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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

...the Indian Supreme Court has declared it also referring that it's not socially acceptable in India.

Personally, I think it should be an individual's choice to choose. If two consenting adults has no problem in living together...I believe society shouldn't have a problem with it because it's one of our basic human right.

In QH...this doesn't apply because both Asad and Zoya intend to get married but our in a complicated situation. But many couples in urban India are opting for this lifestyle and Bhopal being the capital city of MP isn't a small town.

So shouldn't a change be welcomed?

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First of all, it's Muslim based show(just in case if someone doesn't know) and having sex before marriage is strongly prohibited in Islam. I appreciate everything Gul is showing us.
And I think not only in Islam, in every religion premarital sex isn't allowed and there's a reason for it. The institution of marriage and religion should be respected... If someone doesn't follow these institutions he/she should at least respect the views and beliefs of those who follow them.

I hope my reply's not taken as cyber bullying
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i dont mind live-in-relationship and i encourage it
if v trust a person with our life then whats the big deal and i feel physical relation is smallest part of a relationship and major is love n many more things
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its the person choice to live in a relationship whether in-live or married...
personnally i like live-in kz thru that we would b able to kno the other one intentions tooo... but for our society live-in is not acceptable...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: moniloveasya

live in relationship not accepted by our indian sociaty.sc make law but still it not accepted by scoiaty .



Societies are hypocrites as most the time many men are having affairs outside and wifes else where on the sly but when it comes to people being sincere and doing it openly , it is considered a crime and sin.😕


I lived in with my hubby for 6 years before we got married and believe we had loads of objections but we just got more supportive of each other and we have been married for over 20 years and that to happily . We become best friends in that 6 years, Lovers, soul mates as we understood one another thoroughly when we got married.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes, living in together is a personal choice an individual can take, however a person's individual choices are affected by their culture, religion and upbringing. We can't walk away from the idea that your culture and society shapes you as a person. People who are generally exposed to a more westernized concept, will probably be okay with a live-in relationship while someone with a more traditional concept may not agree with it. I think we should learn to respect everyone's personal choice and let them decide for themselves.
From a religious viewpoint, especially an Islamic one, a live-in relationship is wrong, it is strictly prohibited, this is a fact. A lot of cultures don't like it, and that is their personal issue.
However religion itself, in my opinion is something personal, its not something to be dictated to you.
Is it wrong to be in a live-in relationship?
Well that depends on you as a person. Not everyone is religious, not everyone is a Muslim. You are allowed to decide for yourself what is right and what is wrong.
Personally as a Muslim, I don't believe in live-in relationships, and I would never agree to one. However who am I to tell you what's right or wrong, if I say only God can judge you, then well, I got no right to judge. I can only decide for myself 😊

This is not meant as an attack towards anyone / any group of people.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: delena90

My personal pov - it has nothing to do with law or religion - it is all about society in India being supremely hypocritical and worse the hypocrisy is perpetrated by women! It's the women who gossip, it's the women who shun and it's the women who will ridicule. Intolerance, a sense of misplaced morality and their need to feel superior is why our society and societies across the world continue to be devoid of humane and moral values.

As for live-ins and sex - it's nobody's business! And people outside to the relationship don't have to like it but they sure as hell have to respect that others choose to conduct their relationships differently and as long they aren't committing murder/rape/theft society can keep it's very large nose out!



Superbly worded 👏👏👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajnid68

Its compatability...of the two individuals...

BUT..
Society and its culture..does come into play...
LIKE IT OR NOT...

it should be the couple's choice but yes society does play a role.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anoo67

living in is quite ok for me, so agree with you there. in india, quite a few young people opt for this, though it happens mostly in big metros.through interacting with them , i have learnt one interesting fact. although all of them are cool abt thier living in status, they would never have a child out of wedlock, because of social acceptance, so we do have a long way to go.

That is very understandable because in Indian and many other societies a child out of wedlock is the ultimate defamation of the mother and the child...it's extremely sad.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashikakapoor

i dont mind live-in-relationship and i encourage it
if v trust a person with our life then whats the big deal and i feel physical relation is smallest part of a relationship and major is love n many more things

the most important thing is respecting and loving eachother.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ziya117

Its the person choice to live in a relationship whether in-live or married...
personnally i like live-in kz thru that we would b able to kno the other one intentions tooo... but for our society live-in is not acceptable...

exactly...a society can approve child marriage but not two adults living together under the same roof.

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