Rehaan loves who really? - Page 3

Wow. How about that.

Originally posted by: farz_parachute

Wow. How about that.

Now this is an impressive take on whether Rehan really was in love with Sanam.

For me it really is easy. Not everybody is the kind to go so deep in love and then to decide and know for sure that this is the person they would want to spend their whole life with.

Some find that passionate love.

Some find the friendship that grows into love.

Some settles for the first good thing.

Some settles for the next good thing.

And really in all of this, there are some who believe in a relationship after marriage. Akin to arranged mature, and I mean the modern kind. Where boy's family meets girl's family, boy meets girl. Give it like a month or so and then they decide if they are ready to bring the alliance to the next level.

Is there a I-cannot-live-without-you situation in these scenario? Probably not. Is there a I love you situation in this? Possibly.

Now. Rehan and Sanam are friends. He talks with utmost respect to her, helps her out and they are comfortable with each other. So comfortable that Rehan becomes aware of Sanam's animated way of talking and lends her a shoulder when she's feeling low, a company they were to each other. That night when Sanam hugged him for the first time at the farmhouse after Aahil rescued her, he was sure there was something there. Maybe Sanam too likes him the way he likes her. And possibly a lil purani khayalat, the thing to do is to now solemnise their relationship.

And first thing he did. He sought the permission of Sanam's grandmother Dilshad, her guardian. Elated, Dilshad gave her blessing and asked Rehan if he has shared his feelings with Sanam, and he promised her that that's the next cause of plan. To confess to Sanam his feelings and ask her hand in marriage.

Next day he tries a lil but she was really busy and he was a lil nervous. He thought after Aahil's nikah he would have that talk with Sanam. He has a ring ready too. So excited he was with the prospect of his brother getting married and he to propose...He shares this with Aahil. Showed him the ring too.

Okay so by the turn of events, Aahil married Sanam. And Rehan was heartbroken. He was ready to leave home but loyalty to his mother stopped him. Aahil tried talking to him but things had happened.

Still he remained friends with Sanam who hasn't a clue of what has transpired. She sought his help and he helped. And then one day he somewhat realises that Sanam has begun to see past Aahil's exterior and had begun to accept him. But just then Aahil in height of Sanam's change of behaviour towards him, (she cares for him and nurses him when he was in pain) he could no longer stand their closeness and gets Rehan to stay away from his wife.

And Rehan was ready to leave, he went to see his mother one last time in the hope that at the very least she would stop him but she didn't. Instead she gave him a job to finish off and sent him away.

He meets Sunehri then after.

First look and he thought it was Sanam but when he called the home line it was Sanam who was on the other line. He knew that in front of him is Sanam's lookalike.

In his car and at the Dhaba where Sunehri made him take her, Rehan thought just how different she is to Sanam albeit them looking the same.

And then their story starts. This we all know.

And contrary to what many are saying...this indeed isn't a one week love story. This was confirmed by Sunehri when the laddoo vendor at the temple asked why she hadn't come for the past three Tuesdays (that day being the fourth Tuesday that she finally made time) and then when in the temple she apologised to her Bappa claiming that she's been busy with some work which He very well knows what.

So there. At the very least it is 29 days (assuming they met on a Monday, the first week she didn't go to the temple) or at most (it can be more actually, but let's not push it) 34 days (assuming she met him on a Wednesday, the week before she missed the temple visit).

Before I say anything else. Let me tell you I love Math. It's the one thing I take pride in.

Hehe.

So there you have it!

How soon can a person fall in love? How soon can a person declare love? How soon can a person propose for marriage?

Who's to say.

And based on experience (not necessarily mine) one meeting can get you a coffee date. By third there's already a dinner date. And before the fifth date you're already thinking is this serious. And by the end of the fifth date you've established a relationship. And in two days makes it officially known.

Let's not forget Sunehri was working for Rehan and was staying at his place. They had their first breakfast the same day they met. And well, the rest we all know.

Looky look. This got long. Heee.

But really don't go by some thoughts and views that you see thrown around here and there. As ridiculous as you think they all are. And am always happy to read sensible posts (and comments), too bad the good comes with the not so good. Hmmm.

And Heyya!

Am Farz!

What do I call you!

Mwahh.

Keep em post coming. They are most welcome. A great sight for my otherwise can-be-sore-eyes.

Originally posted by: In-Sanity-Triv

Avoiding how? There's a parallel here. If you hate Rehaan because of Billi then you must hate all Britishers too. I'm trying to understand your thought process and hence the question.

Theres NO parallel here. No one is responsible for his/her parentage but YES they are responsible for their own Karma.
Rehan knew how his mom is manipulating with a family and Aahils life for money. She herself admitted to Rehan that she committed crimes in order Achieve her goal. He still stayed silent. Never say it is difficult to stand up against parents. He gave lecture to Seher about him hating liers where in FACT he is harbouring a criminal for years. Just saying I don't want anything doesn't make him a saint. In fact hiding a crime is as evil as committing one. So yes Rehan is as guilty as his mom at this moment.
Let's no go into his love life. I am not opposed to Sehan but the actor playing Rehan was not good in romantic scenes. Puppy teenage love is not my fav ever . So let's not go there. Anyway I think no one falls actually in love in 3 weeks either. That's called infatuation not love. Their love story needed proper build up so that most viewers can connect to them.



Btw he doesn't need to expose his mother abruptly. If he is saying the truth that he doesn't want money and want to tell all truth to Aahil. He can very well do that by being there at every step and foiling his moms plans. Sorry but just saying good things doesn't make him a saint.

Originally posted by: farz_parachute

Wow. How about that.

Now this is an impressive take on whether Rehan really was in love with Sanam.

For me it really is easy. Not everybody is the kind to go so deep in love and then to decide and know for sure that this is the person they would want to spend their whole life with.

Some find that passionate love.

Some find the friendship that grows into love.

Some settles for the first good thing.

Some settles for the next good thing.

And really in all of this, there are some who believe in a relationship after marriage. Akin to arranged mature, and I mean the modern kind. Where boy's family meets girl's family, boy meets girl. Give it like a month or so and then they decide if they are ready to bring the alliance to the next level.

Is there a I-cannot-live-without-you situation in these scenario? Probably not. Is there a I love you situation in this? Possibly.

Now. Rehan and Sanam are friends. He talks with utmost respect to her, helps her out and they are comfortable with each other. So comfortable that Rehan becomes aware of Sanam's animated way of talking and lends her a shoulder when she's feeling low, a company they were to each other. That night when Sanam hugged him for the first time at the farmhouse after Aahil rescued her, he was sure there was something there. Maybe Sanam too likes him the way he likes her. And possibly a lil purani khayalat, the thing to do is to now solemnise their relationship.

And first thing he did. He sought the permission of Sanam's grandmother Dilshad, her guardian. Elated, Dilshad gave her blessing and asked Rehan if he has shared his feelings with Sanam, and he promised her that that's the next cause of plan. To confess to Sanam his feelings and ask her hand in marriage.

Next day he tries a lil but she was really busy and he was a lil nervous. He thought after Aahil's nikah he would have that talk with Sanam. He has a ring ready too. So excited he was with the prospect of his brother getting married and he to propose...He shares this with Aahil. Showed him the ring too.

Okay so by the turn of events, Aahil married Sanam. And Rehan was heartbroken. He was ready to leave home but loyalty to his mother stopped him. Aahil tried talking to him but things had happened.

Still he remained friends with Sanam who hasn't a clue of what has transpired. She sought his help and he helped. And then one day he somewhat realises that Sanam has begun to see past Aahil's exterior and had begun to accept him. But just then Aahil in height of Sanam's change of behaviour towards him, (she cares for him and nurses him when he was in pain) he could no longer stand their closeness and gets Rehan to stay away from his wife.

And Rehan was ready to leave, he went to see his mother one last time in the hope that at the very least she would stop him but she didn't. Instead she gave him a job to finish off and sent him away.

He meets Sunehri then after.

First look and he thought it was Sanam but when he called the home line it was Sanam who was on the other line. He knew that in front of him is Sanam's lookalike.

In his car and at the Dhaba where Sunehri made him take her, Rehan thought just how different she is to Sanam albeit them looking the same.

And then their story starts. This we all know.

And contrary to what many are saying...this indeed isn't a one week love story. This was confirmed by Sunehri when the laddoo vendor at the temple asked why she hadn't come for the past three Tuesdays (that day being the fourth Tuesday that she finally made time) and then when in the temple she apologised to her Bappa claiming that she's been busy with some work which He very well knows what.

So there. At the very least it is 29 days (assuming they met on a Monday, the first week she didn't go to the temple) or at most (it can be more actually, but let's not push it) 34 days (assuming she met him on a Wednesday, the week before she missed the temple visit).

Before I say anything else. Let me tell you I love Math. It's the one thing I take pride in.

Hehe.

So there you have it!

How soon can a person fall in love? How soon can a person declare love? How soon can a person propose for marriage?

Who's to say.

And based on experience (not necessarily mine) one meeting can get you a coffee date. By third there's already a dinner date. And before the fifth date you're already thinking is this serious. And by the end of the fifth date you've established a relationship. And in two days makes it officially known.

Let's not forget Sunehri was working for Rehan and was staying at his place. They had their first breakfast the same day they met. And well, the rest we all know.

Looky look. This got long. Heee.

But really don't go by some thoughts and views that you see thrown around here and there. As ridiculous as you think they all are. And am always happy to read sensible posts (and comments), too bad the good comes with the not so good. Hmmm.

And Heyya!

Am Farz!

What do I call you!

Mwahh.

Keep em post coming. They are most welcome. A great sight for my otherwise can-be-sore-eyes.

Hey there, call me Triv.😊 That was an interesting read. Every love story is different, I totally agree. And it doesn't take a genius to figure out that SeHaan were together for more than a month. It's a bit sad though that some fans hate him so much that they can't even see that he too was neglected and he deserves a happy ever after too. I understand fandom makes you annoyed with the third wheel but such obsessive hatred is a bit worrying. We all are just basically wasting our time trying to make them aware of why Rehaan acts like he does.

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Good post! I dont understand the people who think Rehan fell in love with Suneheri in one week! No he didnt. It was a whole month at least. He completed the Kohinoor project? Was that meant to have been done in 1 week?

Also, he left home soon after Aahil's accident when his hand was in a cast? Now he is fine? Did it ALL happen in 1 week? People need to get a grip?

I agree the hate leveled at Rehan and also SEHAN is uncalled for. The SEHAN story was a bit rushed, but it had to be for the high point to come and for their story to play a part! They could not slow marinate it like SAHIL.

I LOVE SAHIL, but I dont hate SEHAN. Their dynamic is very interesting, especially coz Rehan is Billi's biological son. But he is also Imran's son? Haya has the SAME Father?

Also, about Sanam and Rehan... I thought his feelings were more like "Puppy love"? Yes he had feelings for her, but I think what he feels for Seher is a lot stronger. My personal POV. Also, Seher reciporcated his feelings, so even though it was short, they were in a relationship. To date, Sanam dosent even know Rehan LIKED her? Only Aahil, Billi and Dilshaad know that!

Yes, it's totally uncalled for. Not every lovestory has to start with a guy who treats the heroine terribly and slowly fall in love. Some lovestories do have a decent nice guy and a girl fall for each other. In this story, Sunehri is the crooked one. She is not a vamp who does terrible things just for money. She only steals from really rich people who have aplenty to go by.

And Puppy love is the perfect word to describe Rehaan's feelings for Sanam. I do still think sympathy played a role in it too. But whatever the case, he has moved on and I think the fans should move on with their hatred for him too.

Hear hear sistah!

Originally posted by: trina2010

Theres NO parallel here. No one is responsible for his/her parentage but YES they are responsible for their own Karma.
Rehan knew how his mom is manipulating with a family and Aahils life for money. She herself admitted to Rehan that she committed crimes in order Achebe her goal. He still stayed silent. Never say it is difficult to stand up against parents. He gave lecture to Seher about him hating liers where in FACT he is harbouring a criminal for years. Just saying I don't want anything doesn't make him a saint. In fact hiding a crime is as evil as committing one. So yes Rehan is as guilty as his mom at this moment.
Let's no go into his love life. I am not opposed to Sehan but the actor playing Rehan was not good in romantic scenes. Puppy teenage love is not my fav ever . So let's not go there. Anyway I think no one falls actually in love in 3 weeks either. That's called infatuation not love. Their love story needed proper build up so that most viewers can connect to them.

Btw he doesn't need to expose his mother abruptly. If he is saying the truth that he doesn't want money and want to tell all truth to Aahil. He can very well do that by being there at every step and foiling his moms plans. Sorry but just saying good things doesn't make him a saint.

Yes actually there is a parallel here. My question was totally relevant to the point I wanted to make.

His own Karma. I see..you seem to be skipping ahead. All he knows is that she is greedy and manipulating Aahil and his family for money. He knows nothing about the "crimes" she has committed. None of them. He possibly believes that she did kill the Nawab when he attacked her or something. Rehaan has a strong sense of right and wrong from what I have seen. Don't let your prejudice blind you to what is really going on with him. Do you really think he would have stuck to her if he knew what she is really capable of? He doesn't even know she threatens people. She is a blind old woman manipulating people to him..FOR HIM. As she claims. I am sure he thinks if she somehow does get the property..then he can transfer it back to Aahil. He doesn't know he is harboring a criminal for years. All he knows is that she lies and makes false promises and hence his hatred of lies. He is not a hypocrite. So no, he is not as guilty as his mom right now.

To each his own. I do like Sehaan lovestory a bit. It's somewhat different than the ever present in Indian tv lovestory of bad guy falls for good girl and she makes him a good guy. Been there done that, I like different lovestories. Yes the actor playing Rehaan is not that good in romantic scenes yet. He's a rookie, give him time. You don't learn how to run right off the bat. First you stand up, then you stumble, then walk and then run.

And again I disagree...like I said before my friend fell for his GF in an HOUR and now they have been happily married for 5 years..expecting their first child next year. You can't expect everything to fit in a box of what you think is right and wrong. World is an ever changing place. Love can happen in a year, a month, a day or an hour. It's not infatuation between Sehaan. It's love. And you can see, they are not getting married, having a baby. Their lovestory has hit a bump..it means it will grow, mature, strengthen with the tests of time. They have a lot of hurdles to pass. This, what they are going through is the build up that the viewers want.

Foil his mom's plans when he doesn't know what they are and she doesn't tell him what they are? Like how? Will he dream about them and foil them then? He works..he cannot go spy on her 24x7 to know what she is doing every second of the day. Can you stop the robbery that you heard of in the passing but don't know when, how and where it is going to happen? How can he stop what he has no clue about?

And go back and read again. I said he is human, not a saint and he needs to be extended the same courtesy that we give to other characters.

Originally posted by: farz_parachute

Hear hear sistah!

Well a wall can crack. Here's to ever optimised!

Or we can write so there's at least some sense left.

;)

Pleasure Triv dearest!

Always!

Haha. I am actually a pessimist but I do believe in walking in somebodies shoe before judging them. Heck, I don't even like judging people. I literally live by the motto: Live and let live.

I don't think the sense if working that well actually. Pity, that.

And the pleasures all mine. 😆

Originally posted by: In-Sanity-Triv

Well sure. For some people it's hard to difference between like and love. Liking doesn't always mean loving. He may have thought he loved Sanam but did he really?

Actually, if I think about it now, I really did not dwell on it much. I just felt sorry for him. He lost everyone he loved..I still feel he loved.

Did he truly, really know her? How can we judge people's love on just the basis of knowing their qualities.

I can say I love Hrithik Roshan and I can tell everyone I love him and intend to marry him. I can even express this to his back. Will that get me Hrithik? Is my love true for him? Also, my love for Hrithik is Beintehaa. Will that change anything between him and me? Words mean nothing, they are cheap. Actions speak louder than words. Who does Sanam turn to and expect to help when she is in trouble? Is it Aahil or Rehaan? And you are pardoned. Like I said to each his own.

..but you see, I had not counted on idol worship. BTW now that you have confessed your love for Hrithik...I'd say go give a try. Did you see the movie Masti?? Aftab Shivdasani got the heroine he adored and he really loved her😆
Thanks for the pardon... I still think that if Rehan had not moved on, we might still be thinking that his love is true.

Also in case of Sunehri he fell in love without really knowing her too well..he didn't know she is a con woman. he still thought she likes some Rakesh... so yeah... I thought I'll mention all this.

You may choose to disagree still
About him and his mother.

No, he doesn't know she killed the Nawab. She told him she married him for the money and doesn't care for his children. They only thing he knows is that his mom is greedy. And so he tried to remove himself from the equation because she has implied that she is doing this for him. He thought if he wouldn't be there than she would stop. He doesn't know that he is just an excuse. He thinks that she loves him and is trying to get him the property to make it up to ignoring him all these years.
I watched the episode where she told him that... but I'll still buy that he does not know she is a killer. But he knows she is vicious. He confessed to Sunheri that she does not care for him

It's not easy to turn your back to a parent. Don't take offense..it's just an example. Imagine yourself in his place. You don't know your one parent is a killer..but just that is greedy and wants to steal someone's property. Would you ousted that parent to everyone? I would definitely do more than what Rehan is doing... And I am honest. I will try to thwart her plans...mess up with her..try to threaten her that I will complain to police and all that...I would certainly not sit tight and grudge that she did not give me mother's love...As I said , I find that a spineless act.

.Think about it honestly. Is it possible? Yes it is possible. A strong, good person will do it.
Love and relations is not about having a spine, it's about emotions. Off course you need a spine and a clear conscience to say what is right...no matter who stands against you. I still stand by the fact that we must try to better the person we really love.. No matter how rigid we are with our principles..when our loved one does something wrong, we think about shielding them. That's human nature.

Spine is good to have always...in love and relations.Besides not everyone has the guts to do and choose the right thing. It is OK if you are OK with it. I am not