Sanam totally forgot all the good memories with Aahil so suddenly?! - Page 3

Originally posted by: coolfire

WOW! Another fabulous and thoughtful post!

Your logic makes so much sense too. Aahil showing his compassionate side to Sanam has happened mostly when she was semi-conscious. Of course! Makes perfect sense!

Also, Sanam hasn't got the inclination (nor emotional intelligence, IMO) to delve into her sub-conscious and connect the dots. If she did delve into her inner emotions, things wouldn't be so complicated and miserable for her. I guess this is the journey she will take in these three months. And meanwhile we will have a yearning and angst-y Aahil trying to stay away from his own emotions. Lets see how long that lasts! Delicious times ahead!

Thanks!

Yep- delicious times ahead, indeed! I don't think Sanam lacks the EQ. Love& romance are not her priorities now and unlike her Mom,she doesn't walk around with a wish list for her future husband.She is more like her Dad,who was caught in the struggle to survive when young & kept his emotions in check.

She also has a belief that good girls don't fall in love before marriage.

Yes, SaHil's journey will be exciting to watch.As far lasting goes, I think she is one fall-catch in the bathroom away from realising😆,atleast of her unacknowledged physical attraction towards him.

I'm looking forward to see her go thr' "This can't be happening to me.Not with this Jalad Jin" phase.

Plus she is doing a judgmental Asad too. She has formed an opinion about Aahil (as she does usually) at an early stage of their relationship and is having trouble breaking it. Aahil is not too upset about falling in love below his class etc., as she is "because"...1. She can't fall in love (remember?) 2. Aahil is not her type.Dilshaad had told her in the earlier episodes to not be so judgmental and see people as they are, not as they appear but she is a girl who forms first impressions and does not easily break them. she will be in for a rude surprise when she will know the real faces of all around her (the ones she hates and the ones she admires)

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Thanks!

Yep- delicious times ahead, indeed! I don't think Sanam lacks the EQ. Love& romance are not her priorities now and unlike her Mom,she doesn't walk around with a wish list for her future husband.She is more like her Dad,who was caught in the struggle to survive when young & kept his emotions in check.

She also has a belief that good girls don't fall in love before marriage.

Yes, SaHil's journey will be exciting to watch.As far lasting goes, I think she is one fall-catch in the bathroom away from realising😆,at least of her unacknowledged physical attraction towards him.

I'm looking forward to see her go thr' "This can't be happening to me.Not with this Jalad Jin" phase.

I get your point, which is your biggest point, that the dynamic had changed. This cannot be denied. It did. In fact even before he started fully softening towards her, she's the one who hoped for a less hostile relationship with him. After the snake incident, when he was about to praise her, she and Rehan not only had a surprised look, but it was a pleasantly surprised look. When he changed it to mocking, she chides him for not being able to even give some praise or credit properly. Then she was the one who was willing to let the fights go, when she thought he was talking to her (that phone conversation with Nida).

Wow just wow

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

I get your point, which is your biggest point, that the dynamic had changed. This cannot be denied. It did. In fact even before he started fully softening towards her, she's the one who hoped for a less hostile relationship with him. After the snake incident, when he was about to praise her, she and Rehan not only had a surprised look, but it was a pleasantly surprised look. When he changed it to mocking, she chides him for not being able to even give some praise or credit properly. Then she was the one who was willing to let the fights go, when she thought he was talking to her (that phone conversation with Nida).

Their dynamic did change and it was even before Aahil saved her life. It changed from his part after he saved her. However, we saw it changing gradually from her even before Kabiristan. So I don't agree with the argument that it was just him saving her life, and for her till then she completely hated him as the man who ruined her life. If that were the case, she would have never reacted the way she did in the two instances I mentioned above.

Then of course came Kabiristan and onwards. Which, yeah she was unconscious for a major chunk. But even then, something did change enough for her to not just unconsciously always have her eyes go to him, but even consciously at times. She was waiting consciously for him to support her against Nida that night before the Nikkah.

But it's that very same changed dynamic which caused the hurt when he told her to heed Nida his future wife and to do as he said. And after that, it's not exactly that she's completely forgotten, but rather she feels all that was probably her own mistake in feeling he was any better. As she herself said, the person I thought had humanity in him doesn't.

Also her monologue after the Nikkah. She says the person who has doesn't or believe in love is her husband. Which says a lot. She is lamenting the fact that she's married to a man who can never give her the love, etc, rather than saying she's married to a man she hates and can never love.

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

I get your point, which is your biggest point, that the dynamic had changed. This cannot be denied. It did. In fact even before he started fully softening towards her, she's the one who hoped for a less hostile relationship with him. After the snake incident, when he was about to praise her, she and Rehan not only had a surprised look, but it was a pleasantly surprised look. When he changed it to mocking, she chides him for not being able to even give some praise or credit properly. Then she was the one who was willing to let the fights go, when she thought he was talking to her (that phone conversation with Nida).

Their dynamic did change and it was even before Aahil saved her life. It changed from his part after he saved her. However, we saw it changing gradually from her even before Kabiristan. So I don't agree with the argument that it was just him saving her life, and for her till then she completely hated him as the man who ruined her life. If that were the case, she would have never reacted the way she did in the two instances I mentioned above.

Then of course came Kabiristan and onwards. Which, yeah she was unconscious for a major chunk. But even then, something did change enough for her to not just unconsciously always have her eyes go to him, but even consciously at times. She was waiting consciously for him to support her against Nida that night before the Nikkah.

But it's that very same changed dynamic which caused the hurt when he told her to heed Nida his future wife and to do as he said. And after that, it's not exactly that she's completely forgotten, but rather she feels all that was probably her own mistake in feeling he was any better. As she herself said, the person I thought had humanity in him doesn't.

Also her monologue after the Nikkah. She says the person who has no belief in love is her husband. Which says a lot. She is lamenting the fact that she's married to a man who can never give her the love, etc, rather than saying she's married to a man she hates and she can never love.

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