Zoya is still not family...is she? - Page 4

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Posted: 11 years ago
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zoya wants to be family but only support dilshaad ! what kind of family is that ! she asks asad to think from dilshaads point of view but did she even ask dilshaad to think about asad ! does zoya even think about asad ! she is pushing her views on him ! the one thing she hated him doing to her she is doing to him !
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: maankigeet4ever

I have not seen the episode but based on the written update, i imagine he said in a fit of anger...the man is going thru a emotional roller coaster...so he is bound to let his anger get the best of him...as he has in the past and blast her. Not i am not saying he is right but i cut him some slack. The man is about to lose his mother ( the woman he loves the most) to a man who abandoned them 17 years ago.


And Zoya was part of the family problems even when asya were not together...and she is now even more so. And zoya and asad have different opinions right now...they are having a clash and they will work it out and manage to meet halfway with a compromise...

-Reya <3

Asad can't take Zoya for granted just because he is in an emotional turmoil.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

yup. I so hoped for zoyaan and Asad/Tanveer.

Zoya, Tanveer are not worthy of Asad. He's too good for them. And Ayaan should be with Humeria only. Tanveer can go find someone as crazy as herself and Zoya can find someone who will live happily in a pigsty with her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I am afraid Asad has always treated Zoya like a doormat.


Priyanka what's your definition of doormat really? Does Asad cheat on her? Does he abuse her? Does he not let her have her opinion? Does he walk all over her? Does he not respect her? What really is a doormat? Does he treat her like shit? Jesus! I'm sorry to say for being a judgmental a bitch and saying this but you're blinded by your hatred for Asad. It seems like you just need reasons to put him down. What if he had totally different reasons to tell her to stay out of the matter today? What if he wanted her to stay out because she doesn't really know the whole issue? What if he told her to stay out because he knows she isn't going to support him like always? What if he just doesn't wanna talk to anyone?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

What do you have to say about her not understanding Asad's pain and always supporting the other side? What will you say when she calls Asad selfish tomorrow?

Zoya is the same woman who took back the very man who traded her at his own convenience. I hope that answers your question. I am afraid she is the only one who understands him and that is why she forgave him. It is not Asad's place to decide for Dilshad...he needs to accept Dilshad's decision irrespective of what he feels for Rashid. He is being extremely selfish here. Asad traded Zoya just the way Rashid abandoned Dilshad. Zoya took him back and so will Dilshad. It's all the same...men using women at their convenience and women having no self respect.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Asad asked Zoya to stay away because she is not aware of all details and circumstances of what happened 17 years ago. Asad is NOT disrespecting Zoya but he know she can't make a informed opinioin due to not being aware of the details that transpired RADIL split.
Asad is firm on his decision based on what he know and he don't want to discuss painful details with Zoya at the moment to justify his decision, that's why he asked her to stay out of It. Again It doesn't mean he is not considering her as his family, he will turn to her for support when Dilshad leaves and there is always an appropriate time and place to share painful secrets of the past even if the person is love of your life.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


Priyanka what's your definition of doormat really? Does Asad cheat on her? Does he abuse her? Does he not let her have her opinion? Does he walk all over her? Does he not respect her? What really is a doormat? Does he treat her like shit? Jesus! I'm sorry to say for being a judgmental a bitch and saying this but you're blinded by your hatred for Asad. It seems like you just need reasons to put him down. What if he had totally different reasons to tell her to stay out of the matter today? What if he wanted her to stay out because she doesn't really know the whole issue? What if he told her to stay out because he knows she isn't going to support him like always? What if he just doesn't wanna talk to anyone?

Kiraan...he traded her off at his own convenience and brought her back at his own sweet will. Do you really think he is different than his dad? Did he think of Zoya's safety for once?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Zoya is the same woman who took back the very man who traded her at his own convenience. I hope that answers your question. I am afraid she is the only one who understands him and that is why she forgave him. It is not Asad's place to decide for Dilshad...he needs to accept Dilshad's decision irrespective of what he feels for Rashid. He is being extremely selfish here. Asad traded Zoya just the way Rashid abandoned Dilshad. Zoya took him back and so will Dilshad. It's all the same...men using women at their convenience and women having no self respect.

Ah well, sorry for interrupting but noone forced Zoya to shut up and accept Asad's decision..On the other hand, Dilshad had no other option when Rashid abandoned them 17 years back..There were kids involved too..There is a huge difference between the two scenarios..Asad has a right to question Dilshad cos she is his mom..His life got ruined 17 years back cos of her loser hubby..He lost out on his childhood cos of that same hubby..He has seen his mom suffer and bear all the humiliation..And he & his sister have suffered the most thanks to Rashid's mistake.,.Of course he'l question her..He just asked her to make a choice..She chose her hubby, so good for her😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Well, the point is Zoya is not in a position to comment on the issue cos she has no idea what they went through when his dad abandoned them..Its easy to talk from a third person's POV..Asad told her to stay out of it cos he already knows she'l tell him to look at the other side😆 Am sure he'd have reacted like that even if Najma had sided with Dilshad in such a scenario..He is broken & worried about his mother's safety..How else do we expect him to react? Am not blaming Zoya here but i do believe Asad was perfectly justified😆


Dis z wat my point..y loads of fans r bashing zoya..common guys...no one cn understand asad more thn zoya..n same wid asad..

Agr aisa nh hote to zoya wud nvr go to sm n sign nikAahnama..its hr trust n understanding towards asad..n asad cum n tk hr bk to kv..dat his trust trust towrds zoya..

Dis point of tym..asad knw zoya dnt undrstnd circumstances. .bt want hr phophi hPpiness
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Posted: 11 years ago
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When feminism becomes a liability rather than an asset it is no longer a good thing !

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