yep... u got it right in ur second paragraph... what i meant by authoratative was that in current age, people will get more benefits from Tulsidas's Ramacharitmanas than from Valmiki Ramayan due to language (sanskrit versus old hindi), explicitness, different nature of text (devotional versus itihaas)... and that is why to make a diplomatic and better conclusion i said that Valmiki Ramayan should be thoroughly studied when one reaches a certain state of spiritualism so that he can with his wisdom understand some explicit or even difficult statements... You can say that Ramcharitmanas is kindergarten and Valmiki Ramayan is for more erudite students... and that is why in my previous post i said:
Valmiki ramayan maybe considered the muul (root) but Ramcharitmanas is the phuul (flower)... only the gardner deals more with the root, the house-owner looks at the beauty of the flower... similarly we should appreciate the flower (ramcharitmanas), then when we gain some spiritual intellect should we consider Valmiki Ramayan as the authoritative granth/text.... Tulsi is a playschool teacher, he teaches us to love Ram (parents)... Valmiki is a highschool teacher, he teaches us to respect Ram (parents)...
Regarding did Valmiki write Ramayan before Ramavatar... that is what i have heard... But even if not.. he wrote it during Ramavatar which is Treta yug... But i do agree with what u said on the different possibilities.. because in the end we can only predict (at this stage).. hopefully we will get to know that all of these are right! :)
Yep, Adhyatam Ramayan, Yog Vashishth Ramayan all have a similar storyline, but they differ in terms the proportion each spends on one aspect of the story.. essentially all have written their experiences with brahm/Ram and that is the beauty...
relevant verses regarding Ravan agreeing that Ram is god... i had posted that a month ago or so in this same thread... here is that excerpt of the post:
When Surpankha (ravan's sister) went to Ravan and told him that a MAN (RAM) had killed Khar, Dushan and all their demons with one arrow. Ravan straightaway corrected Surpankha and said "Khar Dushan Mo Sam Balwanta, Tinhahi Ko Marai Binu Bhagwanta'... 'Khar and Dushan are as mighty as me. Who can kill them other than God himself!!" Ravan hinted that he knew Ram was god... And that is why in that dialogue Ravan says 'Hoi Bhajanu Nahi Tamas Deha, Man Kram Bachan Mantra Dradh Eha' (As I am a Rakshas, I cannot reach the supreme with devotion/bhakti and thus I will die off the hands of the God himself..) SO Ravan knew Ram was god... Ravan called Hanuman his guru (sarcastically)when Hanuman went to Lanka for the first time.. (Bola Bihasi Maha Abhimani, Mila Hamahi Kapi Gur Bad Gyani') and as we know Hanuman is an incarnation of Shankar and Shankar is Ravan's guru (which i have talked of in earlier posts)... Mandodari also talks to Ravan and tells Ravan that Ram is god ('Pad Patal SHish aj Dhama') and so on... Essentially Ravan knew and believed that Ram was god according to the ramcharitmanas...
Again, I like the ramcharitmanas and m very close to it thus quote it frequently... valmiki, ved vyas, vashishth and other great rishis have written their great account with the same if not more authority... I bow to all of em.. but Manas has more than enough for me to explore... haha.. I have read Valmiki ramayan once though (the complete version) but i am more of the bhakti path than gyan path so read Manas more often...