story of sita who suffered the most - Page 2

I would like to say try to read Valmiki's Ramayana n Ramacharitmanas. U'll find that Ram and Sita had unlimited love, trust & respect for each other

Originally posted by: coolpurvi

to shruti_gauri1 n priyav

Cause of Sita's exile was not Ram but some narrow & dirty minded people of his kingdom. Yes living in exile was harsh
but listening back biting n dirty comments abt character is the most harsh thing in world. The people of his kingdom felt guilty felt ashamed of themselves n their thoughts becoz of that exile.

Ram & Sita were the celebs of that era that why people loved to gossip abt them. Sending her to forest was the only option left to him. He was helpless. Ram had unlimited trust n love for Sita. When Demon Viradha abducted Sita in Aranya Kanda Ram told Laxman"he can live without Rajya Laxmi(kingdom) but not without his Bhagya Laxmi(Sita). Sita is his life ". But what made him to send her to forest?

People of Ayodhya were critisizing her conduct n secretly making plans to bring her exile. They were showing fake respect to her as she was the Empress. Ram was already "Maahaan" in the eyes of the people but it was Sita who was not getting her due respect. This fact hurted Ram. People were critisizing Sita only n not Ram. He did not wanted to be woshipped or respectd alone. Sending her to exile was the only option left to him. I was useless to punish those dirty minded people. Punishments n clarifications cannot remove doubts.

Whatever he did he did it for Sita's welfare. Sita did not lost her faith in Ram when she was sent to forest. Ram led a life of hermit(Sanyasi) in Royal palace. He had no attachment for Royal luxaries. He selflessly served people of his kingdom without any attachment. For performing Rajsuyagna he made Sita's golden statute but did'nt married again. Imagine Ram's silent suferring, his pain

Its their sacrifices which made Ram n Sita the greatest human

sis ,i was thinking of u & ur here wow! i love ur expalnations!!

yeah!! i agree tht RAMA WAS always a silent sufferer !!

Ignorance is the cause of sin. common peolple of Ayodhya did not know the entire happenings in detail ( how she was abducted, where she was kept, Ravan getting cursed by Vedavati etc etc).

@Sitadi

yes its true Sita did accuse Ram just moments before she left

however i donot know it was harsh words or not but she did speak out

you see, out of her love and immense forbearance, she bore evereything out, but at the end of the day she wasa human being and she did not get her wive's recognition

from her standpoint: although she understood ram but she had once before given the agnipraikhsa, ram ould have spread the news over far and wide

he bowed down to teh popular demands but he did not wish to rule the kingdome once before , he could have chosen Sita and gone over to exile once again-which he did not😳

asa wife, sita had a lot to tell: and not everything could be shadowed by love

yes sitaji suffered so much and even urmila suffered i think coz she had to seperate from her husband for 14 yrs 😭

Originally posted by: coolpurvi

to shruti_gauri1 n priyav

Cause of Sita's exile was not Ram but some narrow & dirty minded people of his kingdom. Yes living in exile was harsh
but listening back biting n dirty comments abt character is the most harsh thing in world. The people of his kingdom felt guilty felt ashamed of themselves n their thoughts becoz of that exile.

Ram & Sita were the celebs of that era that why people loved to gossip abt them. Sending her to forest was the only option left to him. He was helpless. Ram had unlimited trust n love for Sita. When Demon Viradha abducted Sita in Aranya Kanda Ram told Laxman"he can live without Rajya Laxmi(kingdom) but not without his Bhagya Laxmi(Sita). Sita is his life ". But what made him to send her to forest?

People of Ayodhya were critisizing her conduct n secretly making plans to bring her exile. They were showing fake respect to her as she was the Empress. Ram was already "Maahaan" in the eyes of the people but it was Sita who was not getting her due respect. This fact hurted Ram. People were critisizing Sita only n not Ram. He did not wanted to be woshipped or respectd alone. Sending her to exile was the only option left to him. It was useless to punish those dirty minded people. Punishments n clarifications cannot remove doubts.

Whatever he did he did it for Sita's welfare. Sita did not lost her faith in Ram when she was sent to forest. Ram led a life of hermit(Sanyasi) in Royal palace. He had no attachment for Royal luxaries. He selflessly served people of his kingdom without any attachment. For performing Rajsuyagna he made Sita's golden statute but did'nt married again. Imagine Ram's silent suferring, his pain

Its their sacrifices which made Ram n Sita the greatest human

ya i know that ramji love sita a lot but still he send her to exile because he doesnt want to show wrong maryada infront of his praja .so he chooses praja and send sita ji to exile knowing that sh was several mnth pregenent

Originally posted by: sita11

even i don't know why RMAJI who used to love SITAJI more than his life did tht ,lets see in the RAMAYAN SAGAR'S give a detalied expalnation on tht painful & tragic aspect of RAM-SITAJI ,

yeah!! RAM JI shud have send SITAJI to mithla !! MIGHT BE SOME GRAVE rea sons !!!

i wish nidhz or camella or coolpurvi gives us a better expalnation on tht !!😛

yes that question was asked by sitaji mother and sita ji frnds when ram ji visited mithila after sending sita ji to exile sita ji mother and frnds were so angry with ramji that they speak rudely with him and accuse him for sita ji current condition where they dont know where she is?????? whether she is alive or not if she is wat hardship she is facing in pregent condition where no one is to take care of her .how she will survive in forest full of wild animals snakes .sita ji mother never forgive ramji for sitaji condition she said my sita leave everything for you and you leaved her for others
she said if you dont want sita atleast you should have sent her back to mithila to her house but you send her to exile unprotected .sita ji mother frds and womenfolks of mithila never forgive ramji for tjis

even till date in mithila they worship only sita ji in temple there is only sitaji statue they dont worship ramji

Having just returned from the fourteen years exile, Sitaji was sent on yet another exile by the people of Ayodhaya. Malicious rumor and cruel gossip separated the loving pair. At least in the first exile Sitaji had the company of her husband and brother-in-law to protect her and comfort her. In this second exile, she was all alone. The pain and hurt of a pregnant woman, abandoned all alone in the jungles of central India, must have been intense. Yet, she did not falter. Perhaps the first "Single Parent" of the Hindu epics, she raised her childrens in the Ashram of Bhagwan Valmiki.

after the war between luv kush and ramji army Sri Ram asked him about the identity of the two children--Lav and Kush, Valmiki said --- Sita was pregnant at the time you had abandoned her. I gave her refuge in my hermitage where she gave birth to twins--Lav and Kush. Both the children were brought up in my hermitage with love and care. I taught them all the sacred texts and scriptures and made them masters of various weaponries. So, Lav and Kush are your sons. You must bring Sita back to Ayodhya with due honour, because she is pure and chaste."

Sri Ram's heart was filled with grief. He instructed Laxman to bring Sita along with Luv and Kush. Laxman went to Valmiki's hermitage and requested Sita to return to Ayodhya. Sita refused to return but sent Luv and Kush along with Laxman.

At her final meeting with her ramji, Sitaji was firm in her resolve - never to be doubted again. With great confidence, she requested her mother - Goddess Earth, to reclaim her and vindicate her in public - Once and for all. When Mother Earth came to comfort her daughter, the universe witnessed Sitaji's piety and blameless past.