story of sita who suffered the most

according to you which character suffered a lot in ramayana in my opinion the character who suffered a lot was SITA

see she was the daughter of king , daughter in-law of a king , wife of a powerful king and mother of 2 brave king but in her whole life she only suffered

she got marry at very early age when she was kid and lived only few years happily at ayodhya and then she choose her husband because her husband was her true happiness and she went to exile with ram and spent 13 yrs of her life dedicating to her husband doing all the household stuf which she never done in her life

and in 14 yr when ravana abucted her which was not her fault she suffered all the misery and dedicated herself to her husband only and when she meet ram after war he ask her for Agni Pariksha to prove herself and when she proved herself then ram accepted her

she become the queen of ayodhya and enjoyed this status for few year when 1 day ram sent her to exile knowing that she was several pregenent with his child yet he sent her because he cant go against his praja and ram ordered laxman to drop sita in deep forest

no body goes against ram and help sita all of them kow sita was pregenent but no body argu ram decision every dever laxman , bharat and shatrughan think her as mother yet they never said a thing if ram doesnt want sita in ayodha then he should have sent her to janakpuri to her father atlest for his child sake

neways sita also accepted this decision and went to exile and lived for her un born babies and in exile she spent her life as tapasvani in valmiki ashram and give birth to 2 beautiful and brave kids luv kush she made them brave self made and teaches them all the duties which they should get if they were living in ayodhya thats why the kids was the best warrior and the kids who know all the rituals of there kul

luv kush in there 14 yrs they defeated laxman, bharat, shatrughn, hanuman, sugriv .

when ram came to know about them he accepted them but for sita he doesnt know wat decision he shoulld take he want sita to come with him but still there was his praja and to prove herself

sita appealed to earth"that if she never loved any man but ram if her truth and purity where known to the earth , let it open it bosom and take her to it."

while the people stood trembeling with horror the earth open and a beautiful throne appaerd and the godess of earth seated upon it took sita with her to the realms of eternal happiness , leaving the too late repentant ram to wear out his remaining years in penitence

i think sita was the 1 who suffered a lot she spent most of her life in exile nearly 29 yrs

yet no 1 support her nor her in-laws nor her husband nor her father nor her sister

and in the last to prove he self respect she take major step by ending her life

i really like her character a lot she was devoted wife, mother , daughter , sister, daughter in-law, bhabhi yet her faith was full of sorrow

i dont want to hurt anybody feelings but this is my point of view

well sita is as a matter of fact. motehr earth personified

but i think the character who really suffered and was the most unhappy was Bharat
everyone had misunderstood him and neglected him
his sacrifice,his love all were put to test
even laxman hated him, Ram misunderstood him at the beginning of Vanvas

Originally posted by: its me tan

well sita is as a matter of fact. motehr earth personified

but i think the character who really suffered and was the most unhappy was Bharat
everyone had misunderstood him and neglected him
his sacrifice,his love all were put to test
even laxman hated him, Ram misunderstood him at the beginning of Vanvas

no ram never misunderstand bharat read both valmiki ramayana and tulsi ramayana ram never misunderstood him only laxman and his praja for sometime misunderstood him but his suffering end with ram exile because after 14 yrs when he corrected the wrong done he become happy but sita suffered 14 yrs exile with ram then 14 yrs when ram given exile to sita she only lived because she was pregenent at that time otherwise she was ready to finish her life

Originally posted by: shruti_gauri1

according to you which character suffered a lot in ramayana in my opinion the character who suffered a lot was SITA

see she was the daughter of king , daughter in-law of a king , wife of a powerful king and mother of 2 brave king but in her whole life she only suffered

she got marry at very early age when she was kid and lived only few years happily at ayodhya and then she choose her husband because her husband was her true happiness and she went to exile with ram and spent 13 yrs of her life dedicating to her husband doing all the household stuf which she never done in her life

and in 14 yr when ravana abucted her which was not her fault she suffered all the misery and dedicated herself to her husband only and when she meet ram after war he ask her for Agni Pariksha to prove herself and when she proved herself then ram accepted her

she become the queen of ayodhya and enjoyed this status for few year when 1 day ram sent her to exile knowing that she was several pregenent with his child yet he sent her because he cant go against his praja and ram ordered laxman to drop sita in deep forest

no body goes against ram and help sita all of them kow sita was pregenent but no body argu ram decision every dever laxman , bharat and shatrughan think her as mother yet they never said a thing if ram doesnt want sita in ayodha then he should have sent her to janakpuri to her father atlest for his child sake

neways sita also accepted this decision and went to exile and lived for her un born babies and in exile she spent her life as tapasvani in valmiki ashram and give birth to 2 beautiful and brave kids luv kush she made them brave self made and teaches them all the duties which they should get if they were living in ayodhya thats why the kids was the best warrior and the kids who know all the rituals of there kul

luv kush in there 14 yrs they defeated laxman, bharat, shatrughn, hanuman, sugriv .

when ram came to know about them he accepted them but for sita he doesnt know wat decision he shoulld take he want sita to come with him but still there was his praja and to prove herself

sita appealed to earth"that if she never loved any man but ram if her truth and purity where known to the earth , let it open it bosom and take her to it."

while the people stood trembeling with horror the earth open and a beautiful throne appaerd and the godess of earth seated upon it took sita with her to the realms of eternal happiness , leaving the too late repentant ram to wear out his remaining years in penitence

i think sita was the 1 who suffered a lot she spent most of her life in exile nearly 29 yrs

yet no 1 support her nor her in-laws nor her husband nor her father nor her sister

and in the last to prove he self respect she take major step by ending her life

i really like her character a lot she was devoted wife, mother , daughter , sister, daughter in-law, bhabhi yet her faith was full of sorrow

i dont want to hurt anybody feelings but this is my point of view

Thats why Valmiki calls 'Ramayan' as Siitayah Charitam Mahat! read the verse: kaavyam raamaayaNam kR^itsnam siitaayaaH charitam mahat |
paulastya vadham iti evam chakaara charita vrataH

This epic Ramayan is infact the (great) legend of Sita and of elimination of Paulastya-Ravan; saying thus the sage took sacred vows of writing it.
Everyone concerned with Ram and Sita have suffered and sacrifised in their own way causing to the greatness of this legend.
The agni-pariksha episode is hotly debated , ofcourse we can discuss it later about it and how it has been misinterpreted since times.

I would like to tell about her banishment in uttarkand.....

Sita as such is a lady of immense self respect so i think she herself wouldn't have lived in palace after she heard (false,baseless) rumors about herself, her act of accepting the exile is not an act of submission or helplessness but an act of denial and rejection- rejection of the society which is worthless of having a woman like Sita.
Now lets take the same fact spiritually, Sita is goddess Lakshmi's incarnation , by nature she is 'Chanchala- restless' who will not remain at one place for long-this nature of her's is good for herself as well as the society coz money should not be stagnant -it should be in circulation for the good of society; which we learn in economics 😳 similarly if take Sita by her name which literally means a 'furrow' and is associated with agriculture, this way she couldn't have caged in a palace whatever the reason may be.

This is my explaination 😊

hey can anybody tell me why was sita sent to exile the second time?

Originally posted by: priyav

hey can anybody tell me why was sita sent to exile the second time?

SITAJI was send to exile for the 2nd time becaz RAMJI when came to know tht his praja(ayodya ppl) were talking all sorts of crap abt SITAJI tht she lived for 1 long year at RAVAN'S place so the ayodhya ppl were questioning the modesty of SITAJI ,ayodhya ppl thought tht SITAJI was not pure as she lived for 1 year at another man's place !!

even RAMJI & LAXMAN ,HANUMAN told the ayodhya ppl tht SITAJI gave the toughest test OF AGNI PARIKSHA (the test of purity in which sitaji stood in the burning fire & she was unhurt as she was pure ,the modesty & dignity of siatji was intact ,this test of agni pariksha sitaji gave when ramji defeated ravan ) then too those stupid ayodhya ppl didnot beleive it as they said tht they themselves didnot see SITAJI giving tht agnipariksha !! (as sitaji gav eher agnipariksha in lanka in front of ramji,alxman,hanuman & the monkey army of sugreev )

this all happened as when a DHOBI (LAUNDERY man) threw out his wife from his house as his wife took shelter for one night at a man's place ,as the wife of dhobi was caught in a storm & to save her life she took shelter at a man's place for one night . dhobi's wife was an honest & a modest lady ,she told all this to dhobi ,but tht monster dhobi instead of supporting his wife ,questioned her modesty !! he thought tht now his wife became impure as she spent the whole night at another man's place ,so he said to his wife tht---------i am not RAM who is gonna keep u with me ,like RAM kept his wife SITA inspite of knowing the fact tht sita lived for one long year at ravan's place .

i wud always hate tht moron dhobi & the stupid ayodhya ppl ,who were responsible for separating RAM-SITA (the eternal pair ) !! ramji used to love his praja soooooooooooooo much & so he had to give up & he left sitaji forever n asked her to move out of his life ,although RAMJI felt a severe pain inside his heart before saying all tht to sitaji ,it is said tht ramji neev rasked siatji directly to move out of his life ,it's becaz SITAJI used to read the mind & heart of ramji as they were true soulmates😳 ,so sitaji came to know the feelings & dileema situation on her own & decided to leave ayodhya for ever!!!😭😭

i also beleive tht SITAJI 's life was full of trouble !!! 😭

she wud have never thought tht one day ppl wud question her modesty & dignity !!! 😭SITAJI who was the purest one & who sarificed her life for hee husband ,met with such disasters in her life😭😭.

that is why i hate RAVAN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART !!!🤢it is becaz of him only SITA-RAM WERE SEAPARTED !!!😭😭

ppl say ravan was very intelligent & a great scholar but i wud always consider RAVAN the MOST DISGUSTING & FILTHY MAN ON EARTH🤢& also tht witch KAIKYE 🤢& MANTHARA🤢 who were equally responsible for killing dashrath & spoiling the lives of RAM-SITA !!!😭

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enjoyed your post sita but why use of such LARGE font? its not easy to read. 😕

thanks for the wonderful explanation sita11.
ramji is great in every aspects, but he failed as a husband(my thoughts, sorry if offended any)..

in thursday's episode sumantra and vashista talked abt sending kaikeyi to father's place just like her mom...

considering sita's pregnancy ram cud have sent her to mithila..poor sitaji suffered all her life

to shruti_gauri1 n priyav

Cause of Sita's exile was not Ram but some narrow & dirty minded people of his kingdom. Yes living in exile was harsh
but listening back biting n dirty comments abt character is the most harsh thing in world. The people of his kingdom felt guilty felt ashamed of themselves n their thoughts becoz of that exile.

Ram & Sita were the celebs of that era that why people loved to gossip abt them. Sending her to forest was the only option left to him. He was helpless. Ram had unlimited trust n love for Sita. When Demon Viradha abducted Sita in Aranya Kanda Ram told Laxman"he can live without Rajya Laxmi(kingdom) but not without his Bhagya Laxmi(Sita). Sita is his life ". But what made him to send her to forest?

People of Ayodhya were critisizing her conduct n secretly making plans to bring her exile. They were showing fake respect to her as she was the Empress. Ram was already "Maahaan" in the eyes of the people but it was Sita who was not getting her due respect. This fact hurted Ram. People were critisizing Sita only n not Ram. He did not wanted to be woshipped or respectd alone. Sending her to exile was the only option left to him. It was useless to punish those dirty minded people. Punishments n clarifications cannot remove doubts.

Whatever he did he did it for Sita's welfare. Sita did not lost her faith in Ram when she was sent to forest. Ram led a life of hermit(Sanyasi) in Royal palace. He had no attachment for Royal luxaries. He selflessly served people of his kingdom without any attachment. For performing Rajsuyagna he made Sita's golden statute but did'nt married again. Imagine Ram's silent suferring, his pain

Its their sacrifices which made Ram n Sita the greatest human

Originally posted by: priyav

thanks for the wonderful explanation sita11.
ramji is great in every aspects, but he failed as a husband(my thoughts, sorry if offended any)..

in thursday's episode sumantra and vashista talked abt sending kaikeyi to father's place just like her mom...

considering sita's pregnancy ram cud have sent her to mithila..poor sitaji suffered all her life

even i don't know why RMAJI who used to love SITAJI more than his life did tht ,lets see in the RAMAYAN SAGAR'S give a detalied expalnation on tht painful & tragic aspect of RAM-SITAJI ,

yeah!! RAM JI shud have send SITAJI to mithla !! MIGHT BE SOME GRAVE rea sons !!!

i wish nidhz or camella or coolpurvi gives us a better expalnation on tht !!😛