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Posted: 11 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Msfrootie


Going by the trend of making female leads' super humanly saintly behavior, there is the possibility of Paro feeling too sorry for Laila for the treatment she recieved.. I hope they give her sufficient brains to judge the real Laila, not what she presents in front of Paro.

That thought is indeed scary.,
I hope Paro realizes mera path i sirf mera hai,
And won't go by what Laila thinks which is
Uska pathi Sirf mera hai...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very Good Post. I have been thinking about all this since i saw the latest promo. But i know they will show her reaction next week and keep us haunting over the weekend.
But all these were my thoughts too.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anz11

First i think paro should respect rudra for the confession...atleast its coming from him not from an outsider.

it takes a lot of courage to say something to ur wife, so rudra 👏

Now comes the reality.

Yes from where paro is coming from she will be be shocked and toned apart.
But i think she also respect a marriage a lot.

My only fear paro is too naive and laila is too cunning.'

she has all right to distance herself from rudra but PLEASE DONT HANDOVER UR HUSBAND TO LAILA... IT WILL KILL PARO'S CHARACTER FOREVER.

she needs to understand that a relationship from a soul is more pure and above than any physical relationship.

if physical need is the only a core of a relation... then there would never be a brothel.

paro will grow up now. she better.




About the part in red-

Wont she wonder if it was just a physical relation and not an emotional one (as he claims) why did he go to the same woman every night for 8 years and not a brothel??

Shouldnt she wonder about how deep the relation between Rudra and Laila really is?

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Posted: 11 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: fiza005

If he confess that he loves paro then she should definitely forget his past and move on. ,she should ask him where does she stand in his life . She might definitely think that'
She came in between.hope rudr confess his love too.


@ Red- Thanks for pointing that out.. Yes, that should be something I would be very happy to see.. A stronger Paro emerging from the situation
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@tm: I second ur opinion..I dn think there's anything to forgive..Rudra didn't mislead paro into thinking he ws flawless or anything less than a beast.. It ws paro who recognized the goodness in him..the impact of the darkness that ws his life before she cm in mit shock her, bt she wont hold it against him..
moreover, he himself realized today that he is answerable to her..before today, he didnt kno it either..so the question of y he didn't tell her before doesnt arise..
bt finally, its upto the cvs whr they wanna take this track..js hope wherever it goes, it leaves laila out of the story
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: CandYlicious_S

Deepti Sa .. Our Paro is unpredictable and its so difficult to predict how her reaction would be.

I am ready to accept any kind of reaction EXCEPT Paro handing over laila to Rudra. This is a tried and tested track and our RR has been refreshingly unique. So I hope CV maintain it that way. <3

Paro would find it hard to digest because it is difficult for a girl like her to expect an existance of such type of twisted relationship. The background from where she has come, she cannot imagine a man and woman being physically related yet sharing no commitment s between them. She would need time and would be numb after the revelation for sure.

But lets see how track unfold. I wish to see anything than my fear which I just shared. loving the intensity and complexity of emotions :D


That's exactly what scares me too.. All the other responses are acceptable. Let her sulk for some time if likes or instantly forgive him. If she does this it will be a total ekta story..

Its a scenario for a lot of intensity and exploring their emotions I hope they utilise it to the maximum..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: princessunara

I think Paro would be hurt and confused.. honest to god confused cz she wouldn't know how to deal with this!!
For a while I think, whatever her reaction is would be knee jerk. And i wouldn't count on it.

she would feel sad, she would worry about him being so unfeeling, she might feel sad for Laila too. but she will be baffled cz for her, with her own upbringing a different issue will arise.
She was bottle fed all her life that intimacy exists b/w a man and woman only due to love and/or marriage (which too for her most likely spelled the same thing)
And she is going to be confused as to if Rudra ever loved Laila to have a sexual thing with her.
think about it, isn't she entitled to think so? this is not us who despite our own upbringing and beliefs, know that different situations do exist? For Paro in bhirpur without newspapers, TV or internet and the sheltered life she had she is bound to come to this conclusion.

what she will do with this remains to see. but she might confusedly believe in Rudra that he never loved Laila too.. she is just going to be hurt, sad and utterly confused..

as for a correct reaction, until i stand in Paro's shoes i will never really know..

as u said there are no right or wrong reactions.. its subjective.


Agree with you Sunara.. The inherent goodness in Paro (which I frankly feel a little exaggerated at times) would force her to sympathise with Laila's plight in the whole debacle.. To what extent will her sympathy go? I hope she thinks of what Rudra wants too, before making a decision..

With her strong belief in love, she can either suspect that Rudra did have an emotional bond with Laila whatever he says.. After all its 8 years with one woman, how can one not be emotionally invested in that? Even if its a next door neighbor or colleague for 8 years there will be a bond, may be of friendship in that case.. He is bound to have some feelings for her, especially when seen from Paro's POV. Alternate scenario of her not thinking him capable of love seems unlikely as the USP of the show is a girl who believes in love and a who doesn't..


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I guess all I want from Paro is to be human!!

Paro is a girl who has grown up believing in true love and the importance of love and trust in any relationship. Rudra's revelation challenges all the values and ideals that her life is based on, the idea of her husband having physical relationship with a girl for 8 long years should shake a girl like Paro to her roots.

But given Paro's character, she's not just anothet village girl. She is intelligent and perceptive, and after the initial shock, she should recover, in my view. The same beliefs about true love and trust in a relationship would make her stand up tall once again, coz for one Rudra did what he did only before their marriage and two, if he didn't love her, trust her, was not afraid of losing her to demure misunderstandings created by Laila, he wouldn't have confided in her at all.

I guess all I want the is for the CVs to show appropriate responses on Paro's part. This is an important track in their story, coz for the first tym the focus is all on Paro and her reactions and I just want them to handle it with care. I may be expecting too much from them, but plzz don't make Paro do stupid things. She has brains, show her thoughts. Make her show some emotions, make her REACT!! That's all I want.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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completely support ur pt no 4

4. Considering she does decide to accept and move on, can she ever really TRUST him completely?

Had i been paro's place it wud have been hard for me to trust rudra again! Being inhuman is ok, bt having a physical relationshp n dat too for 8 long yrs is difficult to digest!


Also u r right wen u say dat he shud b asked to get a HIV test done n also b checked for STDs dat he may hav contracted, bcoz come'on laila isnt a normal girl raised in a normal family. She has a splitting personality of wh**e too! So asking rudra to cme clean is must!

But den again, she is d uneducated paro who didnt e1 knw wat a mixer was! Wat can b expected out of her!

M really looking forward to her ans! She shudnt forgive him right away! He wudmt repent n realize his mistake den!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: asmi279

@tm: I second ur opinion..I dn think there's anything to forgive..Rudra didn't mislead paro into thinking he ws flawless or anything less than a beast.. It ws paro who recognized the goodness in him..the impact of the darkness that ws his life before she cm in mit shock her, bt she wont hold it against him..

moreover, he himself realized today that he is answerable to her..before today, he didnt kno it either..so the question of y he didn't tell her before doesnt arise..
bt finally, its upto the cvs whr they wanna take this track..js hope wherever it goes, it leaves laila out of the story


@ red-
Good point, that he came to this decision after instinctively saying he's not answerable to anyone.. This explains the transformation in Rudra a little more.. If anyone it will be Paro who recognises this, I hope..


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