Sanam totally forgot all the good memories with Aahil so suddenly?!

Sanam and Aahil's memory of time spent with each other is starkly different. Even she knows that Aahil has shown compassion towards her time and again. Especially after that fateful night. I mean she went and thanked him.. "you took care of me when you didn't have to, when you don't even like me". Sanam was surprised, but she still acknowledged that he was kind to her. So it's not like she doesn't know that he can also be nice to her. She was also aware of Aahil's changed behavior towards her after that incident. She just didn't know how much it changed for him. Only because she doesn't remember that life altering hug she gave to Aahil! I'll give her that much.

But after that incident, even Sanam expected him to save her/take her side, especially from nida's insults. Has she ever asked herself why? Why did she suddenly feel the right to be protected by the jallad Jin who, not too long ago, himself wouldn't leave a chance to insult her? Why does she feel so incredibly hurt when he doesn't side with her? She even went on to say that she hated him for not defending her honor. How on earth does shve think she is in a position to demand all that from Aahil? (although only through her eyes.)

For gods sake, she's even gazed into his eyes with wonderment when they bumped into each other! He put ointment on her burnt hand way before the incident! How could she forget all that??

All she remembers is how he burnt her dhaba, how he insulted her deliberately and how he berated her even after saving her for the second time. But he saved her! how can she simply forget what he told her after scolding her? How can she forget a man asking her "why am I getting pulled towards you? Why do I lose all reasoning when I look into your eyes? Why Sanam?" .. How can any woman forget that? I agree that she's clueless when it comes to emotions, but THIS clueless? At this rate, they will turn Sanam into a dumb ditz, which I don't want.

My point is, Sanam's equation towards Aahil has also somewhat changed since that incident. And it would be poor storytelling if they erase all of that from sanam's memory just to show a hate marriage or a strong female lead. I mean giving it back to Aahil's accusations is good, but total memory loss on the good things Aahil did to her, how is that justifiable?

Their equation has changed, and it's time she remembered those moments that led to that change. Otherwise their love story won't stay true to the narrative. Worse, it won't be poignant. What's the point of Aahil turning all cold after marriage if Sanam doesn't remember his compassionate side?

well in reality in our life bad memories always appear heavier than good ones. We normally judge people from bad memories. It is the habit of a normal human.
but I understand your point and I guess writer is in the blame side. Seems that he got into too much reality.
In anyhow I am enjoying the show and waiting for the day when Sanam will face the proposal of Ahil... will be a sight to watch.
(Its only my point of view)

^true. Human nature is to remember all the wrongdoings, especially if that someone seethes detestment towards her. Especially I she really needs to hate him right now.

I'd forgive Sanam even if she just forgot the moments. But how can she forget their changed equation? How can she forget the strange connection that they now shared? They are more than a master/servant to each other and she knows it. No wonder she even questioned him point blank when Aahil came to save him.

She is just confused about what its changed into because she feels too much charged emotions when she's around him. but how can she forget that she expected him to defend her all of a sudden? Those are her feelings, not Aahil's! How can one forget one's own emotions?

Because she has been emotionally blackmailed by the conniving 'mother' of a dude who ruined her livelihood, forced her to move to another city to get work, insulted, berated and even physically man-handled her up until very recently. Saving her a couple of times doesn't counter-balance all that IMO.

Agreed.If this continue long it will loose the interest.A girl can not be such clueless about love and interest towards her.In reality we girls always sense it at least a bit.

I think Sanam was aware of Aahil's soft corner. But he has been so overt in showing his dislike for her, especially during the engagement with Nida. She really believes he dislikes her. I mean in her head even if she liked him it would never happen.

I do not think she is aware of her own feelings. She didn't forget, she just thinks it will never happen. She will continue to remind herself. It's not about forgetting. It's about not wanting what was never yours.

But I love this point in the story. The angst, especially Aahil's is fun to watch. I also Rehan's sadness is endearing. I want more feeling either way from Sanam.

She has short-term memory loss. 😆

Originally posted by: KulfiBai

Because she has been emotionally blackmailed by the conniving 'mother' of a dude who ruined her livelihood, forced her to move to another city to get work, insulted, berated and even physically man-handled her up until very recently. Saving her a couple of times doesn't counter-balance all that IMO.

Idgaf if they had moments of 'connection', of course the first thing she'd think of is his past behavior and it'd dawn on her that despite their sizzling chemistry, she has quite frankly been blackmailed into marrying a jackass albeit with a good heart, but a jackass nevertheless.

P.S. your DP is the best thing I've seen all day today.

I agree with your point to an extent. I'm not saying that Sanam should forget all of aahil's wrongdoings towards her. Honestly, no one can, after l being out through all of that.

But she's seen change in Aahil's behavior. She's seen compassion from him. Even if she forgets or doesn't care about their "moments of connection" .. How can a change in equation revert back as if nothing has happened? Sanam is behaving as if he's always been a jallad Jin to her. When she knows that there's more to him, she said it to lateef herself.

Maybe she's overwhelmed by emotions of what her life has come to. And confused of Aahil blowing hot and cold. The man's hyper emotions are confusing. But how can she be a total ditz and not wonder when a guy holds her and says "tell me why I lose all reasoning when I look into your eyes?" .. No matter how much of a devil he's been to you before. Wouldn't a normal person at least think about why a man would say such things? (This is before wedding Sanam I am referring to.)

Great Post, I think along with her, Cvs have forgotten what she has gone through with Aahil.I keep on wondering the same thing how come she does not remember the times he saved her, all his nice doings, the way always saved her every single time she was in trouble, agree he is also being mean to her, but how could she forget he saved her form death two times, I mean seriously? woman can not be so clueless, when he stares at her, she does not see anything in his eyes? how it is possible, how can she not see the change in him, the hurt and pain in his eyes.. Cvs are forgetting the scenes that they have created with them I guess.. I agree that he is also being very weird, and nasty with her at times, but still.. Anyway I really hope someone put some sense in her head, hopefully she will see the other side of Aahil soon. I love her attitude but I fail to understand her behavior specially after what has happened with her.. Anyway guess Cvs really want to show both start with hatred again and then fall in love, i guess thats the reason all the disconnect in the story.