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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Shayari-

Nah. Dont think they are moving bk

Asad always looks like that. Um sure dilshaad is just gonna say i trust you two dw and let it go.

They have to stay in sm for tge abbu stuff to finally go down. And i think this is all buulding for it. I dont find it useless. Im enjoying it. Plus asya scenes are so much better right now and i feel like the shows back on tracj.

I agree but it seems that Razia made it very clear that Zoya cannot continue to stay there right...if they stay back I am guessing that there will be another showdown and Asad declares their nikaah.. I just felt so bad for Zoya and Dilshad's expression was very confusing. She should have full trust in her son and DIL. Tell me something...what did Razia mean by vidaa kar ke le jao?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

...the Indian Supreme Court has declared it also referring that it's not socially acceptable in India.

Personally, I think it should be an individual's choice to choose. If two consenting adults has no problem in living together...I believe society shouldn't have a problem with it because it's one of our basic human right.

In QH...this doesn't apply because both Asad and Zoya intend to get married but our in a complicated situation. But many couples in urban India are opting for this lifestyle and Bhopal being the capital city of MP isn't a small town.

So shouldn't a change be welcomed?

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Positive changes should always be welcomed. I wish everybody realizes that instead of being stuck at the same place, people should really change and think of new things, new horizons and new options.
Coming to QH: Asad and Zoya are both practicing Muslims. They love Islam and as per islam live in is a sin. In India Muslim personal law the Sharia is followed. Asad and Zoya will not have S*X before marriage because of their faith. As far as live in is concerned , they are living together since 1st month of QH.
BHOPAL : It is a small town. A beautiful but small town.
Here are facts just in case you have time .
Country India
State Madhya Pradesh
District Bhopal
Government
Body Bhopal Municipal Corporation
Mayor Krishna Gaur (BJP)
Municipal Commissioner Rajnish Shrivastava
Collector Nishant Warwade
Area
Metropolitan City 837.24 km2 (323.26 sq mi)
Elevation 527 m (1,729 ft)
Population (2011)[1]
Rank 16th
Density 2,575/km2 (6,670/sq mi)
Metro 1,795,648
Demonym Bhopali
Languages
Official Hindi
Other English,Urdu
Time zone IST (UTC+5:30)
Pincode 462001 to 462xxx
Telephone 0755
Vehicle registration MP-01 to MP-04
Website bhopalmunicipal.com
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Completely agree with you...Its an individual's personal choice and should remain so... No one and that means no one, has a say in someone's sexual life... Its only the couple who decides to have a physical relationship or not... Though, Live in is not acceptable in Indian society, there are people who chooses to be in a living in relationship in India too... And Sexual relationship before marriage is not a crime...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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completely agree with u. . .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rendezvousvin

Completely agree with you...Its an individual's personal choice and should remain so... No one and that means no one, has a say in someone's sexual life... Its only the couple who decides to have a physical relationship or not... Though, Live in is not acceptable in Indian society, there are people who chooses to be in a living in relationship in India too... And Sexual relationship before marriage is not a crime...

exactly...no one should have a say other than the individuals involved.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Twinkle_twinkle

It is not illegal or a sin but indian society no matter how much it progresses technologically its roots are still in line with the orthodox mentality of our ancestors. Live in relationship is frowned upon and usually its the female who has to tolerate the ridicule because a man having pre-marital relationship or sex is alright since he is a male but women are labelled as s**ts. Who cares what decision the supreme court passes in the end it all comes down to the people, it is us who can bring about a change but the idea of live in relatnshps as being bad has been socialized to us and so we cant expect any change. im sorry if i sound like im giving some speech

yes, the women always takes the blame. Double standards.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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My personal pov - it has nothing to do with law or religion - it is all about society in India being supremely hypocritical and worse the hypocrisy is perpetrated by women! It's the women who gossip, it's the women who shun and it's the women who will ridicule. Intolerance, a sense of misplaced morality and their need to feel superior is why our society and societies across the world continue to be devoid of humane and moral values.

As for live-ins and sex - it's nobody's business! And people outside to the relationship don't have to like it but they sure as hell have to respect that others choose to conduct their relationships differently and as long they aren't committing murder/rape/theft society can keep it's very large nose out!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: delena90

My personal pov - it has nothing to do with law or religion - it is all about society in India being supremely hypocritical and worse the hypocrisy is perpetrated by women! It's the women who gossip, it's the women who shun and it's the women who will ridicule. Intolerance, a sense of misplaced morality and their need to feel superior is why our society and societies across the world continue to be devoid of humane and moral values.

As for live-ins and sex - it's nobody's business! And people outside to the relationship don't have to like it but they sure as hell have to respect that others choose to conduct their relationships differently and as long they aren't committing murder/rape/theft society can keep it's very large nose out!

hi Pri dear...how are you? Word to everything.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its compatability...of the two individuals...
BUT..
Society and its culture..does come into play...
LIKE IT OR NOT...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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living in is quite ok for me, so agree with you there. in india, quite a few young people opt for this, though it happens mostly in big metros.through interacting with them , i have learnt one interesting fact. although all of them are cool abt thier living in status, they would never have a child out of wedlock, because of social acceptance, so we do have a long way to go.

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