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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: AyRa_Rocks

I agree. Humaira is a brainless idiot, naive and stupid. She herself is responsible for wat she's gng through. She is gonna pay for it soon. so if I set my ayra obsession aside and see it through the eyes of a normal viewer I hv no sympathy for her.this is a lesson to many people But when I see it from my heart it hurts.

Now coming to Haider. He didn't force her directly because he had already created the circumstances so that he need not force her. It's not like he did the deed out of love and not even out of momentary attraction. The sole reason for dng it was revenge. So it is purely disgusting from all the points from where I see. Even if he falls in love with her later still it is disgusting. He might be forgiven if he realises his mistake not just if he falls in love because it means he regrets because he loves her and not because it is actually a mistake. I call such people black and not gray.



plz guysbefore raise o many question wait till todays epi.i m 105 % sure nothing happened between them.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: soniasharmin89


plz guysbefore raise o many question wait till todays epi.i m 105 % sure nothing happened between them.

I'll be the happiest person if nothing happened between them. But right now this is my take on this matter. It might change if nothing actually happened as u said.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AyRa_Rocks

I agree. Humaira is a brainless idiot, naive and stupid. She herself is responsible for wat she's gng through. She is gonna pay for it soon. so if I set my ayra obsession aside and see it through the eyes of a normal viewer I hv no sympathy for her.this is a lesson to many people But when I see it from my heart it hurts.

Now coming to Haider. He didn't force her directly because he had already created the circumstances so that he need not force her. It's not like he did the deed out of love and not even out of momentary attraction. The sole reason for dng it was revenge. So it is purely disgusting from all the points from where I see. Even if he falls in love with her later still it is disgusting. He might be forgiven if he realises his mistake not just if he falls in love because it means he regrets because he loves her and not because it is actually a mistake. I call such people black and not gray.

and abt pre marital sex I'm confused to decide if it is right or wrong. but that comes into picture when both r in true love which is clearly not the case here.





Ok sex is not the be all and end all of anything. In fact contrary to popular belief it isn't even an expression of love. It can be great with a person you love but it doesn't mean two people have to be in such a state to sleep with each other. It's a purely biological need that satisfies the most basic need of all humans.

As for Haider's act he isn't right - nobody is saying he is. But, these things happen every day. It takes two to tango and humeira here is a willing participant. Does she deserve to be betrayed - no! But it's a price she pays for her one moment of madness.

As for pre-marital sex, imo, it's neither right nor wrong. It's a personal choice and belief and that's about it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: delena90



Ok sex is not the be all and end all of anything. In fact contrary to popular belief it isn't even an expression of love. It can be great with a person you love but it doesn't mean two people have to be in such a state to sleep with each other. It's a purely biological need that satisfies the most basic need of all humans.

As for Haider's act he isn't right - nobody is saying he is. But, these things happen every day. It takes two to tango and humeira here is a willing participant. Does she deserve to be betrayed - no! But it's a price she pays for her one moment of madness.

As for pre-marital sex, imo, it's brother right or wrong. It's a personal choice and belief and that's about it.

As I said earlier I'm confused abt this s word.but All u said would be right if he had slept with her atleast because of momentary attraction and biological need of the moment. But he was clear abt his revenge even at that moment which is why it is criminal because it is almost equal to rape but a clever rape. And trust me. Thr r few ppl who say humaira deserves this. And my comment was pointed towards them.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35
I agree with what you said about Humaira. I am not fond of her character at all, nor the actor but that doesn't take away the fact that she doesn't deserve any of it. She is responsible for it YES but not deserving of being used and thrown as a pawn. I definitely feel sorry for her in whatever has happened so far because if we say she has been selfish than so has everyone in her life been when it came to her. Ayaan/Gaffur and Razia who've been way too involved in clearing their own mess to be bothered about their daughter and how she's coping/ and now Haider who is going to eventually fall in love but probably would be late by then.

In sense of the story this was going to happen so I wasn't surprised or found it sick because it happened with Humaira's consent but that doesn't make it 'right' either.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: AyRa_Rocks


As I said earlier I'm confused abt this s word.but All u said would be right if he had slept with her atleast because of momentary attraction and biological need of the moment. But he was clear abt his revenge even at that moment which is why it is criminal because it is almost equal to rape but a clever rape. And trust me. Thr r few ppl who say humaira deserves this. And my comment was pointed towards them.



Humeira doesn't deserve to be betrayed. But unfortunately it's the price she's paying for her utter stupidity.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: lovely_lady

The show veered into sick territory where Humaira accused Haider of sexually assaulting her when he hadn't even touched her. I'm still pretty angry that they haven't addressed that.

But they did address that they addressed it when humaira constantly apologized for her behaviour and reliazed her mistake when haider give her a lecture about how wrong this is .They did address it .What they didnt address is haider forcefully kissing humaira earlier which is called molestation.That is what they ddint address.i.I didnt see haider relaizing his mistake or apoligizing for that
I am not trying to bring in old stuff but just talking about the mindset of society where a girl is reprimanded for her actions like falsely accsing some on of rape(which was done in revenge of molestation) or sleeping with some one out of immaturity but guys who molest girls or take advantage of their sitiuation arent reprimanded at all .Girls are blamed for everything but guys arent even this serial is doing the same humaira is wrong for falsely accusing haider of rape ,humaira is wrong for sleeing with haider.Fine i agree.But when will CV's address that all that haider has done is equally wrong if not more.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

This helps the narrative. How ?
1. Ghazia will learn that what goes around comes around. Razia and Ghaffur plotted , almost executed plans to get rid of Zoya. But jisko Allah rakhe usko kaun chakke?
2. Ayaan comes back. He learns his lesson or maybe not, perfect opportunity for him to turn grey.
3. Humeira realizes that things are not always what they look like.
let us see how the cvs use this particular situation.

i agree Ghazia,Ayaan and Humaira will all learn and bear the consequences of their actions.In humaira's case i do feel the consequences are much worse than her actions but that's the kind of soceity we live in not much can be done about it
But my questions is what about haider shouldn't he as well bear the consequences if this vile act?I think he should as well.He shouldnt be allowed to scott free he deserves to suffer as well
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: delena90

The title sure caught my eye. :)

Just to be clear I don't think any girl deserves to be used for sex as part of a revenge plan but...

1. Humeira has thrown herself at this man.
2. The outrage against Haider -
3. Since it was left ambiguous I am going to go with they didn't sleep with each other.

4. I actually don't see this as Humiera's character ruined at all.

1)How is it humaira throwing herslef at haider?She is in love and agrees to sleep with a guy she loves how is that throwing yourself at a guy.That means every girl who has pre martial sex becuase she is in love throws herself at the guy?Sorry but i dont agree her only fault is trusting a guys like haider so soon.I agree with the other part guys tend to these kind of things with girls hence girls should definately be carefull or think about giving themselves away like this.I agree but what about the guy?Why cant they chage their mentality?Why should always girls be carefull dont wear short clothes,dont go out at night ,dont trust any guy easily all these rules for girls but no one says guys should change their mind set.
2)Yes agreed he is a villian but then he should suffer the fate of a villian as well.He deserves to be suffer the consequences of his actions and get punished in some way as well
3)Agreed hope so they havent
4)Again agree its karma Gazia and no doubt Gazia deserve this but not humaira but i guess children have to bear the consequences of their parents actions as well.Again same question will haider also face his karma?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: soniasharmin89

i still beleive consummation didnt happened atleast precap indicate this .i m sure its haider plan for gaffur.but between them nothing happenes.

i hope so to yaar
I have no issues with haider i have issues with CV's showing this mentality of guys using girls as sex toys even if this si tru and CV's wnat to show this they shoudl atleast show guys who do this are wrong and suffer
Anyways hope nothing has happened

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