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Posted: 15 years ago
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DD,
Am sorry... but am a bit confused. My view is similar to urs and I agree with u. So why you should bow to me (or to Veena or HK)? and what difference that you are not married? sorry.... brain not at its best today (like most days😆)....

Like you said, Khanak would feel terrible if she came to know about Madhvi-Sunil from Sam or Duck! That's a normal reaction for a wife to have! We may not be our husband's best friends but we would like to think so... right or wrong, thats the way for most people. I personally don't care if I am first r second or number 37 in my husband's friends list but I have to be there, LOL... and I would rather like to hear the problem from his mouth rather than his yelling!

Try yelling at friends and see how many stick around for how long... yell at wife, and sadly, she will still be around... another truth of life!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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DD...
To answer your first post:
I feel that Shaan felt the need for a friend when he was used to having a friends around when issues arose (assumption).but agree to your point in Khanak being his friend.. but Also we still don't know that he is going to tell Sam about the divorce.. i don't think he is.. and i think he is going to confide in Khanak.

@ the situation you have written about a friend...
I would feel if someone told me about my dh too.. but if it was a long lost college friend.. i would take it in good talk.. because they knew him when i didn't and there is nothing wrong in knowing all that(But keep it to a minimum😆) also it depends on how secure you are in your relationship with you other half.. I think this is the key !! IMO...

gosh i think i am blabbing... tired.. Ok hitting the bed.. GN!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: tvrasika


Try yelling at friends and see how many stick around for how long... yell at wife, and sadly, she will still be around... another truth of life!

..🤣🤣🤣🤣 True that!!!!my dh has a ending statment.. 'Only you listen to me when i yell.. who can i yell at if not you' 🤣🤣🤣🤣 budthal😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Veena
LOL... budthals they all are!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Gaayu:
So,I also got confused and managed to confuse all....😆😆...but now I get it...I think the difference here is that I was ALSO vouching for Khanak being the first one while u were OKIE if she is not FIRST, as long as she is in the list!...I kinda feel that when u want a shoulder, the person u trust and feel comfy with the most, is the one who comes to your mind first!....that is why I feel wife shld be the first one, ofcourse I am assuming here that their relationship is as healthy as ShaNaks....
@Veena:
I totally agree that if its a long lost friend like Sam or Rahul or Duck, then it makes sense to listen to them about some facts and figures about ur hubby but in this example I gave u, the fact wasnt any old nostalgic fact.....it was a recent incident in that guys life.....
But yeah! end of the day, I guess its all about understanding....
we (unmarried) gals live in fairy castles till we get married and expect our life to be perfect! and anything less than that is not acceptable!
🤣🤣
But I too feel that Shaan would confide in Khanask first! He just has to, else the perfectionist inside me would totally strangle him!
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and Veena on the listening power of a wife, dont u reciprocate the same to your guy...yell and then smile and go on with your chores?
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Phew! Love really increases your power of tolerance and patience - right?
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Posted: 15 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: -Veena-

Gaayu.... HK..

Thank god you girls are saying exactly what i did..
I guess because we relate to it more looking at Real life.. this has absolutely not bothered me.. i know Shaan will come around and tell her.
Like Gaayu said depends on the seriousness of the issue.. we don't know if Shaan is going to tell Sam about the divorce.. but he needs his friends at this time.. which is quite ok i completely relate.
*sigh* i love this show!!!😆




Yes , it is all thanks to the Real life and Real marriage syndrome!!! LOL!😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanakyasharan

jaya u wanna know tyhe most honest answers its cause i dont waant shaan to think of sam simple
i want him to think of khanak😆

i know im being selfish but thats k fr me

but i loved yr post n im wrong n yr right but still shaan should remember khanak n not her😆

totally luvd ur post karish!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#58
thnks ammu
its simple cause i want shaan only wid khanak n no1 else😆

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