Sushpective: The way I look at it... - Page 4

Great post loved it !! And look who is back, was in Arizona for conference.
Still training to catch up . Well I think he is trying to convince her that if you hate him why you have to marry just do the easy way and run. But she knows how hard was it for Rudra as well so she is staying still. But now I think Rudra feelings has been changed over the time . He wants both thukar and paro. That's why he is like both issues will be resolved . I feel more strong hatered from paro and may be getting worse cause of Rudra harassing her. I agreed that there is no romance it was actually freaking me out. Rest I think was okay . All are playing their games. Let's see who wons

Originally posted by: Alyzeh

Great post loved it !! And look who is back, was in Arizona for conference.
Still training to catch up . Well I think he is trying to convince her that if you hate him why you have to marry just do the easy way and run. But she knows how hard was it for Rudra as well so she is staying still. But now I think Rudra feelings has been changed over the time . He wants both thukar and paro. That's why he is like both issues will be resolved . I feel more strong hatered from paro and may be getting worse cause of Rudra harassing her. I agreed that there is no romance it was actually freaking me out. Rest I think was okay . All are playing their games. Let's see who wons

Good to see your post, Sush. With you about the time issue. Being active of IF eats up a chunk of the free time. I do hope you continue posting when time permits.

Both are desperate, yes. But I am going to go with Paro here. Whatever mess the man is in, he brought it upon himself with his foolhardy ways. The man in bordering on abuse here. Hope they don't proceed with the forced marriage.

The issue for me is not as much about the said scene, but the way people lapped it up as oh so romantic.

Originally posted by: -Sush-

I think the makers are pushing the limits ..at least Ashish is a good actor and can show that he has both emotions...concern as well as abuse...another show I watched along the same lines ..the male protagonist was either written to be a total abuser...or the conflicting emotions didn't come through...either way...I lasted about 6 weeks on that one, as all the darkness became unbearable. I just hope this show does not become like the other one...or I would really be extremely disappointed...sometimes I feel that the makers believe women will accept anything...in the name of romance...I still have hopes for RR...but not 100% confidence...lets see...

Today...was more about domination than sexual abuse...The touching was limited to hand touching ,...unlike the other day...when it went to her neck...The dialogues were also more about a fight and who will win...not so much about a sexual threat...but the ritual became an exercise to mark her...as his...to own...a very primitive concept for domination...

Just as a side note...everytime my ipad misspells Ashishs name...I think of this Chinese guy I worked with who used to call a colleague of mine by the name Ashish...ASHISHI...I used to find that so funny...Aa SHISHI😆

Originally posted by: .bohemian.

Good to see your post, Sush. With you about the time issue. Being active of IF eats up a chunk of the free time. I do hope you continue posting when time permits.

Both are desperate, yes. But I am going to go with Paro here. Whatever mess the man is in, he brought it upon himself with his foolhardy ways. The man in bordering on abuse here. Hope they don't proceed with the forced marriage.

The issue for me is not as much about the said scene, but the way people lapped it up as oh so romantic.

good post. I don't want this wedding to happen either and especially not without her will.

Originally posted by: -Sush-

It is best not to expect anything regarding MU getting cleared on TV land...

But even if he has feelings for her...which are unnamed feelings...as yet...he would never admit it in front of Aman...he has to show that this is a completely detached plan...

I know...tv land and that too Indian. But what has appalled me tremendously is the way members here have been asking me to accept this as mere entertainment. In many words they are asking me to accept this abuse /sexual harassment as entertainment. I don't know which part of the world they are from but the fact that they cannot welcome free speech is extremely appalling. Also, many has said that this is just fiction...and has suggested me to watch it like it is. The only question I had for them was...when did woman getting sexually harassed get entertaining in India or is has always being that way? Is raping a Criminal/ suspect / witness justifiable in the process of acquiring information/ interrogation? That is what Rudra is doing...raping Pado's soul repeatedly. If rape is a haneous crime and a rapist cannot be forgiven...that applies for Rudra too...there should be zero tolerance for any kind of sexual harassment.

He was sexually abusing her... There is no other word for it..

Originally posted by: msin

He was sexually abusing her... There is no other word for it..

Ashish acted really well. I absolutely got repulsed by him in the kitchen... Somebody I was finding very hot the day before...

No matter how. Grave the reason...rudra is abusing paro..

But they need to get married... Because looking at the outside world paro will only stay protected if she is with rudra... She will be eaten alive by wolves ...looking at her beauty..

Rudra has to marry Paro... After that she may reject him lock the bedroom door at his face I agree to all that.. But in rural Rajasthan she needs to be staying at his house as mrs Parvati rudra pratap ranavat..

No just as paro in some freaking shelter or jail..

msin...there shouldn't be a marriage at any cost. She needs to be far away from him...anything...anywhere but not with him under any circumstances...not after today. There should be zero tolerance for sexual harassment...marrying your abuser should not be the message.