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Posted: 11 years ago
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So suddenly Asad becomes wrong for telling Zoya to stay out of the matter because she has yet to understand his feelings? Suddenly he's the bad guy, and is a jerk and treating her like crap? No where was Asad rude when he told Zoya to stay out of it. No where did he yell at her, or say it in a rude manner. And how is him saying that implying that Zoya is not a part of his family? Did he say that "zoya this is a family matter so stay out?" No. He did not. He simply just told her not to involve herself in THIS particular situation. You wanna know why, because she's a immature little brat who needs to grow up and has yet understand his situation and his pain. And she probably never will.

I am beyond words at Zoya's reaction. Zoya's response, was just ridiculous. How the hell is she already involved? Uh no sorry, you never have been involved in it nor are you now. And the whole "She might be your mother but she is more than a mother to me" is completely and totally uncalled for an insensitive. Damn, right now she is really competing with Rashid with those types of lines. If you guys don't remember "before she was your mother she was my wife." So pretty much Dilshad is nothing to Asad but something more to her. So Asad's love for his mother whom he sacrificed 17 years of his life for is nothing compared to hers. I'm shocked Asad was calm with her even after all that. Instead of standing there preaching to Asad about trying to understand where his mother is coming from, maybe she should give it a try herself first and try to understand where Asad is coming from. But nope, that will clearly never happen.

Zoya claims to love Asad so much right, yet is unable to stand by the man she loves so much. Is unable to even TRY to understand the man she just loves so much. Asad has understood her pain and her longing for her father every single step of the way. He helped her try to find her father even though he had disagreed with her on trying to find a man who abandoned her, and whether he would even be happy to see her. Yet he still helped her and understood her when she said she had to see him just once. So why can't Zoya do the same? Why can't she support him and understand that he wants nothing to do with the man who left him and his family in misery for 17 years.

It's okay for Zoya to get mad at Asad, say whatever she wants to him without regarding his feelings, but it's not okay for Asad to do the same.

When Zoya will come to know about the woman who was in the factory being her mother, we'll see where her dialogues from today go. She'll expect everyone to support her and side with her, even her dear phuppi. She'll forget all about the love between phuppi and Rashid because for her he'll be the man who took away her mother, but he can just never be the man who took away Asad's father from him, his brother away from him, his whole childhood from him, and today his mother away from him. When her own father walks away from her choosing Humaira and Razia, we'll definitely see where her dialogues from today go.


Asad has every right to feel what he does and you know what, he had every right to tell Dilshad to choose. I'm more than happy he added that line. I wish he had said more.

Didn't Dilshad ask Asad once, to choose, whether he wanted his mother to be degraded again or not? When she forced him into accepting the Nikah challenge? So how is this any different? Dilshad is a hypocrite in her own words. Clearly shes forgotten everything she's said to Asad about his father. The way she compared Asad to Rashid at the SR fiasco, the way she told Rashid she finally understood why his son hated him so much. She also seems to have forgotten that 17 years ago, when Rashid left, Asad could have gone with him. He wanted to take Asad with him. But Asad chose to stay with his mother. He put his mother before all else, before living a comfortable life with Rashid. And look where that's gotten him today. Only to have his mother turn on him and choose that same man.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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why Rashid wants Dilshad ? Why Dilshad decides to go with Rashid ? Why Ayaan will leave the house ? Why Shireen will stay back ? why Haider will enter ? Why Asad asked Zoya to not interfere ?Why Zoya will call Asad selfish ?why we have no clue what is happening in QH . Because VM decides to leave !! That is it !
JAB JO BURA KAHA US KA KOI MATLAB NAHI HAI,JAB JO BURA KIA US KA KOI MATLAB NAHI,IS PYaAR MAIN SAHI OR GHALAT KA KOI MATLAB NAHI HAI,BAS AIK CHEEZ KA MATLAB HAI,KI MAIN HUMESHA HUMESHA TUM SE...

Edited by gossipgirlxoxo - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks for this post
Its was very much needed
Cant say more ,u already said everything and i strongly agree with u
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Here non of them is wrong coz both have the right to be angry with eachother...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Asad telling her to not get involved is actually a nice way to put it. If it was me I keep saying I would tell her to get the hell away from me and STFU and not give a shit. If it was said like that then I can understand the outrage.

Asad's situation of not having a father is worse than Zoya's. He knows his father and knows that he left them, married another woman, had children with her and lived in the lap of luxury while he and his mother struggled. Zoya doesnt want to understand or tries to understand the severity of the situation. That does not go away just because.

I dont like the "She might be your mother but she is more than a mother to me" and the "before she was your mother she was my wife." lines. It comes off as them telling Asad that it doesnt matter if you're her son my relationship with her is more important than yours. f**k that shit. If they were the ones that lived for that woman and struggled along with her and saw her pain in those years. Then they can talk. They didnt experience it so they need to take damn back seat!

Dilshad will choose Rashid and thats perfectly fine. Let her go and receive some more pain from him. Let those vultures in that house break her spirit. She'll run back to Asad. If he's there to greet her. She might be running back to an empty house :P I wish he really will leave for NYC. Everyone always wants Zoya to go back. I want Asad to leave and get away from everyone of those leeches. 😆 Dude needs a break.
Edited by Drea_QH1fan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with most of what you said but no I didn't expect this from Zoya but from Gul. Zoya has always been fiercely loyal to her loved ones and Asad is the most important for her. I expected Zoya to show maturity in this track. I didn't want Gul to equate AsYa to RaDil EVER because they are so different. Someone made an awesome post ("Rashid isn't Asad and Dilshad isn't Zoya something like that). I hate Gul for ruining her characters.
I think Asad wanted her to stay away from this situation because he wants to protect her from any difficulties.
Hopefully, when Zoya finds out how Shireen left she will see why RaDil was WRONG! The only true wrong person in this track is Rashid. He doesn't deserve to live a complete life or whatever crap he said. If you want to make amends with the family you abandon then have a BIG family dinner or something. Don't separate mothers from their children and emotionally blackmail both your wive🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Much needed post
Completely agree with u 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lavita, fighting words, girl!
I agree with you. Zoya is truly a one dimensional thinker. When has she ever said something that reflects a situaion that is not from her own perspective?

She felt love from this man. So she believes that everyone who thinks they are in love is destined for happiness.

Her reasoning reflects this. She uses her own example tp try to convince Asad. She may be able to convince him of how Dilshad is feeling at the moment, but that does not mean that Asad should stand down. I posted on a drabble just a while ago... She could have added.. Let you mother make her choice. Let her go down theat path, even though you know it will bring her heartbreak. Because she must do this for herself, before she can move on. Please dont force her to choose between you. You love your mother too much for that. Leave her a way back to you. Because what your abbu is asking is not sustainable, we bith know that. He does not love her truly.

But Zoya feels that rashid loves Dilshad, just because he mustered up the courage to do a fake Asad act! Incredible!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am inactive on this forum from last week but your PM made me reply here..
I did not see any other post than this one on this forum, I am actually shocked to hear that today there was post about this too.. No wonder.. That one line was so important than whole drama, and poor guy will have to bear blame for that one line spoken in pain than the fact that he is going to be orphan next day.. For god's sake, give him a break.. His mom whom is loves more than anyone n this world, is going to leave him next day, and today he is getting blamed for the line he spoke to a girl who is being insensitive towards his pain.. Not only to his pain, Zoya is being delusional towards Rashid's love, she has spent days in SM and doesn't she know how ppl are there..?? What wil she do, if tomo Razia kills Dilshad..??
I feel, ppl just wait for Asad to speak something and next moment they start Zoya worshiping, trading posts🤢.. One dimensional thinking just like dear Joya..


Huhhh... I just had to reply here... Still dnt have courage to go through forum and find inspiration of this post but loved your post..😆

Remember, even if I dnt reply, I am in your team..😳😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

why Rashid wants Dilshad ? Why Dilshad decides to go with Rashid ? Why Ayaan will leave the house ? Why Shireen will stay back ? why Haider will enter ? Why Asad asked Zoya to not interfere ?Why Zoya will call Asad selfish ?why we have no clue what is happening in QH . Because VM decides to leave !! That is it !

JAB JO BURA KAHA US KA KOI MATLAB NAHI HAI,JAB JO BURA KIA US KA KOI MATLAB NAHI,IS PYaAR MAIN SAHI OR GHALAT KA KOI MATLAB NAHI HAI,BAS AIK CHEEZ KA MATLAB HAI,KI MAIN HUMESHA HUMESHA TUM SE...


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