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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: aksasya



I was laughing while the dr was explaining abt Rashid's condition...and here we will go to hospital if we hav a flu,but here Rashid is at home in this serious condition...

😆😆😆 i also thought the same!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Read through and through..
Ghosh..what a tango...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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A very good warning at the beginning of your post
I actually did not read it cuz i still love QH
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: fatima30

I share ur thoughts completely! I was disheartened with how Asad turned away after zoya told him she can't live without him...

I don't think asya are gonna be okay just yet...Asad is staying for his mum
I think it will take Abbu truth and gudiya factory raaz to come out for asya to truly stand by each other as zoya will be crushed to learn that her father himself orphaned her...I hope the truth comes out soon about dilshad a shooting too!
I want asya to be together properly! They're perfect on screen but so up and down but they can't be a proper couple until they learn everything about their past...


My problem isn't just with Asad i am upset with zoya too...What is her need of harping everytime on what is right and wrong?Why can't she just think about Asad's happiness for once?Even if going to NY won't make him happy in long run there is always the option to return right?But no she always has to be the Miss always right.
Nd asad the fact that he was ready to leave zoya says it all...
It is very disappointing to see Asya like this after they have been so much
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

Dats wat I hated to saw. Does Asad really love Zoya? Y did he decided to leave her wen she requested him wid tears? Y he is showing so much ego? Y only Zoya sud respect his move always? After seeing how Rashid n Ayaan abandoned their loved once after promising them never to leave them how can he be so dumb to leave Zoya alone? He was becoming another Rashid Ahmed Khan😡. I want Zoya to give him cold shoulder for some time. Then only he vl know her true importance n never try to leave her again. He always takes her for granted dat I hate very much. He is angry wid his dad for leaving his mom then wat he was doing now? He was worried dat his mom vl live in SM then y he traded Zoya n send her there? Dats pure hypocrisy. Asad did not stopped wen Zoya told him to do. He again took her for granted n now I want Zoya to avoid till he surely realizes her importance.


Hey i am upset with asad but i won't compare him with that spineless whimpid Rashid Ahmed Khan😆😆😆he is way better than him.
My problem is neither asad nor zoya are the first priority for each other.
why couldn't zoya just leave with him?and how dare asad leave zoya alone?
Nd he stops for a mother who walks out on him for a man like Rashid?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: moniloveasya

anu irs not about priorities its just a mature communication that asya lack or we can say cvs if aftet zoyaan crap they talk in mature way then this never happen which happen yesterday epi.
i blame cvs for that .asya lve each other nodoubt

Hi moni.I don't doubt Asya's love for each other but what irks me is that they have never ever prioritized each other and this is a situation where they should have afterall who else is there in their life?Dilshad abandoned them for Rashid didn't she?If she can chose her love above everything else then why not asya?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Shona..u have no idea how happy I am to see u post here🤗...thanks for liking my page...aap bahut cute ho😳

Awww thanks Shru🤗So you saw my pic😳😳
I tried not to post but i couldn't resist myself but this is it I am done after this.
Coming to your post...

Zoya and Asad met at the mazaar...Zoe asked him to stay by saying she needs him...he melted...totally...then she is Zoya...toh she had to add...aapke Ammi aur Abbu ko bhi aapki zaroorat hai...and that did it...it made him angry..the mask was up and he decided to go yet again...

Asad feels abandoned...but he wants only Zoe to be the reason to stay...but she is at it all the time regarding his ammi and abbu...now Dilshaad is his mother...woh kiske kehne pe ruka is not the question Shona...it's not a competition between his mother and his fiance...he stopped that's important...
Shru i am upset with both Asad and zoya...they have never been each other's priority and i don't think they ever will be and this much selflessness isn't healthy its irritating after a point of time honestly.
Why couldn't zoya for once not harp on what is right or wrong and just go with asad to NY?
Even if this decision made him unhappy in long run there is always the option to return right but no zoya never does anything wrong does she?
And asad zoya said she won't come with him and decided to pack and leave for NY alone?
He left Zoya abandoned with no one at all?
Yes relationships are tough and people do very harsh things but they never abandon their loved ones like Asya did...


Aap duniya ko middle finger dikha ke jaane ki baat kar rahe ho na...Asad wohi kar raha tha right...he was leaving...did Zoya not refuse to accompany him?? She wants to stay back because of his parents...so if he has decided to stay for the same reason...how is it prioritizing Dilshaad over Zoya...
Yes asad decided to leave but without Zoya i wanted asya to leave and show middle finger to the entire world...as i said zoya isn't prioritizing asad either she is thinking about Dilshad nd Rashid...Dilshad a woman who abandoned zoya and asad and didn't think twice and Rashid the whimpid🤢🤢
And asad choosing to stay for Dilshad shows that even if she walked out shows that he will chose her anyday over zoya and she did Shru the moment she decided to leave for NY without Zoya and changed his decision for Dilshad.
Believe me it will create a problem in real life...No woman would like his love to chose his mother over her...But well Zoya is Mahan what can i say?🤢🤢
This is not a test of AsYa's love...this situation is Asad's fight...about his insecurities at being abandoned...the divine intervention did not happen for AsYa...it happened for Asad...just because woh pyaar mein hain, toh saari duniya bhaad mein hai, aisa nahi hota...kyunki agar aisa hai..toh Rashid aur Asad mein kuch jyaada fark nahi rahega...

They are too selfless and giving for their own good...as far as MKK is concerned...it was illogical..in fact it does not even hold any weightage now...no lesson was learnt because it did not start to teach a lesson...it started to satisfy egos..maybe because I did not see the horror unfolding in front of my own eyes...easy for me to say...

But I will say this yet again...it's not about their love for each other is any less..it's just that they don't know how to say no and not be giving to people they love...I understand your anger stems from the fact that their life has never been fair and they are to blame maximum because they allow themselves to be treated as such...but Zoe can't lose the family she has found, the home she feels at KV and Asad only needs assurance that people need him, kyunki usko abandonment issues hain...now what it takes to get them out of their self imposed selflessness can only be speculated...

But from where I see it...their love for each other is very strong...and just by staying because of his mother and not Zoya...it does not mean he will throw her away at the next given opportunity...MKK jaisa dobara kuch nahi hoga...in fact of u see...bahut time baad they are fighting with each other because of their different POVs on the situation and not because of some third person...it's a one to one...and that is a start...IMO
As i said my problem remains that zoya didn't leave with Asad.asad decided to leave without Zoya and stopped only when his mother asked too...A mother hwo abandoned both zoya and asad...yes i hate dilshad she walked out on asad and she chose Rashid over everyone why can't asya?

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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: ...Binish...

Word to everything you said👏

Dargah scene was just to create romantic scenario nothing else. Asad changed his decision just because of Dilshad and he would have done the same regardless of his and Zoya's presence in dargah.. Just to romanticize and to dramatize the thing they used dargah scene.

P.S: What is MKK?

Thanks Binish...MKK is Muqaddar Ka khel😆😆
My problem was zoya and asad not prioritizing each other...the fact that zoyua refused to go with him and Asad decided to leave without her irks me...it doesn't matter that he stayed what matters was he was ready to leave her...
yes couples fight,the argue but how many even in anger say they will leave each other...very few and the ones who do i judge them for being not fully committed
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I get what u are saying Shona...but the whole point of Zoya being right for Asad is that she loves Dil more than she loves him...AsYa may show the middle finger to them all someday...but right now it is what it is..
And if my man cannot keep his mother's word..how will he honour mine...so yes...I don't take it offensively that Asad chose to stay at his mother's behest...and I don't see any reason why a woman must feel offended. ..when she will become a mother she will understand what it entails. ..her day will come too...family mein competition nahi...affection hona chahiye...

And since u have not seen the scene...I will tell u that he stopped when she pleaded. ..and then she said aapke abbu ko aapki zaroorat hai...so that's when he lost it...Asad is angry and hurt. .abhi Zoya ko samajhna chahiye...jaake waapis aa sakte hain na..

Jab woh 1 mahine ke liye sab chhodke gayi thi...did Asad not honour her wishes...

They both are weakened by their issues. ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

I get what u are saying Shona...but the whole point of Zoya being right for Asad is that she loves Dil more than she loves him...AsYa may show the middle finger to them all someday...but right now it is what it is..

And if my man cannot keep his mother's word..how will he honour mine...so yes...I don't take it offensively that Asad chose to stay at his mother's behest...and I don't see any reason why a woman must feel offended. ..when she will become a mother she will understand what it entails. ..her day will come too...family mein competition nahi...affection hona chahiye...

And since u have not seen the scene...I will tell u that he stopped when she pleaded. ..and then she said aapke abbu ko aapki zaroorat hai...so that's when he lost it...Asad is angry and hurt. .abhi Zoya ko samajhna chahiye...jaake waapis aa sakte hain na..

Jab woh 1 mahine ke liye sab chhodke gayi thi...did Asad not honour her wishes...

They both are weakened by their issues. ..

It is ok Shru...I had lot of pent up anger and that is why i made this post warna i wouldn't even have nd i didn't even expect so many responses i thought i will get bashed...
i am done with asya and QH and man i don't want to spend the little intelligence i have on them.
Also there is a time when different people should be your priorities.When you are young it should be your parents,when married your spouse,when your kids are young they should be your priority and when kids are settled your spouse should be your priority😃I believe this is what keeps people happy.If men choose their mothers over their wife they do have a problem everyone does it is natural and i think even parents should learn to let their children go at some stage.
this being said i don't feel parents should be ignored i just belive a perfect amount of balance is always required and i find that missing in asya relationship.Dilshad abandoned them so yes for asad zoya should have been her priority which she wasn't the moment he decided to leave her.
Also maybe i am this angry coz i am pissed that Asya are suffering coz of Dilshad.That woman abandoned asya for a man like Rashid and man i wish her all the suffering in this world.May she die along with Rashid and Shireen saara tamasha hi khatam

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