a gif that wasn't appropriate...Yes...the one with Zooey Deschanel...! If it offended your feelings ...my sincere apologies...even though it wasn't intended...the gif was insensitive! Sush promises to be more careful in future!

PLEASE FORGIVE ME!

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo
Yay you're back! Glad you felt inspired enough to write something!

I also don't like how after couples fall in love they are shown to become all mushy, and the man is shown to become super dependent on his wife. How bleh is that?!

Today's episode was a huge Laila overdose but if you ignore all of her scenes (😆) I felt that some of the old RR was back. My favourite part of the episode was when Rudra reminded Paro that he had fed her burnt aloo ki sabzi/roti...he was basically saying to Laila: Paro knows all of this already...she knows what I eat and what I like and dislike...it's nothing new to her...Laila's face after he said that compensated for all her other OTT facial expressions 😆

I also loved how he indirectly told Laila that she was his aadat, but not his pasan.

Rudra owes Laila some sort of closure but this woman is so bat crazy all she deserves right now is a tight slap across the face. I wonder how the confession will go down tomorrow...what I'm afraid is that Paro will feel Laila belongs with Rudra because she was with him for 8 years...like I don't think I can handle that...and can Laila please not get so much screen space...seeing that woman on-screen constantly is suffocating...I don't want 5 minutes of Parud and 15 minutes of bakwaas (Mohini, Laila crap)...it should be the other way around...

What was that sudden randomness with Samrat and Mohini? 😆 What a blatantly filler scene...

One thing I didn't like today was how Rudra held onto Laila's wrist when he was talking to her. I get that he is a man of emotions and so in a fit of anger grabbed Laila's wrist, but why did he have to keep a hold on her wrist? You can only grab/hold a woman like that when you have some sort of haq over her, and like even Laila said, Rudra has no haq over her. So he should keep his hands to himself.

Another user, Rupunzale, described why Rudra holding Laila's wrist was inappropriate in a very good way on her/his own thread, but I don't know if I can copy and paste what she/he said, so I will just post the direct link to her/his comment if you're interested in reading: Direct Link

Z...I have been thinking ..could it be dependence means love is a very Indian concept and livng abroad for so many years...some of us have come to believe that dependence and love arenot synonymous with each other!

About Rudy holding her wrist...as much as he wants to leave her...he can not change the fact that he has been intimate with her...and some interactions come natural to him...he would neve hold Maithlis hand that way...would he?

Inappropriate it was...no doubt!

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-Shwets-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Sush , Thank You for making a post 🤗

Great Post ...Oh how I missed your post past few days . Good to have you and the characters I love back .😃

"When we turn around & come face to face with our destiny, we discover that words (spoken) are not enough. I know so many people who are brilliant speakers but are quite incapable of practising what they preach. It's one thing to describe a situation & quite another to experience it.

I realised a long time ago that a warrior in search of his dream must take his inspiration from what he actually does & not from what he imagines himself doing."

Paulo Coelho

"I'm different. I will give you my treasure chest of darkness first. If you can handle that, then I'll bring out my shining moons. If one cannot handle the darkness, then one should not deserve the light. I have no interest in "trapping" anyone into a silken web. I have no silken web."

C.JoyBell C.

Yuck moments...

Laila walking in Rudra/ Paro's room like it's her own room.

Sleeping on Rudra/ Paro's bed .

Wearing Paro's bangles.

CV's please make me happy tomorrow ...want to see Paro demand Laila to return her bangles ...the very fact Laila is still wearing them there is hope.

Evil at it's best ... this is what I expected from a seasoned player like Laila not silly mirchi powder drama .

RR promo's in the past have been deceptive ...My gut feeling ,Laila's plan will back fire ...Paro is mentally much stronger than Laila .

Well be ready for a new business venture with Dilsher's ashirwad ...Kadai work ...Business owner Paro / Samrat / Mithali .

Mr Shakawat superb opening dialogue.👏

Cameraman was at his best , some great camera angles and lighting .👏

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Tennessean

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Hi Sush- I forgot to mention in my post that the new business would do a whole lot for Samrat's personality and he could even employ Sumer which would give him a new life too.😊

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