Am sorry... but am a bit confused. My view is similar to urs and I agree with u. So why you should bow to me (or to Veena or HK)? and what difference that you are not married? sorry.... brain not at its best today (like most days😆)....
Like you said, Khanak would feel terrible if she came to know about Madhvi-Sunil from Sam or Duck! That's a normal reaction for a wife to have! We may not be our husband's best friends but we would like to think so... right or wrong, thats the way for most people. I personally don't care if I am first r second or number 37 in my husband's friends list but I have to be there, LOL... and I would rather like to hear the problem from his mouth rather than his yelling!
Try yelling at friends and see how many stick around for how long... yell at wife, and sadly, she will still be around... another truth of life!