Originally posted by: RandomSquared
dont waste your time...zoya can never be wrong. its not anyones fault, the writers just love to manipulate things in such a way zoya will always end up being mahaan even know at times she is so immature and bratty. when her time comes to face reality, she will also be mahaan then even tho its not realistic at all.
its not that i dont like zoya. i think there have been many times she has proven her love for asad, mainly with legalizing the zoyaan marriage to help nikhat because it was important to asad. that indeed was a great sacrifice
but i just feel when it comes to asad and his childhood and his relationship with his father, zoya has not been able to understand the depth of asad's pain and trauma. its mainly bc they are such different people. zoya i feel would forgive gaffur in a second for his crimes, whereas asad can never truly forgive rashid for his. i mean asad at one point held his father at gun point so one can imagine how much hate he has for rashid..that doesn't just go away bc he said sorry.
its just that in this situation zoya has been too insensitive to asad in her efforts to defend dilshad. i wish she had been more of a shoulder to cry on for asad at least for that DAY but she was ready to lecture him from the second rashid left. i just feel like zoya doesn't feel bad for asad's situation which is strange because one would think his pain would strike her the most considering how much she loves him
anyway this situation isnt about zoya so i dont want to make THIS about her also. everything cant always be about her. this is between rashid dilshad and asad.
and asad has had his large share of times when he was a jerk but this is not one of them. poor guy this didn't want to hear zoya lecture him about this.
I don't know what it is with the writers trying to make Zoya look like she's a saint no matter what. The funny thing is, I was so in love with Zoya in the beginning. She was my favorite character and I just loved everything about her, but I feel like she's not that same Zoya anymore. I don't know if it's just me but I feel she's gotten worse now, more immature and insensitive.
What Zoya did for Asad and his family was indeed great, but then what's the point if you're going to keep throwing it in their faces? In Asad's face and put all the blame on him? It lessens the value of that sacrifice.
Both are such opposites, Zoya has been so indifferent to Asad's pain. But Asad has felt Zoya's from day one. The day she told him about her father, he had tears in his eyes. Because he could feel every bit of what she was feeling.
I don't think Zoya will forgive Ghafoor, and honestly I'm waiting for the reveal of the woman in the factory being Zoya's mom. Because I know all her feelings will diminish for Rashid and she'll expect everyone to side with her.
There were other ways to go about the situation. She didn't have to try to preach to him right there. She could have consoled him, hugged him, or just sat with him. You don't always needs words to tell someone you are there for them. To give someone assurance. And I definitely did not like her tone with Asad. I have yet to get the feeling that Zoya feels bad for Asad. She has never felt bad. When the wishlist stuff was going on. I thought it was the most insensitive thing in the world at how she reacted. When she found out he helped his mom stitch clothes and missed school because he worked so much, and he didn't have any friends. She laughed at all that, which was appalling. Laughed. Or she gave herself praise for whatever stupid reason. She didn't even admire him for all that he had been through yet where he was today, or feel bad that he didn't experience his childhood the way he should have. I will never forget that.
Isn't it funny though, the situation isn't about Zoya but Rashid, Dilshad and Asad, yet somehow it still ends up being about Zoya! Because she just has to open her mouth when she shouldn't, or because Asad says one thing to her that is so "rude" and blah blah.
Asad deserves at least one person to share his pain with, and it's a shame it can't be the woman he's in love with.