It's all about priorities - Page 5

Originally posted by: teja0102..

if u see this with priorities then this questions will come but if u take situations and emotions and pain then u will understand the situation asad is angry with rashid and if he made remember rashid only then he never stops. But here i liked zoya most she matured a lot except siding rashid she is actually seeing the right points and explaining them correctly its not about priorities its about pain asad going through and the way he is running from it. The pain is caused by dilshad and she only the person can stop asad that is happened in yesterday episode its not zoya who gave pain to him

Originally posted by: Luckyforever

i don't think so
it was zoya who abandoned him firstly and he just reciprocated her action because he was deeply hurt by her.

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

Read thru all and i agree that He was not going to leave at the request of zoya and she saying that she needed him Zoya being Zoya had to mention Ammi and ABBU. The keyword here is ABBU and not anyone else. Once that word was uttered he flipped. He would stay for ZOYA AND HIS AMMI but Abbu is not in the equation.

After all Zoya told him to think of Dilshad and call her at least once before leaving hoping Dilshad would be able to stop him. Again RAK came into the picture and started to speak to him over the Phone and Asad lost .

Please do not confuse him leaving as wrongly prioritizing and or choosing between Zoya or his mother. He would stay for either one of them. They just got to learn how to not use the word ABBU😉

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Hi Anu,

My lucky day dear, I came across your post. I hardly see QH anymore...I never acknowledged Asya as a couple so it really doesn't bother me but yes I am greatly disappointed with the portrayal of the so called American Zoya who once upon a time I adored. I am disgusted with this pleading and weeping Zoya who has turned into a regressive woman who believes she needs a man like Asad to fulfill her life. The thought itself disgusts me. The once progressive outspoken bright woman has turned into a regressive doormat. She has no self-respect whatsoever. Asad once again insulted her today by rejecting her plea...once again prioritizing someone else over her. But hey, that is what a male chauvinist does...treats the woman like crap and a regressive woman like Zoya takes it. Sooner or later Asad is going to abandon her once again when the Guffur truth comes out. Men like Asad can never change.

Asad is the biggest hypocrite. He very openly rebukes his father...I am afraid he is exactly like his father...if not worse. If he believes that Rashid doesn't deserve Dilshad...then does he deserve Zoya? Rashid abandoned his family...what did Asad do? He went ahead and traded Zoya. From where I see they are both crimes.

I am so glad that you have posted Anu. I am in the process of writing a complaint to the BCCC about wrongly portraying an American woman in the name of religion and culture. This is extremely insulting for me to watch a fellow American being portrayed as a regressive doormat...even though it is a fiction.

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

Pri as much as i am disappointed with asad nd zoya i don't think asad is like Rashid.he is a far better man than Rashid.

After the nikaah fiasco i wanted zoya to leave him and go but she didn't so i have absolutely no symapthies with her...she has brought all this upon herself...honestly asad nd zoya are perfect for each other but their relationship is far from perfect...they have never prioritized each other and this irks me...

Zoya could ahve just left with asad why harp so much on what is right and wrong and i can't understand how could asad be ready to just leave zoya and go?

Asya are asya to me anymore they are asad nd zoya and Qh isn't Qh...

i haven't watched it in over a month and i will not go back...i just made this post coz i had lot of anger bas baki i am done

Originally posted by: -Shayari-

Anu.. so what if he didnt stop because Zoya asked him too?

Its just like saying tomorrow if my boyfriend and I just had a fight.. next minute he is trying to convince me to not leave.. .. in that situation of course I know he loves me.. but im too mad to see past that.. just then a third party MY MOM OR DAD comes to talk to me to stay and its silly to leave over a fight or to run from situations.. who am i going to stay because of ? Im going to OBVIOUSLY listen to my parents..

SORRY but the sheer fact is.. LOVE in anyones life is important but it comes MUCH LATER. PARENTS ARE FOREVER. They are your initial TRUST, LOVE, and EVERYTHING.. and especially if you have an incredibly strong bond btw them.. you are more likely to listen to their talks.

What is so wrong with that?

What is so wrong in the fact that Asad stopped because of Dilshaad? He was LEAVING BECAUSE OF DILSHAAD. Not Zoya. Zoya disappointed him by not agreeing to support him. He had his frustrations with her.. but the reason he was leaving was his MOTHER.. the loss of that HUGE BOND he had ..support he had in his life. the woman he is HIS ENTIRE WORLD left him. And when her CRYING VOICE was telling him not to leave.. he couldnt.

What is so wrong with that?

Im sorry but the FACT IS that AsYa NEVER prioritize eachother. They prioritize their families. THat is just who they are .. and the reason they are this way is because of their pasts. I dont see ANYTHING wrong with that. Because i know they love eachother.. Life isnt just about LOVE of a romantic partner.. its about LOVE OF FAMILY.. and I agreed with Zoya that day she made that Shpeel..that just your boyfriends gf's husbands wives arent what complete you. YOUR PARENTS, your family completes you.

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

I am not only pissed with asad i am pissed with zoya too...instead of harping what is wrong and what is right why couldn't she have just left with him?

Also how can asad just decide to abandon zoya and leave her alone like that?Yes they had faught and zoya had refused to go but how could asad leave her alone.People who love each other don't abandon each other like that.

Dilshad did bring Rashid into picture but he decided to stay inspite of his abbu's mention