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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

🤗..Bai Sa...love you...and thank you for writing all that I felt but was too lazy to pen down. The post would have turned into a thesis for PaRud Phd. 😃

I agree 100% with every word of yours. And in my mind I call it the Great Paro Disconnect. In their quest to make her pristine and pure and godly and devout...the cvs turned her into such a religious and moral zealot that I , a modern and logical woman of this age, just fail to connect with her.
Now who in the hell falls for a guy overnight just cause he protects you. Who in the hell believes that Godji is sending signals and messages all along that he is the chosen one by broken bracelets, and khoon bhari maangs, and a voodoo doll, and a prasaad ka phool and a ghanti ...and ..their names and dreams...and...phew.. let is be, shrey the list is way too long and exhausting. Just imagine the humor in the situation that he is her destined one coz she is Paro and he is Rudra. What happens if tomorrow the dudhwaala's name turns out to Shiva, or the subzi waala's name is Shankar...shaadi cancel ??? Just coz she is Parvati...her name has to be linked with a Bholenath's namesake??? Goli maar do hum sab ko...
Her public proposal (and mind you not for love...for marriage a la sindoor ) was sounding more like a religious sermon. No wonder Rudra fled like there was no tomorrow. And every time he said have u lost it...I just couldn't help echo his feelings. Gosh, even if a guy genuinely had feelings for her, with such behavior in sight, he would simply tell himself to forget it. She would probably scare the daylights out of him.
And yes, I want her to fall in love with Rudra, the man, for what he is. I want her to feel attracted to him, to appreciate his values, his good looks, his valour, his stand, his tenderness that lies beneath that rough faade. I want her to love him like a woman does a man...not accept him like we accept Prasad at a temple, eat it mechanically and then brush off our hands.
Lets just say Bai Sa...once again my penchant for honesty has landed me in deep trouble and I will pay a price for sure...😆

Eve Hi 5 !!
I think u hav not yet read my new TS. but I would love to quote the preface , I wrote there to the readers. here it is :

Piya bawari :

dear readers,
this time I have tried to write a story from paro's point of view. and this is my version of paro, who is made of same flesh and blood as we are of. she also imagines, dreams. and responds to rudra's attractiveness and succumbs to physical passions and desire. I refuse to imagine her as a christian saint, godfearing, always afraid of her sexuality. she is innocently adventurous,demurely bold and passionately curious, about this new awakening of feelings in her mind and body regarging rudrr. she is to me, the mythological goddess Parvati who also an innocent virgin maiden, never felt shy to express her love and desire blatantly towards Mahadev ! so,as i hav said, it is my POV, feel free to differ !




Actually I got so disgusted of forum's and also CV's tendency to treat paro as a model of innocence,mercy and divinely blessed, the very impersonation of virgin mary and angels that they refuse her right of feeling attracted physically, falling in love for mere mundane reasons, do mistakes and correct them like a normal woman.
Edited by shreya_rc - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#42
Rudra had no intention of marrying her but he still made paro sleep in his room for safety sake.. He could have assigned a female cop .. There are enough lady army officers.. But no... He jumped at her in the hospital.. Then when his father called her his fiance... He cribbed but did not back down from the case.. He was not wholly professional.. He touched her whenever he wanted to.. During chudi leela..during Mehandi then heights during haldi shower...
Good ness gracious he touched intimately at the back.. She's an innocent virgin...
You seriously think a girl who has lived with a man for 2 months without the virtue of marriage in indian rural areas is accepted back in her family..
No.., I have seen cases where girls gave been forced to marry boys not of their liking..when the guys have compromised the girls just by taking them out for minor dates like going to movies or going out for lunch..
Semi urban india is very very conservative..if rudra does not marry her paro will be termed a fallen woman in her village.. Since rudra himself came from those parts he obviously should have understood that he cannot take such a case without handling repercussions..
He should opted for a female chaperone with him always..his heart and mind both know he's not been totally professional with paro.. So better be a man and act responsibily
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Posted: 11 years ago
#43
To be honest while I love the feisty Paro and her unconventional step of proposing to Rudra I do also see the pressure being placed on Rudra due to this as unfair to him!

Agreed that he forced her earlier and even intimidated her to the point that she had no option but to inflict self injury even...but the situation was different,,,they both knew the other did not want the wedding..and were looking to get out of it!

But now Paro is telling him time and again that he has to marry her because they are destined to be together...she feels her prayers have been answered and he is h life partner...she wants his happiness too...but fact remains that he still does not see it..!

As the audience we know that Rudra has feelings for Paro and is fighting them but she does not...she is just determined to MAKE him realise that they are meant for each other when he outwardly says that he wants nothing to do with her...however she has seen signs that she means more to him than he is letting on...so working on him expressing those feelings is fine...but so much emphasis on marriage and togetherness at this point is not good for him...it's frustrating to hum because no one sees his POV...and he has no one to talk to also!

So in essence yes we probably are guilty of enjoying this track because it's different and the lady proposed and we love that!😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: msin

Rudra had no intention of marrying her but he still made paro sleep in his room for safety sake.. He could have assigned a female cop .. There are enough lady army officers.. But no... He jumped at her in the hospital.. Then when his father called her his fiance... He cribbed but did not back down from the case.. He was not wholly professional.. He touched her whenever he wanted to.. During chudi leela..during Mehandi then heights during haldi shower...

Good ness gracious he touched intimately at the back.. She's an innocent virgin...
You seriously think a girl who has lived with a man for 2 months without the virtue of marriage in indian rural areas is accepted back in her family..
No.., I have seen cases where girls gave been forced to marry boys not of their liking..when the guys have compromised the girls just by taking them out for minor dates like going to movies or going out for lunch..
Semi urban india is very very conservative..if rudra does not marry her paro will be termed a fallen woman in her village.. Since rudra himself came from those parts he obviously should have understood that he cannot take such a case without handling repercussions..
He should opted for a female chaperone with him always..his heart and mind both know he's not been totally professional with paro.. So better be a man and act responsibily


Very true... if Rudra would not have forced her for marriage, Paro would not have believed all this signs... Now Paro wants to live with smile... so she is holding on Rudra whether he loves her not... she wants to win him as her husband, otherwise she will live sad life with big blemish on her...
She is very brave, compare to average indian girl... in reality in India, a girl can not think of what Paro wants to achieve...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#45
Rudra been handing this situation so stupid, he had eye witness just throw her in a Jail cell for god sake, arrest her it's attempted murder no one should get away with something as such. Paro saved his job and her life is in danger from Tejawat is on the run she should be in the witness protection program.

It's fair enough if Paro can MU Rudra he can do the same as well, If Rudra can force Paro into marriage she can do the same as well it's what goes around comes around!



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Posted: 11 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

Rudra been handing this situation so stupid, he had eye witness just throw her in a Jail cell for god sake, arrest her it's attempted murder no one should get away with something as such. Paro saved his job and her life is in danger from Tejawat is on the run she should be in the witness protection program.

It's fair enough if Paro can MU Rudra he can do the same as well, If Rudra can force Paro into marriage she can do the same as well it's what goes around comes around!




How direct! 😆

And true!
Edited by Exprimere - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#47
@ Eve..

And yes, I want her to fall in love with Rudra, the man, for what he is. I want her to feel attracted to him, to appreciate his values, his good looks, his valour, his stand, his tenderness that lies beneath that rough faade. I want her to love him like a woman does a man...not accept him like we accept Prasad at a temple..


Me too.. Eve, I do Think, she appreciates the tenderness that lies beneath the tough facade. And hence her "marry Rudra" atholan. 😊.. Loving him like a woman does a man.. Hmmm ..that I hope is in the pipeline.. Because a marriage just based on Devotion can only go so far.. 😊


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Posted: 11 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: eveline

🤗..Bai Sa...love you...and thank you for writing all that I felt but was too lazy to pen down. The post would have turned into a thesis for PaRud Phd. 😃

I agree 100% with every word of yours. And in my mind I call it the Great Paro Disconnect. In their quest to make her pristine and pure and godly and devout...the cvs turned her into such a religious and moral zealot that I , a modern and logical woman of this age, just fail to connect with her.
Now who in the hell falls for a guy overnight just cause he protects you. Who in the hell believes that Godji is sending signals and messages all along that he is the chosen one by broken bracelets, and khoon bhari maangs, and a voodoo doll, and a prasaad ka phool and a ghanti ...and ..their names and dreams...and...phew.. let is be, shrey the list is way too long and exhausting. Just imagine the humor in the situation that he is her destined one coz she is Paro and he is Rudra. What happens if tomorrow the dudhwaala's name turns out to Shiva, or the subzi waala's name is Shankar...shaadi cancel ??? Just coz she is Parvati...her name has to be linked with a Bholenath's namesake??? Goli maar do hum sab ko...
Her public proposal (and mind you not for love...for marriage a la sindoor ) was sounding more like a religious sermon. No wonder Rudra fled like there was no tomorrow. And every time he said have u lost it...I just couldn't help echo his feelings. Gosh, even if a guy genuinely had feelings for her, with such behavior in sight, he would simply tell himself to forget it. She would probably scare the daylights out of him.
And yes, I want her to fall in love with Rudra, the man, for what he is. I want her to feel attracted to him, to appreciate his values, his good looks, his valour, his stand, his tenderness that lies beneath that rough faade. I want her to love him like a woman does a man...not accept him like we accept Prasad at a temple, eat it mechanically and then brush off our hands.
Lets just say Bai Sa...once again my penchant for honesty has landed me in deep trouble and I will pay a price for sure...😆


@ bold...👏
Because Paro was intimidated they are trying to show her as opposite in every way and making her into this
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Posted: 11 years ago
#49

I understand your argument Eveline...and it is a good one...

BUT ...I dont think it is applicable...
Because Rudy has a CHOICE, after all said and done...
Annoying someone is not a crime...holding them against their will is...and threatening to burn their village and kill their loved ones is coercion...also a crime.
If Rudy got a restraining order against her...it would be a different matter...but for now...she is only proposing...and thats OK to do...
Edited by -Sush- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with you Eve! 100% agree. Couldn't have said it better.

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