IF Suneheri was a MAN? Would we judge her this harshly? - Page 5

Originally posted by: minnie2308

Mandy, I'd be removing my post as I refuse to be drawn into man versus woman ... I won't say for anyone else. But I use the same yardstick for genders.

Per me Seher is wrong... but talking about it makes me worse...

I wasn't going to comment, because frankly I don't want to get involved, as there seem to be two camps on the forum, and I happen to agree with bits and pieces from both.

Although sometimes it seems no matter what you say, there's someone to tell you they know better.

Let me say right here, right now. I don't claim to be that person. I don't know better. I only know what I know.

Call it a disclaimer, if you want 😆

Great post, Mandy.

I just don't get why we are comparing Aahil and Sunehri though in the comments...

Like, whyyy? Aahil isn't... I don't know what's the word for a male vamp - is there one?

Just like the slap spoiler, it shocked me that there were females on this forum actually okay with the act of violence. Believe me, at that point, it said much more about the viewership than it did of the male protagonist.

Society does judge women harsher than men - that's no big secret.

Do you know men and women working in the same positions get paid differently? Men get higher salaries. And that's not limited to any particular country - it's a current worldwide statistic.

Another stat that speaks to your comment about so much more being expected of women? Women pay lower insurance premiums because they are deemed to be more sensible, and able to tell right from wrong.

I would like to believe though, that the women on this forum would judge a male character as harshly as Sunehri is being judged.

And I'm not talking about Aahil here. Goodness knows what we should be judging him for - and believe me, I've seen those posts. (Burning the dhaba, manhandling Sanam, leaving her out in the rain, not sensing that she's in danger, etc)

I mean, we can't disagree that what Sunehri's doing is wrong, so fine. Perhaps she has her reasons too, even though I don't agree with them.

But if a man was doing this, I would like to believe we would judge him too.

So yes, to sum it up. Society does judge men and women differently.

I just hope that the females on this forum do not.

About Fred Astaire] "Sure he was great, but don't forget Ginger Rogers did everything he did backwards...and in high heels!" -- Bob Thaves

Originally posted by: Tamara27

I wasn't going to comment, because frankly I don't want to get involved, as there seem to be two camps on the forum, and I happen to agree with bits and pieces from both.

Although sometimes it seems no matter what you say, there's someone to tell you they know better.

Let me say right here, right now. I don't claim to be that person. I don't know better. I only know what I know.

Call it a disclaimer, if you want 😆

Great post, Mandy.

I just don't get why we are comparing Aahil and Sunehri though in the comments...

Like, whyyy? Aahil isn't... I don't know what's the word for a male vamp - is there one?

Just like the slap spoiler, it shocked me that there were females on this forum actually okay with the act of violence. Believe me, at that point, it said much more about the viewership than it did of the male protagonist.

Society does judge women harsher than men - that's no big secret.

Do you know men and women working in the same positions get paid differently? Men get higher salaries. And that's not limited to any particular country - it's a current worldwide statistic.

Another stat that speaks to your comment about so much more being expected of women? Women pay lower insurance premiums because they are deemed to be more sensible, and able to tell right from wrong.

I would like to believe though, that the women on this forum would judge a male character as harshly as Sunehri is being judged.

And I'm not talking about Aahil here. Goodness knows what we should be judging him for - and believe me, I've seen those posts. (Burning the dhaba, manhandling Sanam, leaving her out in the rain, not sensing that she's in danger, etc)

I mean, we can't disagree that what Sunehri's doing is wrong, so fine. Perhaps she has her reasons too, even though I don't agree with them.

But if a man was doing this, I would like to believe we would judge him too.

So yes, to sum it up. Society does judge men and women differently.

I just hope that the females on this forum do not.

About Fred Astaire] "Sure he was great, but don't forget Ginger Rogers did everything he did backwards...and in high heels!" -- Bob Thaves

Originally posted by: Tamara27

I wasn't going to comment, because frankly I don't want to get involved, as there seem to be two camps on the forum, and I happen to agree with bits and pieces from both.

Although sometimes it seems no matter what you say, there's someone to tell you they know better.

Let me say right here, right now. I don't claim to be that person. I don't know better. I only know what I know.

Call it a disclaimer, if you want 😆

Great post, Mandy.

I just don't get why we are comparing Aahil and Sunehri though in the comments...

Like, whyyy? Aahil isn't... I don't know what's the word for a male vamp - is there one?

Just like the slap spoiler, it shocked me that there were females on this forum actually okay with the act of violence. Believe me, at that point, it said much more about the viewership than it did of the male protagonist.

Society does judge women harsher than men - that's no big secret.

Do you know men and women working in the same positions get paid differently? Men get higher salaries. And that's not limited to any particular country - it's a current worldwide statistic.

Another stat that speaks to your comment about so much more being expected of women? Women pay lower insurance premiums because they are deemed to be more sensible, and able to tell right from wrong.

I would like to believe though, that the women on this forum would judge a male character as harshly as Sunehri is being judged.

And I'm not talking about Aahil here. Goodness knows what we should be judging him for - and believe me, I've seen those posts. (Burning the dhaba, manhandling Sanam, leaving her out in the rain, not sensing that she's in danger, etc)

I mean, we can't disagree that what Sunehri's doing is wrong, so fine. Perhaps she has her reasons too, even though I don't agree with them.

But if a man was doing this, I would like to believe we would judge him too.

So yes, to sum it up. Society does judge men and women differently.

I just hope that the females on this forum do not.

About Fred Astaire] "Sure he was great, but don't forget Ginger Rogers did everything he did backwards...and in high heels!" -- Bob Thaves

Originally posted by: Tamara27

I wasn't going to
comment, because frankly I don't want to get involved, as there seem to be two
camps on the forum, and I happen to agree with bits and pieces from both.

Although sometimes it
seems no matter what you say, there's someone to tell you they know
better.

Let me say right
here, right now. I don't claim to be that person. I don't know better. I only
know what I know.

Call it a disclaimer,
if you want😆

<font size="3">Great
post, Mandy.</font>

<font size="3"></font>

<font size="3">I
just don't get why we are comparing Aahil and Sunehri though in the comments...</font>

<font size="3">Like,
whyyy? Aahil isn't... I don't know what's the word for a male vamp - is there
one?</font>

<font size="3">Just
like the slap spoiler, it shocked me that there were females on this forum
actually okay with the act of violence. Believe me, at that point, it said much
more about the viewership than it did of the male protagonist.</font>

<font size="3"></font>

<font size="3">Society
does judge women harsher than men - that's no big secret.</font>

<font size="3">Do you know men and
women working in the same positions get paid differently? Men get higher
salaries. And that's not limited to any particular country - it's a current
worldwide statistic.</font>

<font face="Arial Narrow, sans-serif" size="3">Another stat that speaks to your comment about so much more being expected of women? Women pay lower insurance premiums because they are deemed to be more sensible, and able to tell right from wrong.</font>

<font size="3">I
would like to believe though, that the women on this forum would judge a male
character as harshly as Sunehri is being judged.</font>

<font size="3">And I'm not talking about
Aahil here. Goodness knows what we should be judging him for - and believe me,
I've seen those posts.(Burning the dhaba, manhandling Sanam, leaving her out in the rain, not
sensing that she's in danger, etc)</font>

<font size="3"></font>

<font size="3">I
mean, we can't disagree that what Sunehri's doing is wrong, so fine.Perhaps
she has her reasons too, even though I don't agree with them.</font>

<font size="3">But if a man
was doing this, I would like to believe we would judge him too.</font>

<font size="3">So
yes, to sum it up. Society does judge men and women differently.</font>

<font size="3">Ijust
hope that the females on this forum do not.</font>

<font size="3"></font>

<font size="3">About
Fred Astaire] "Sure he was great, but don't forget Ginger Rogers did everything
he did backwards...and in high heels!" -- Bob Thaves</font>

Originally posted by: KaanKeNiche

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And that's why I love you!😳

Originally posted by: Surbhiholic.

and i love you 🤗 🤣

Originally posted by: KaanKeNiche

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Awwh!😳Love you too Mariya. <3