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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ramlath

Hmmm... finally read ur essays 😃 kitna chota hai soup...😆😆


Me cheated..MOst of it is what other posted...I copied...😃😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: s120

Soup, there is a spoiler that says Zoya calls Asad selfish when he refuses to understand Dilshad's POV and since then mission bash Zoe has been going on 😆

Its an FB spoiler so I don't know how reliable it is



😳 Go baby Go!

Get a cane and beat some sense into his head!😡

😡 Aur nahi toh kya...

RASHID NEVER ASKED HER TO CHOOSE...he was willing to embrace the whole family...It si Asad who wants her to choose...he is not willing to let BYGONES BE BYGONES!😭😆

ZOYA WILL NOT CALL HIM THAT...UNLESS HE ACTUALLY BECOMES GREY...GREY...GREY...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


😳 Go baby Go!

Get a cane and beat some sense into his head!😡

😡 Aur nahi toh kya...

RASHID NEVER ASKED HER TO CHOOSE...he was willing to embrace the whole family...It si Asad who wants her to choose...he is not willing to let BYGONES BE BYGONES!😭😆

ZOYA WILL NOT CALL HIM THAT...UNLESS HE ACTUALLY BECOMES GREY...GREY...GREY...



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I was right about Wimpid 😆 Ye aadmi jahan jaata hai museebat create karta hai 😡 😆

My poor AsYa 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
#24
Will Dilshad spend a single day in SM happily?- Of course not...Is she supposed to? I guess thsi twisted is only for a few days to get Ayan out of the show, and Dilshad herself will decide that Rashid's plan is a failure since he cannot get Shireen's consent in this. She will see how Rashid's and her decision has disrupted the lives of all their children...and she will choose the children- BOTH HERS and SHIREEN'S, over her own happiness.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

Rashid has clearly repented...so many times he has tried to beg for forgiveness...and Dilshad has granted him just that. And now Rashid wants to give her the respect that is due a FIRST WIFE...so her children will not be called a chhodi huyi aurat's children...an act of penance Asad declines in his pride. He does not need Rashid Ahmed Khan...sadly, Dilshad still needs him, as much as Rashid needs her...not for the title or honour...just for the only man she ever loved.


And now, life has thrown another difficult situation in her face, where she has to choose between a repentant man and an unfoprgiving son..and she chooses...she can never win any way...she has always only lost in life.

She could win...if Asad learned to forgive too...things would be perfect for Dilshad for once, if that were to happen.


AND THE BIGGEST POINT HERE IS THAT THERE IS NOTHING RASHID CAN DO TO DESERVE FORGIVENESS...


1. @ enlarged... How has he repented ???? By asking Dilshad to come and live with him as the sauten to his 1st wife or to live with her sauten in the house of sauten's moh bola bhai. If thats repentence , the world would not have much of a problem forgiving.

How has he repented??? By talking to Dilshad on the sly and emotionally blackmailing her to accept living with him because he is dying( which he is not, he was discharged the very same day) due to a mild heart attack( Known people who live 20 yrs or more after this kind of attack) when he could have right the wrong by declaring he was wrong towards her and his children in front of all SM residents as well as KV and Quereshi's and he wants to ask for forgiveness and amend the wrong. He may have garnered some forgiveness. Now Dilashad can hear the brunt of Razia's words and Shireen's Taane's in his absence so how has he repented????


Rashid has repented HOW??? He knows that Asad will be upset and is right in being upset cause he is the one who shouldered the responsibility of his father from a very tender age, than should he not have spoken to Asad and made him understand before talking to Dilshad. Should he not understand that it has been him all along who hurt them and not other way around. If this is called repentance than the world maybe coming to an end.


***Rashid has repented and asked for forgiveness before his first attack..what again Dishad witnessed in teh Fast food joint. SHE GAVE HER FORGIVENESS, but vowed to never go back...


But she continues to pray...HURT FOR HIM..HE CAN SEE THAT. And he knows she reciprocates his feelings.

And he si not blackmailing her...HE FOIRST TOLD AYAN WHAT HE WILL DO AND WHY HE WILL DO THAT..then talked to Shireen and then came to claim her..


ASAD CANNOT BE TALKED TO...


DO U REALLY THINK RASHID WILL SAY I AM SORRY AND ASAD WILL SAY OK...NOTHING IS GOUING TO MAKE ASAD AGREE...AND RASHID HAS TRIED TO TALK, BUT HE KNOWS ASAD WILL NEVER FORGIVE...WHAT HE IS DOING NOW IS FOR DILSHAD, AND NAJMA WHO HAVE BOTH FORGIVEN HIM.



@ RED ... It is rather too late to worry about the stigma of the chodi hui aurat as i think Asad has garnered enough respect in society for it to even make a difference. Both the children have found their partners and are no longer affected with that stigma. So why now Rashid Ahmed Khan??? Why not when your Bimbo wife was insulting Dilshad and her children in a wedding hall with many from the society watching and hearing the insults , curses and degrading remarks about her, Why not then.?? You already knew you had wronged your 1st family at that point of time so why not then.?? I suppose you did not know that you were dying than ( he aint dying)

Are you doing it now cause you repent and want to right the wrong or you are doing it cause you do not want to die with the guilt of having hurt Dilshad??? What about your kids, who need you to right the wrong towards them more than Dilshad. She after all was an adult but those 2 kids of yours are the ones that grew up without a father and having to listen to remarks of the chodi hui aurat ke bache. Does not that son who fathered his mum and baby sister from the tender age of 10 while you were busy making new babies and living a hoity toity lifestyle at SM deserve the due respect of having a choice of forgiving or accepting your repentance .


If what Rashid is doing and is accepted as an act of penance than i think end of the world is rather close.



***hE COULD NOT SPEAK UP BECAUSE THAT BIMBO WIFE WAS SUICIDE PRONE..now he has the cards...he is dying, she will listen. And he really believes he is dying...


It is clear that you can never forgive Rashid...but Dilshad can...so there is no point in me trying to convince you why Dilshad can forgive him...😳


. Things will never be perfect for Dilshad. For deserting her Gem of a son who sacrificed his own childhood for his mother and sister, things will never be perfect for Dilshad. She is now forever cursed to have tears. She left her everything to be with nothing( Rashid can't even provide her a home of his own). She left her strength to be with her weakness. Life will never be perfect for Dilshad.


@Green.. Yes there is nothing he can do as of now since he just worsened the situation further. He does not deserve it either. He does not need too, cause it never made a difference to him that his son hated him. He lived his life in total comforts.



***OK. You hate Rashid...I think the point is that theer is no point looking at teh past and counting his mistakes..if U wanted to forgive you would just close your eyes...


And Dilshad will always cry as a mother...FOR ASAD, FOR NAJMA, FOR AYAN, FOR NIKHAT, FOR NUSSAT...there will be no end to her tears and I think she will be back for those children...

No point cursing her...😆

I am not here to upset anyone but i spoke out as the POV of a wife and POV of a Mother and POV of a child, and i have,😉 am 😊and will be all 3 😃for sometime more


Sure...I am also speaking as a wife, a mother and a daughter...of all those the mother has to be forgiving...even a son who cannot understand where her true happiness lies...😳

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Posted: 12 years ago
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You seem to know all the characters by heart Soup!! Sometimes I feel like you're one of the creatives. You should be..
This is a very convincing response! 👏

This decision is a mistake but Dilshad is entitled to make it. Its not right to question her love for Asad because she is giving in to her heart after constantly fighting it.
After all, Dilshad is blinded by love while Asad is blinded by hatred.
Its true that he won't agree no matter what but his reasons are legit. Considering what Dilshad is gonna face their he is the only on who's being realistic.
Being blind with hatred, is not his fault either, its Rashid's wrongdoing.
The only thing Rashid has done to repent is ask Dilshad to move in. And that too is a bad move which Asad and Dilshad are gonna pay for first.
What I have a major problem with is Rashid's condescending behavior in KV and Dilshad's not telling Asad why she took this decision.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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before i become a stunner can i get to see you becoming a sizzler pullz?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: s120


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I was right about Wimpid 😆 Ye aadmi jahan jaata hai museebat create karta hai 😡 😆

My poor AsYa 😭


I swear there will be a tornado coming, the Arctic Ice will melt and drown us all ..and all U will be crying about is AsYa!😲

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I mother is also sacrificing, so could she not have sacrificed just for the sake of a son who has done so much for her... Looks like both Husband and wife are selfish.

Just a question for you, If you were in dilshad's scenario would you be able to accept your husband back ???? An honest from the heart answer please because i know i won't. A woman does not need a man to be complete or happy.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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👏I loved that point U brought about Asad knowing what Dilshad wants..in that case, he thinks his mother is blind to Rashid's faults...when he is the one blind to his repentance...

More than being realistic to what is awaiting her in SM, I think Asad is just being blind...because he perceives Rashid only to be a danger. But what motive would Rashid have to ask for Dilshad back? That is why he comes up with this theory that Rashid has emotionally blackmailed her...took advantage of her feelings...that is why he is trying to reassure her that he will do everything in power to make her life complete..he does NOT REALISE SHE FEELS ADHOORI...he can never get it!

Soup, theres also the pov that... Rashid did not lift a finger to defend dilshad in front of those witches when he was in perfect health. Now, when he is weak, Asad believes even less that he will defend her.mif a woman cannot be defended by the man she loves, whether verbally or physically, how much more incomplete is she going to feel?
In fact, dont know if youve seen it, in the bts of ayaan leaving home, rashid feels some palpitations again! I think its in part 4. But his mission is accomplished because dilshad arrives as ayaan leaves and shireen the human leech stays behind after all!

I think exactly the other way around.. That it need not be heads and tails, but can be a cup of milk with sugar in it... Wont make it spill, just makes it sweeter! 😆

To say to asad and shireen... We are going to meet and visit and spend time, whether you want it or not... Is that too sane for tv? I can visualize so many tragicomic episodes on that track!

Sorry, edited after seeing other posts. Soup, rashid spoke to dilu at the mazaar and said.. We have lived our lives for our children and for others, now it time to live for ourselves. And then he told her that she has the power to make their being together a reality. This was on the phone i think. Thats when she told him to talk to shireen. So rashid really did ask her to choose. To choose him over their children. They were both visualizing asya facing the world together, and drawing strength from that fact in the park by the road. They both chose each other. Asad did not even know! A.Hajnal wrote a post .. Rashid is not asad ahmed khan, and dilu is not zoya. Or similar title. And Asads theory is not a theory.. Its true. If rashid did not use his illness, lets say he was not ill, but he had a eureka moment, i would by the story a lot faster. But talking about his illness and then telling dilshad she has the power, that is i am afraid, emotional blackmail. He is not badi bis son for nothing. 😕

Asad is a close minded man. He is blindly loyal. He does not listen to anybody. With these faults still, he is most attuned to human beings and reality compared to the others at qh,except maybe razia! He misjudged Zoya initially, but saw her true nature much earlier than she saw his. He has been wrong many times. Will he be wrong again? I am betting no!
Edited by Oldestfan - 12 years ago

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