would u marry manmohan ??? - Page 3

Originally posted by: jibi

Did you notice the fellow did not even once said that we'll also try to change for you. Or, you will be given liberty what you want to do. Neither he or his mother. Instead he was laughing when she was asking the doubts.

Yes, you are right adjustments have to be from both the sides. But unfortunately its still a dream for many DILs in India. They have to change themselves fully. You may not believe it but its a fact.

Did you notice, his mother said if you will do 'all theses things' then only you can be my DIL. Even Manmohan used double-meaning words. He said, i swear my mother 'if i marry you' i will be there with you throughout your life.
You are from UK thats why you dont understand what he exactly says in Hindi. He always uses pure Hindi, even Rakhie is not able to understand what he says.

I am from North India and Hindi is my mother-tongue. I can get the soul of it. Right from the beginning it was clear he is making fun of Rakhie. I am telling on the basis of words he used to use.

Originally posted by: samirah23

My advice to all you girls here - NEVER change yourself for your husband or your mother in law. NEVER do this! If the way that they live is not what you are used to, there MUST be compromise on BOTH sides.

Aapne to mere muh ki bat chhin li! Even my mom-in-law is from very traditional background. We are very different, but I agreed to marriage, cause she is modern enough to understand me and make some compromises for me too. Relations whatever they are, can work only if both parties involve take similar efforts 😛

Or else 10 years down the road after you have changed so much about yourself, you will forget who you really are.

I respect how everyone lives, but knowing what I know now, I would NEVER put myself in a situation like this ...

PLEASE always stay true to yourselves, and compromise only as long as the other parties compromise. Or if you can live on your own just you and your husband and children, do that ...

That's the only advice I can give ...

he talks like Ravi kisshen lol... i would never marry him if he has been the last men on earth instead of marrying i would like to be alone..