One Serious Question

Hey Gals,

Originally posted by: JayaV

Hey Gals,

this has been bugging me a lot , so wanted to ask this one to all , think it both from shows side and in general

well shan wanted to share his deep problem with someone and it happened to be his best buddy SAM, I loved this a lot , why many r upset that he didnot think or share it with khanak first ?? just caz she is his life or wify or love ?? is it a must that shan should not share it with someone else first ?? what if shan had thought of AKKI instead of SAM ?? why it has to be wify or husband ?? why not someone who had and has more meaning in ur life ??

please dont get me wrong , well that seems to be happening a lot here ,😆

Love

J

well jaya i fully suppo t ur views..there are some times u wish u need to talk to some one not from ur family yet understands u very well..And who else can we think o in such occasions except a dear friend..so me thinking there is nothing wrong in shaan wanting to open out with sam and not with khanak..That does not in any way mean the love of shaan for khanak is less .

.however the general feeling of everyone is that wife has the right to know about all her husbands momentsof happiness and sorrow and the reason behind them and share it too..that is why peoplea re prefering khanak first...

I don't think there is anything wrong in him not telling Khanak first....Since Sam knows about his parents and such....Akki would also be a good person for Shaan to talk to since they are brothers and their parents problems affect bother of them....

LOL, I've been wondering the same thing for the past four days.😆
I don't see why he has to share everything with his wife first. Contrary to the fact that he loves her, it does not mean he is already emotionally connected with her. Sharing your thoughts and fears takes time, so Shaan just wanted to share it with someone that has known him for a while, that knows how he has felt before..

Maybe I'm wrong..I dunno, I always seem to think differently when it comes to marital relationships and things that relate to that.😆

jaya u wanna know tyhe most honest answers its cause i dont waant shaan to think of sam simple
i want him to think of khanak😆

i know im being selfish but thats k fr me

but i loved yr post n im wrong n yr right but still shaan should remember khanak n not her😆

Lol shriya, i am not denying khanak has no right to know it , but why first ?? why not later on ?? after all shan did hide something from her , right he still did not reveal why he went looking for her and even she did not reveal bout Mr.A .

Oh Karisham , no one is right or wrong .....

Xactly my feelings jaya someone's pestering swapna ji on her fb too

Jaya ..This may not be exactly in line with topic...Some are copy paste from my post in another thread..Just saving typing effort 😆

Nice post. i am so agree with you Once you are married or in love you can still think ab your friends. It is so normal for shan to think about his friends when he is upset or worry because he is just not ready to tell khanak at this point about his parents divorce. may be because he knows khanak love his parents a lot and it will just give her a big shock so he is just trying to save her from all the pain he is facing.