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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettypri


Have they mentioned that already?I thought maya was thakurains name!


Abb Maya ho ya Mala, kee farak paindaa hai. Jo Biryaani jalaani thi, wo toh jalaa hi di na.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said MKM ...
Paro is the one who will reap the seeds sowed by Dilsher and Maya ..
but then this is what generally happens ...
sub kuch to wife ko hi shehna parta hai ...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sofna

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Yayy That female Jallad got her comeuppance. She doesn't hesitate to play with a person's feelings, weakness, that too her own nephew. Gosh how does she spew so much venom? Is she not a mother herself? What a coward, that she relishes on other's pain and humiliation. Till now Sr Ranawat stayed away from stooping to her level, but today, he struck her where it hurts most too, Grandchildren, she deserved it!!

PaRud in sync, she has the pump/water ready just as he asks.

Time is the best of healers. Although the lesson came too late in learning for Dilsher, he too had no other way of coping other than to pour bitterness into his son regarding women. Today age, wisdom, experience is shouting to him to protect his only child from that similar fate. It is not simply a reaction to Mohini. He desperately wants his only child to stop suffering and live a happy life.

I understand what you're saying Vicky Sa, but that is humans at the end of the day na?. We are not perfect. Especially at times, when our self- control, intelligence, common sense, and foresight is required we get swayed more with emotions of the situation we are engulfed in. I have done it myself. The pain of the moment outweighs the consequences of our actions later. Dilsher coped with his grief by laying the blame on Maya's door, turning her son against her & the female species.

But for the human in Rudra it is 15 yrs too late. That is almost half a lifetime spent in drowning in poison about his mum and women. Rudra is right, he should have thought then. Now it has become as part of him as breathing is! And yes, their parenting folly will be Paro's suffering. But at the same time he has seen how Paro can retaliate worthy of Rudra. It is selfish of him to expect this young girl to become a salvation to his wounded son. Yet he has seen a difference in the behavior Rudra metes out to Paro too.

His father wanted to strip him of the jaanwar avatar. He remembers the mothers' curse again. And today his loyalty to his motherland is going to be questioned. Aman's support at a time when he's world is falling apart at the seams, goodness always brings in the genuine! His hard work, position all coming into question because a mere slip of a girl refuses to sign.



Thanks Soffu.😃 ... Abb tera flu kaisaa hai?

Oh, did i love Aman or what? Aman adores Rudra and respects him a lot too. He sees Rudra as his idol and his mentor - and even Rudra respects this affection. I love the bond that these two have between them.

I understand human follies, Soffu, but never once in my life have i understood or backed a situation where someone ruins someone because of their own issues. Bahot kucch hotaa hai insaan ki zindagi meinn, lekin sazaa kisi aisse ko mile jo maasoom hai, that is UNFORGIVABLE in my opinion. Direct your anger . Don't misdirect it.

15 years later, its Paro who is going to reap the fruits of what Rudra's parents sowed. And its completely unfair.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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but still i dont get one thng,how he became sooo much conscious abt his son??abt beautful women(allowing rudra to keep paro in their own haveli and then suddenly announced infrnt of evryone tht she is his bahu?????as far as we all know he was truly allergic to al thess thngs,<<<<<<<<<<<<<BTW awsm post👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika


Thanks Pri. True. Today was Rudra's dukhee-day. For once, he lashed out his father and clearly held him responsible for ruining him - and for once, Rudra is right and this is no blind blame game. Rudra's parents actually destroyed him. If Dilsher puts his emotions aside, he should be able to see that Rudra is not the kind of man who should be marrying. The girl in question will burn in one fire or the other. And you are absolutely right - this is how warring parents ruin their kids in real life as well.

Rudra is in a very tricky and vulnerable position right now - too many pressures are weighing down on him. Paro is his only hope to salvage his professional life, at least. And i think that Paro will rise in his support - even if its at the last second.

All this pain and devastation of Rudra that Paro is seeing today will become her reasons to embrace him, later. Yes, she calls him Jallaad and what not - but " unnke" chehre pe takleef bhi dekhi nahin jaati. Iss pyaar ko kya naam doon?😆


In some misguided age old wisdom parents of sons often feel that everything will be ok when they get their son married and put responsibility on him...especially if the son in question is far far away from ready!!
Here Rudra is a different case but Dilsher's thinking is the same...damage control mode matlab get him to marry a girl who is not at all like he imagines women to be and he will magically change! The brunt is of course borne by the wife!
His Professional life in BSD is the only thing that Rudra holds dear and it was clear that he is terrified of that being taken away...whatever on screen duration the 4 days is...it should be interesting...wonder if Paro will get to know that he will lose his rank in 4 days...I doubt he will share what happened with anyone...!
Yeah Paro has already been the one to unknowingly console him...she will assume that role again!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika


Abb Maya ho ya Mala, kee farak paindaa hai. Jo Biryaani jalaani thi, wo toh jalaa hi di na.😆


Arre no...I meant have they ever mentioned Rudra's mothers name...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Swetz-

I hope someone stop the wedding from happening 😆

4 days will be 3 weeks in RR world.


Thanks Swetz. Badaa track hai. Door tak jaayega.😆😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika


Thanks and aisse sad nahin hotte, Raddy. Ye sirf ek kahaani hai.😃... Ye lo jhappi! 🤗

Dilsher and Maya did what they wanted, and what fate decided for them - but they both destroyed Rudra in their own ways and how. Rudra is terrified and repulsive of emotions, attachment, women because that is what his upbringing taught him. Even if he falls in love with Paro, his fears, insecurities and his damaged psychology will make life tough , both for him and his Paro.

That is why its said A GOOD AND HEALTHY CHILDHOOD IS IMPORTANT.

🤗.. Thank you Vickz.. Rudra does not shy away from emotions. He very well expresses them. So far the emotion of love has not hit him. When it does, it will be worth watching.. He will be one possessive lover for sure.
Irrespective of his Dad spitting and filling venom all the time, Rudra is attached and cares for his Dad. It does not look like he blames him for his mother leaving them. Rudra will put Paro thru many tests, give her many reasons to leave him behind.. But eventually he will learn to accept her. Just like Mahadev finally surrendered to Parvathi's love. And this is exactly why Dillu wants Rudra to marry Paro. Dillu blvs Paro has in her to "reform" Rudra... Old age wisdom..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: 18shabbo

though Thakurain sa is named Mala , i hope its the same woman who will be Rudra ki maa sa yey?


as to 'kahani ghar ghar ki' , Dilsher wonly wants to prove that his sher can sow all oats and bear fruit while KCM( powered by SJ) has wonly mausam ki jaankaari and no hariyaali!!!


loud shout to good piece of writing!!!!!@Mallika


Thanks.😆...Soap waali education kehti hai ki Thakurain Sa is Rudra's mother. Similar silent and intense nature as her. Genes millte jullte haiin yaar, you see.

Dilsher ne elaan kar diyaa hai. This haweli will be Rudra's and Paro's and their kids' hub. Angootha lagwaa lo.😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sofna

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Yayy That female Jallad got her comeuppance. She doesn't hesitate to play with a person's feelings, weakness, that too her own nephew. Gosh how does she spew so much venom? Is she not a mother herself? What a coward, that she relishes on other's pain and humiliation. Till now Sr Ranawat stayed away from stooping to her level, but today, he struck her where it hurts most too, Grandchildren, she deserved it!!

PaRud in sync, she has the pump/water ready just as he asks.

Time is the best of healers. Although the lesson came too late in learning for Dilsher, he too had no other way of coping other than to pour bitterness into his son regarding women. Today age, wisdom, experience is shouting to him to protect his only child from that similar fate. It is not simply a reaction to Mohini. He desperately wants his only child to stop suffering and live a happy life.

I understand what you're saying Vicky Sa, but that is humans at the end of the day na?. We are not perfect. Especially at times, when our self- control, intelligence, common sense, and foresight is required we get swayed more with emotions of the situation we are engulfed in. I have done it myself. The pain of the moment outweighs the consequences of our actions later. Dilsher coped with his grief by laying the blame on Maya's door, turning her son against her & the female species.

But for the human in Rudra it is 15 yrs too late. That is almost half a lifetime spent in drowning in poison about his mum and women. Rudra is right, he should have thought then. Now it has become as part of him as breathing is! And yes, their parenting folly will be Paro's suffering. But at the same time he has seen how Paro can retaliate worthy of Rudra. It is selfish of him to expect this young girl to become a salvation to his wounded son. Yet he has seen a difference in the behavior Rudra metes out to Paro too.

His father wanted to strip him of the jaanwar avatar. He remembers the mothers' curse again. And today his loyalty to his motherland is going to be questioned. Aman's support at a time when he's world is falling apart at the seams, goodness always brings in the genuine! His hard work, position all coming into question because a mere slip of a girl refuses to sign.



Very true about Dilsher being bitter and transferring onto Rudra...but 15 years he didn't realise! That's too long! Maybe the fact that they stayed away from the haveli and by themselves with no one else for company blinded him to the effect his poisoning had on Rudra!
Once they returned and had a semblance of a family life he is able to see what he has turned a happy child into...and wants to desperately change him!
And he has seen Paros interactions with Rudra too...so he hopes for a change !

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