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Posted: 11 years ago
#31
Agreed with lot of your views . It is only natural to say she will be hurt shocked confused.
But its a good time to ask where does she stand . Rudra may not have an answer now.

But i want a stronger Paro. And definitely donot want her to give Laila the pleasure.
Come on Rise PARO.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: _SilverLining_

I guess all I want from Paro is to be human!!

Paro is a girl who has grown up believing in true love and the importance of love and trust in any relationship. Rudra's revelation challenges all the values and ideals that her life is based on, the idea of her husband having physical relationship with a girl for 8 long years should shake a girl like Paro to her roots.

But given Paro's character, she's not just anothet village girl. She is intelligent and perceptive, and after the initial shock, she should recover, in my view. The same beliefs about true love and trust in a relationship would make her stand up tall once again, coz for one Rudra did what he did only before their marriage and two, if he didn't love her, trust her, was not afraid of losing her to demure misunderstandings created by Laila, he wouldn't have confided in her at all.

I guess all I want the is for the CVs to show appropriate responses on Paro's part. This is an important track in their story, coz for the first tym the focus is all on Paro and her reactions and I just want them to handle it with care. I may be expecting too much from them, but plzz don't make Paro do stupid things. She has brains, show her thoughts. Make her show some emotions, make her REACT!! That's all I want.

Completely agree - first time in 5 months - the story comes to focus on Paro. This is where RR is going to rise or flop - a fantastic intelligent response from Paro and we are on track for an exciting ride. A clichd sacrificial stupid track and that's it for the show.
Paro's character has to have impact for RR to succeed. It's what has been missing all this while - the view point of the female lead - to whom most of the viewers usually relate to.
She needs to
1. ask him where she stand in the picture and get a response.
2. stop trusting Laila - someone who figured KCM out so well in no time - cannot be shown as dumb with Laila - I don't want a situation where she confides the bholenath promise to Laila and leaves - with Laila twisting the purpose of her leaving to Rudra on the age old 'beautiful women don't stay' premise.
Edited by ipkrr - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33
U noe guys, m impressed wid this post! Its one of d most well read post on i.f. i hav come across! Usually i Dont go through all the comments in a particular post, but d kind of english everyone has used is commendable! Loved reading every bit of this post!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: monaya_sajan

<font size="5">U noe guys, m impressed wid this post! Its one of d most well read post on i.f. i hav come across! Usually i Dont go through all the comments in a particular post, but d kind of english everyone has used is commendable! Loved reading every bit of this post!</font>


I second that!
@TM 👍🏼 for making this post
Loved reading the replies too!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35
First reaction will of course be utter shock.
Paro is a village bred girl and she knew nothing of the outside world until Rudra came into her life. Slowly but surely he has shown her some of the outside world. Of course the initial shock of what happened with Tejawat she couldn't believe but she got over it and moved on.
This however is something she has never seen nor heard of.
She is completely in love with Rudra so for her this could shatter her trust in him, make her see him in not a good a light like she always has. She may even stop talking to him but the one I would honestly like is that after knowing the truth she doesn't believe Laila. I do hope that this may also open her eyes in the fact that Laila is only there to break them two apart.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: _SilverLining_

I guess all I want from Paro is to be human!!

Paro is a girl who has grown up believing in true love and the importance of love and trust in any relationship. Rudra's revelation challenges all the values and ideals that her life is based on, the idea of her husband having physical relationship with a girl for 8 long years should shake a girl like Paro to her roots.

But given Paro's character, she's not just anothet village girl. She is intelligent and perceptive, and after the initial shock, she should recover, in my view. The same beliefs about true love and trust in a relationship would make her stand up tall once again, coz for one Rudra did what he did only before their marriage and two, if he didn't love her, trust her, was not afraid of losing her to demure misunderstandings created by Laila, he wouldn't have confided in her at all.

I guess all I want the is for the CVs to show appropriate responses on Paro's part. This is an important track in their story, coz for the first tym the focus is all on Paro and her reactions and I just want them to handle it with care. I may be expecting too much from them, but plzz don't make Paro do stupid things. She has brains, show her thoughts. Make her show some emotions, make her REACT!! That's all I want.


Beautifully stated!!

How Paro responds to this more or less lays the foundation for their relationship.

@ red- I fervently hope so too.. Human with all emotions that come with it.. Anger, jealousy, insecurity the whole deal, especially when you have actors of such calibre (*refering to Sanaya and Ashish here).. If dealt well, this is a real opportunity to show what Rangrasiya is about.

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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: monaya_sajan

completely support ur pt no 4

4. Considering she does decide to accept and move on, can she ever really TRUST him completely?

Had i been paro's place it wud have been hard for me to trust rudra again! Being inhuman is ok, bt having a physical relationshp n dat too for 8 long yrs is difficult to digest!


Also u r right wen u say dat he shud b asked to get a HIV test done n also b checked for STDs dat he may hav contracted, bcoz come'on laila isnt a normal girl raised in a normal family. She has a splitting personality of wh**e too! So asking rudra to cme clean is must!

But den again, she is d uneducated paro who didnt e1 knw wat a mixer was! Wat can b expected out of her!

M really looking forward to her ans! She shudnt forgive him right away! He wudmt repent n realize his mistake den!


You picked out exactly those parts where it was me imagining myself in the situation and not Paro..😃

Like you said I too would find it extremely difficult to trust such a man again.. I mean what he did before its his life and his decisions. If you spend 8 years with someone, ones' bound to have some feelings. Even for an animal you keep for 8 yrs you would have some emotional bond. No insult intended there to anyone, just stating a point..

And while speaking about STDs it wasn't just Laila i was concerned about.. The kind of person that Rudra is shown to be its very unlikely he was in a monogamous relationship with Laila. There must have been others too, its a reasonable assumption.. Its not logically possible for him to reach back to Laila every night, so a prostitute or a one night stand in between is very much a possibility if he was as emotionally detached as he claims to be.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ipkrr

Completely agree - first time in 5 months - the story comes to focus on Paro. This is where RR is going to rise or flop - a fantastic intelligent response from Paro and we are on track for an exciting ride. A clichd sacrificial stupid track and that's it for the show.
Paro's character has to have impact for RR to succeed. It's what has been missing all this while - the view point of the female lead - to whom most of the viewers usually relate to.
She needs to
1. ask him where she stand in the picture and get a response.
2. stop trusting Laila - someone who figured KCM out so well in no time - cannot be shown as dumb with Laila - I don't want a situation where she confides the bholenath promise to Laila and leaves - with Laila twisting the purpose of her leaving to Rudra on the age old 'beautiful women don't stay' premise.


That's to summarise the situation perfectly.

Unless Paro clarifies her position, it would be a track put to waste with a superficial treatment. After a huge revelation she cannot go about with her blind trust in Rudra. She has to take a stand.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39
Shocked. Hurt. Disbelief. Broken. Torn. Upset. Needs time. Distances herself maybe.
All acceptable and needed reactions.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: angelarabia

I think she is entitled to be hurt and Saddened and angered for the fact that he didn't tell her this when she was insisting on Laila to stay in their house, for him to just say she worked for him. She should be angry! But she has seen him in his worst, she knows how horrible his past life was, and has been with him with journey and she sees the change. I feel like she should be hurt, she could even be angry at him but not blame him and leave him. Paro is really understanding person. She wanted him when he was mean and cruel to her. So she could have all those emotional real feelings but she is allowed to look past his not so good past. May be after sometime but she could forgive him. That's what I think.


👏 I agree with you. I too think that after the initial shock and hurt, she may display anger at the fact that he did not tell her. He ought to have known better than letting her insists. But she has seen him at his worst and she accepted him. He has constantly asked her why you love me, I'm a thrown, and she has repeated said bas ho gaya pyar katte se. She can also see the visible changes. She also knows what Laila who thinks of Rudra as Jhanvar (sorry if misspelled - hindi is not my first or second language). I think she will probably asked him if he has any feelings for her now or is there anything between them now. That will be the defining line on how she deals with Laila. I'm giving Paro credit to read into Laila's innuendos. I'd like to see Laila's plots bites the dust. It'll be so cliche if she distances herself or be the sacrificial lamb.

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