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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think it's because they had all/most of the beautiful moments when Sanam was unconscious/semi conscious and when she comes to her senses she sees his rough exterior and they have a fight and Ahil does something nastier to retaliate.The pattern & cycle goes on...
Like,the lock-up in office,she remembers being pushed out into the rain but not his subsequent caring of her,Rehan has to spell it for her. He broke a glass,she threw his coat.

While she might have all the nice memories stored in her sub-conscious she doesn't have the luxury of time to reflect and reconnect with those moments enough to remember. That's why she seeks Ahil's support involuntarily and gets more upset than before their 'life altering hug", when he doesn't comply.
Sanam, now has too much on her mind with her responsibilities and I don't think it'll occur to her anytime sooner that she is capable of evoking the kind of feelings that Billi's sons are feeling. Ahil, on the other hand has always been in his senses and has time to process his feelings and is able label it right as "Love".

I would like to see Lateef and Badi Begum help her see what she is unable to see in herself and in Ahil.

IMO the Cvs want to explore the love masquerading as hate theme for SaHil. It was mentioned by Dilshad,Lateef & Sanam herself. Hope the sharp Zoya genes in Sanam kicks in & she figures out what's going on around her soon.
Edited by simran_singh_24 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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first of all sanam accepted that aahil has some goodness to latif..but that does not mean she has feeling for him..did he ever stand up for her...infact sahe saw him involved with woman in first meeting itself..so it will take time for her..i dont think these two even had a good conversation..so when they have meaning full conversation,caring moments they realise their feelings..
even in recent saving seq he did not believe her...so these three months for aahil to start trust her and sanam to love him..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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She believes he has a soft corner towards her but Aahil has never told her such.. He has always maintained he disliked her and that is what she thinks..

Even if she has developed feelings, she wouldn't express them..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: udenigamage

Agreed. If this continue long it will loose the interest.A girl can not be such clueless about love and interest towards her.In reality we girls always sense it at least a bit.


Yes, it's quite un-girly to not sense anything. Maybe she's choosing to ignore it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jasmine_anih

I think Sanam was aware of Aahil's soft corner. But he has been so overt in showing his dislike for her, especially during the engagement with Nida. She really believes he dislikes her. I mean in her head even if she liked him it would never happen.

I do not think she is aware of her own feelings. She didn't forget, she just thinks it will never happen. She will continue to remind herself. It's not about forgetting. It's about not wanting what was never yours.


THIS! .. This answered it all. I'm trying to explain my frustration on this love story here by writing such a long essay, and your one line puts rest to all my doubts! I really don't know what to say.

Quite frankly, I'm pleasantly surprised to see some great, thoughtful replies here. But I have to say that yours makes most logical sense to me.

Sanam will keep reminding herself that Aahil is the guy who burned her source of living to stroke his ego. So she won't even think of looking at him from any other angle. Even if her emotions go all over the place once they are alone together. Why should she bother thinking about those emotions, when she doesn't WANT to.

Awesome reply. Thanks for you fantastic insight! :)


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

Leave dhaba, if a random person just burns ur favourite dress will u even like to talk to him? Here, Ahil burnt her dhaba which was built by her badi ammi wid a lots of effort. Ahil really has to work a lot to gain Sanam's love. In reality, a playboy never changes. So, Sanam is right in her place.



I agree. Why should Sanam think that Aahil would change? He is a rich, egoist playboy, after all. Up until now, he's shown some signs of care and concern but then goes back to scolding her (mostly to keep his own raring emotions in check. But still.) He blows hot and cold, and Sanam is in no mood to deal with it.

For the first time, I think my opinion changed after hearing what fellow forum-waasis have to say! :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: fanraya

Great Post, I think along with her, Cvs have forgotten what she has gone through with Aahil.I keep on wondering the same thing how come she does not remember the times he saved her, all his nice doings, the way always saved her every single time she was in trouble, agree he is also being mean to her, but how could she forget he saved her form death two times, I mean seriously? woman can not be so clueless, when he stares at her, she does not see anything in his eyes? how it is possible, how can she not see the change in him, the hurt and pain in his eyes.. Cvs are forgetting the scenes that they have created with them I guess.. I agree that he is also being very weird, and nasty with her at times, but still.. Anyway I really hope someone put some sense in her head, hopefully she will see the other side of Aahil soon. I love her attitude but I fail to understand her behavior specially after what has happened with her.. Anyway guess Cvs really want to show both start with hatred again and then fall in love, i guess thats the reason all the disconnect in the story.


Thank you :)

@bold, I couldn't have said it better. How can a woman, a WOMAN, be so clueless? How can a person not see any emotion in those eyes? He just screamed "Why are you staring at me like that? Stop staring at me like that!" in the middle of an intense argument... I agree that he doesn't make it easy, by blowing hot and cold. But hey, get some hint. She should at least know that she affects him so so much.

But then, fellow forum-waasis's logical explanation actually knocked some sense into me. Check out some replies. There are realistic and pragmatic people out here. I am just a hopeless romantic fool!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I Agree..why cant Sanam remember about Aahil's good sides..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

I think it's because they had all/most of the beautiful moments when Sanam was unconscious/semi conscious and when she comes to her senses she sees his rough exterior and they have a fight and Ahil does something nastier to retaliate.The pattern & cycle goes on...

Like,the lock-up in office,she remembers being pushed out into the rain but not his subsequent caring of her,Rehan has to spell it for her. He broke a glass,she threw his coat.

While she might have all the nice memories stored in her sub-conscious she doesn't have the luxury of time to reflect and reconnect with those moments enough to remember. That's why she seeks Ahil's support involuntarily and gets more upset than before their 'life altering hug", when he doesn't comply.
Sanam, now has too much on her mind with her responsibilities and I don't think it'll occur to her anytime sooner that she is capable of evoking the kind of feelings that Billi's sons are feeling. Ahil, on the other hand has always been in his senses and has time to process his feelings and is able label it right as "Love".

IMO the Cvs want to explore the love masquerading as hate theme for SaHil.


WOW! Another fabulous and thoughtful post!

Your logic makes so much sense too. Aahil showing his compassionate side to Sanam has happened mostly when she was semi-conscious. Of course! Makes perfect sense!

Also, Sanam hasn't got the inclination (nor emotional intelligence, IMO) to delve into her sub-conscious and connect the dots. If she did delve into her inner emotions, things wouldn't be so complicated and miserable for her. I guess this is the journey she will take in these three months. And meanwhile we will have a yearning and angst-y Aahil trying to stay away from his own emotions. Lets see how long that lasts! Delicious times ahead!



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Posted: 11 years ago
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That is because she is an emotionally challenged Asad's emotionally challenged daughter who has not yet fallen in love but has totally captured the heart of a totally emotionally challenged Aahil. Don't you remember the 360s Asad did after Mangalpur, the Airport engagement and many many many other times?
Aahil's reasons to consider himself unworthy of love are much more rooted than Asad's. While Asad wanted to stay away from those he loves because he thought he will hurt them like his father, Aahil completely feels he does not deserved to be loved at all. So he has this huge exterior following him everywhere. He has questioned himself, his emotions, and even Sanam, but his exterior beats him and Sanam can't see through it. Give them sometime, she will. :)

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