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anushreemishra

@anushreemishra

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Posted: 12 years ago

Hi everyone it has been so long since I have made a post here but i just couldn't stop myself this time😆😆😆So before you read further i would like to warn that I have nothing good to say about the show cause i haven't watched it in over a month and am making this post based on the LU I read.So if you are loving QH and can't ear to hear anything against it please don't read futher if all you want to do is bash me otherwise discussion is welcome.

So coming to the title of the post "It's all about priorities" I would like to say I am hugely disappointed in Asya.They have never been each other's first priority and that continues even after the MKK crap.The least i expected of MKK crap was that Asya will finally learn to prioritize each other but they clearly haven't.I am not going to harp on what was right and what was wrong thing to do but the fact remains Asya were ready to let go of each other.Zoya was ready to not to go with asad and asad was ready to leave for NY without him.I don't care if Zoya was right not to go with him cause he would have regretted his decision later.I would have liked had zoya reasoned with him that he would regret his decision of going away and then said that still if he wants to leave she will come with him but only for him and not because he is right in his decision.And asad he just abandoned Zoya and decided to take off without her?I get it he was hurt after being abandoned by his mother but why abandon zoya like that?Do you really abandon your loved one when they refuse to come along with you?

Also why focus so much on Asya and their devine intervention when it was a phone call from Dilshad that stopped asad from leaving.He didn't stop because Zoya asked him too he did beacuse Dilshad called him and told him her sob story.

So my question is What would asad have done had Dilshad not called him?Would he have left zoya?Would zoya have changed her mind and decided to fly off to NY?

Would they have finally learnt to show the world the middle finger and finally prioritize each other?

Edited by anushreemishra - 12 years ago

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fatima30

@fatima30

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Posted: 12 years ago

I share ur thoughts completely! I was disheartened with how Asad turned away after zoya told him she can't live without him...

I don't think asya are gonna be okay just yet...Asad is staying for his mum
I think it will take Abbu truth and gudiya factory raaz to come out for asya to truly stand by each other as zoya will be crushed to learn that her father himself orphaned her...I hope the truth comes out soon about dilshad a shooting too!
I want asya to be together properly! They're perfect on screen but so up and down but they can't be a proper couple until they learn everything about their past...

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ChipChipiBhaalu

@OriginalJuhi_04

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Posted: 12 years ago

Dats wat I hated to saw. Does Asad really love Zoya? Y did he decided to leave her wen she requested him wid tears? Y he is showing so much ego? Y only Zoya sud respect his move always? After seeing how Rashid n Ayaan abandoned their loved once after promising them never to leave them how can he be so dumb to leave Zoya alone? He was becoming another Rashid Ahmed Khan😡. I want Zoya to give him cold shoulder for some time. Then only he vl know her true importance n never try to leave her again. He always takes her for granted dat I hate very much. He is angry wid his dad for leaving his mom then wat he was doing now? He was worried dat his mom vl live in SM then y he traded Zoya n send her there? Dats pure hypocrisy. Asad did not stopped wen Zoya told him to do. He again took her for granted n now I want Zoya to avoid till he surely realizes her importance.

Edited by angel_juhi04 - 12 years ago

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FarhaadkiMahi

@FarhaadkiMahi

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Posted: 12 years ago

anu irs not about priorities its just a mature communication that asya lack or we can say cvs if aftet zoyaan crap they talk in mature way then this never happen which happen yesterday epi.
i blame cvs for that .asya lve each other nodoubt

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starsinmyeyes

@starsinmyeyes

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+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

Shona..u have no idea how happy I am to see u post here🤗...thanks for liking my page...aap bahut cute ho😳

Coming to your post...

Zoya and Asad met at the mazaar...Zoe asked him to stay by saying she needs him...he melted...totally...then she is Zoya...toh she had to add...aapke Ammi aur Abbu ko bhi aapki zaroorat hai...and that did it...it made him angry..the mask was up and he decided to go yet again...

Asad feels abandoned...but he wants only Zoe to be the reason to stay...but she is at it all the time regarding his ammi and abbu...now Dilshaad is his mother...woh kiske kehne pe ruka is not the question Shona...it's not a competition between his mother and his fiance...he stopped that's important...

Aap duniya ko middle finger dikha ke jaane ki baat kar rahe ho na...Asad wohi kar raha tha right...he was leaving...did Zoya not refuse to accompany him?? She wants to stay back because of his parents...so if he has decided to stay for the same reason...how is it prioritizing Dilshaad over Zoya...

This is not a test of AsYa's love...this situation is Asad's fight...about his insecurities at being abandoned...the divine intervention did not happen for AsYa...it happened for Asad...just because woh pyaar mein hain, toh saari duniya bhaad mein hai, aisa nahi hota...kyunki agar aisa hai..toh Rashid aur Asad mein kuch jyaada fark nahi rahega...

They are too selfless and giving for their own good...as far as MKK is concerned...it was illogical..in fact it does not even hold any weightage now...no lesson was learnt because it did not start to teach a lesson...it started to satisfy egos..maybe because I did not see the horror unfolding in front of my own eyes...easy for me to say...

But I will say this yet again...it's not about their love for each other is any less..it's just that they don't know how to say no and not be giving to people they love...I understand your anger stems from the fact that their life has never been fair and they are to blame maximum because they allow themselves to be treated as such...but Zoe can't lose the family she has found, the home she feels at KV and Asad only needs assurance that people need him, kyunki usko abandonment issues hain...now what it takes to get them out of their self imposed selflessness can only be speculated...

But from where I see it...their love for each other is very strong...and just by staying because of his mother and not Zoya...it does not mean he will throw her away at the next given opportunity...MKK jaisa dobara kuch nahi hoga...in fact of u see...bahut time baad they are fighting with each other because of their different POVs on the situation and not because of some third person...it's a one to one...and that is a start...IMO

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DancingBell

@DancingBell

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04
Dats wat I hated to saw. Does Asad really love Zoya? Y did he decided to leave her wen she requested him wid tears? Y he is showing so much ego? Y only Zoya sud respect his move always? After seeing how Rashid n Ayaan abandoned their loved once after promising them never to leave them how can he be so dumb to leave Zoya alone? He was becoming another Rashid Ahmed Khan😡. I want Zoya to give him cold shoulder for some time. Then only he vl know her true importance n never try to leave her again. He always takes her for granted dat I hate very much. He is angry wid his dad for leaving his mom then wat he was doing now? He was worried dat his mom vl live in SM then y he traded Zoya n send her there? Dats pure hypocrisy. Asad did not stopped wen Zoya told him to do. He again took her for granted n now I want Zoya to avoid till he surely realizes her importance.

U wrote exactly my thoughts...And hav u noticed zoya's face expression when Asad looked at her after his promise to his mom...its not in online video...they cut that part...She was really hurt... 😭

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starsinmyeyes

@starsinmyeyes

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: aksasya
What is this MKK????

Muqaddar ka khel...😆

And Zoya wasn't hurt...she was relieved..I have seen the repeat telecast...because if she is hurt for Asad choosing to stay for his mom and not her...it contradicts Zoe's character sketch..because she loves Asad's family more than him...which is evident from the fact that she decided to stay back for 'his' parents...but he wanted to leave...Zoe is not one to get jealous if Asad chooses his mom...when Dilshaad chose Zoya...she fulfilled Asad's biggest requirement...to find a girl who loves his family more than him..Zoe's character is not this shallow😊

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ChipChipiBhaalu

@OriginalJuhi_04

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: aksasya

U wrote exactly my thoughts...And hav u noticed zoya's face expression when Asad looked at her after his promise to his mom...its not in online video...they cut that part...She was really hurt... 😭

I really Zoya to blast@ him n even tell him dat he was doing wat his dad n bro did. Dat vl hit him below d belt. She sud also tell him dat if he really loves her then he sud respect her n her feelings.

I am not siding wid Zoya entirely but I am also irritated by her constant 'rishta nibhaana' jap. Zoya spent many days in dat mad house where she was not accepted as she is like not allowed to wear jeans n made to wear pallu on her head, was made to do all rasams, was insulted always by Razia even accused as Ayaan's murderer, made to do documentary n many things dat real Zoya Farooqui vl not do. Her 'rishta ki ahmiyat due to SM' scene wid Ayaan was bullshit. She did not protested for most of d things in SM n after returning to SM, she came back to her old self. I hated her for pushing Dilshad to go to Rashid knowing fully dat he betrayed for another woman n dat another woman tried to separate her n Asad too for her selfish reasons. Y can't Zoya see people's real faces? She told Ayaan dat she was trying to meet wid their expections to keep them happy? How can she even think of dat dat also for such people? Y she always keeps talking dat 'rishte nibhaana chaahiye todna nahi'? Is she really a modern NRI or even 21st century girl? Wat if she married n he wud hv physically abused her? Then wud Zoya hv worked on dat marriage by her 'ta umr' n 'rishta nibhaana' jap? Wat vl she do wen she vl come to know dat her abbu helped Razia in murdering her mom? Will she continue her 'rishta nibhaana' crap then. Will she forgive them n convince others to do so wid her long bhaasan? Zoya sud act like a modern girl not like a 16th century girl?

Edited by angel_juhi04 - 12 years ago

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starsinmyeyes

@starsinmyeyes

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Posted: 12 years ago

@Juhi: Dear sorry to interrupt...but do u think Zoya will blast Asad because he chose to stay for his mom? Wasn't she doing the same when she refused to leave with him? A son must forget his mom because of his woman? And she should be angry at him that he doesn't love her enough and loves his ammi more? I am sorry but u are making Zoya sound very shallow

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DancingBell

@DancingBell

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Muqaddar ka khel...😆

And Zoya wasn't hurt...she was relieved..I have seen the repeat telecast...because if she is hurt for Asad choosing to stay for his mom and not her...it contradicts Zoe's character sketch..because she loves Asad's family more than him...which is evident from the fact that she decided to stay back for 'his' parents...but he wanted to leave...Zoe is not one to get jealous if Asad chooses his mom...when Dilshaad chose Zoya...she fulfilled Asad's biggest requirement...to find a girl who loves his family more than him..Zoe's character is not this shallow😊

Thank u...And yes Zoya was relieved when she heard him say that he is staying back .when Asad looks at her after the call she really had a hurt look...I felt like that...I am not saying it is coz he stopped coz of his mom but she was hurt that he did'nt consider her...

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