REPLIES: YOUR ABBU CAME FOR YOU.... - Page 13

Originally posted by: Oldestfan

Ok, this is not going to be a "trading post" kwim? 😉

I think what you are saying is that this really is between rashid and dilshad. Thats the only way it makes sense, sense of dilshads behaviour. The episode train has certainly built up to this. Asad tells rashid, some things cannot be discussed, you just gotta do it. Nuzzhat tells dilshad once in love always in love. Asya in the house, asya in the garden, asya at the table, smiley sandwiches, ... The writers really threw the book at dishad! 😆

And yeah, shireen is never gonna agree. Neither is Asad, nor Ayaan. But for different reasons and thats what makes for the nuances of this track.

If we are completely ignoring the real world, and are not going to don morality hats saying.. Asad must forgive because he was forgiven, then I may not disagree so vehemently with this dramatic premise.

However, let it not be said that Asad does not understand his mother. He knows the connection between dilshad and rashid is deep. Thats why he went to siddiqui farm when she was shot. Thats why he let him in the hospital room, and into the house post recovery. Thats why he went insane when he thought that rashid was behind the shooting. He could not make sense of the fact that on the one hand his mother revived when rashid stepped into the hospital, and on the other he seemed to be the one behind the plot! His last conversation reflects that... He knows his mother will not refuse his father, but he does not want her doing something she does not want, that is facing the gorgeous shireen and razia everyday at sm. Perhaps thats his way of telling her that this house is hers, so maybe she can extend the invitation to Rashid.. I know I am stretching here. I actually think Asad is realistic enough to realise his mothers feelings.

Shireens reasoning is simple. Guilt, fear, nemesis.

Aur rahi baat zoya ki... The best advice she can give him right now is ... listen. Listen to what your father has to say first. Wait for the fall out patiently. Take deep breaths. But listen. And I will listen with you.

I just really hope she does not judge him or label him! That is too harsh a stick for a man who has right now regressed into his childhood, and is clawing at rationality for his mothers sake.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

😳 Go baby Go!😆

Get a cane and beat some sense into his head!😡

😡 Aur nahi toh kya...

RASHID NEVER ASKED HER TO CHOOSE...he was willing to embrace the whole family...It si Asad who wants her to choose...he is not willing to let BYGONES BE BYGONES!😭😆

ZOYA WILL NOT CALL HIM THAT...UNLESS HE ACTUALLY BECOMES GREY...GREY...GREY...

Originally posted by: s120

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Yes that's me 😆

I love them

Originally posted by: notagain

Me too 😆

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Shruti,

1. Once a cheater, always a cheater...once a liar..always a liar...infidelity is unacceptable...period...Love is not infidel and if it is..it ain't love...I am sorry my views on love are very radical...

2. He wants to stay with Dilshaad but not his son...such kind of a man does not deserve to be called a father in my dictionary..my dad says he will stay wherever his son wants him...but he will stay with his son...

3. What kind of a man is Rashid Ahmed Khan?...he has no self respect...jis ghar mein woh Dilshaad ko leke jaa raha hai..woh bhi uska khud ka nahi hai..he has no spine to walk out of his bro in laws house...if he had the guts...he would move in to KV against Asad's wishes which he anyways does not give a damn to...

Such a man does not deserve to be called a man...period

No. Once a cheater is not always a cheater...we would not have a word called REFORMATION then...😳 People CHANGE...if they want to...when they want to, it is called repentance.

He wants to stay with his son...is that ever going to happen. You tell me what will make Asad accept Rashid? Tomorrow if he claims her in front of the whole society also, he is going to say that he is putting up a drama. And for Asad, that si not teh answer to teh years of neglect his mom suffered...but why is it enough for Dilshad that he has teh spine to stand up against the one force he always gets crushed under...she knows WHAT ASAD MEANS TO RASHID...if U have been watching every scene it is clear...he has always CURSED HIMSELF THAT HE CAN NEVER RECONCILE WITH HIM...for him to give up on that son, and come for her means he MEANS BUSINESS...

How can he move into Asad's house? Siddiqui- hessi at least a partner there...and his name is connected to that house...how sick if he were to move out to a son's house...leaving his profession...and uprooting that part of his family...ideally he should be moving out to his own house...thing is he has taken all this in a rush..SPEED..he hopes at least that will deal with the blocks in hsi way...and right now, that is working...if it was not forthe speed with which he moved...Shireen would have created drama, Asad would be prepared to handle him, and Dilshad might think and think an decide this was going to make teh split wider...but he makes haste...and makes waste...😉

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

sumi u r just awesum n u know dat 😳🤗
u dont even realize hw amazingly u justify ph n deir story at each pt 😳n nt only ph u justify each n every chatr 😳n u dont know ..hw much v need u to keep us sane ... 🤣 🤣

sumi i ve said it many tyms now ...i ve no issues wid dil moving wid rashid ...my only issues r d ways in wich its happenning ...i know dere is no other way it wud ve happen ...but still i know dis ll break asad more n even dil ll ve anoder heart break ...isliye dis mere thot does nt go well wid me ...n moreover i ve nt seen rashid doing anything out of his comfort zone for asad ...to seek his apology except asking for it wid teary eyes ...

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Sheila,

I doubt U have watched every episode of QH...because Rashid clearly feels bad about abandoning his kids...plenty of evidende...like the property he has in their names etc...and how he reaches out, to be rejected every time...if U have not seen it, U have not seen QH..sorry.😳

Not that I don't understand you guys...but you have to go beyond your situation and your understanding to get QH...if U R going to be opinionated U R just going to be like that...must suit you well..and I appreciate that. There are different ways to enjoy a show, I guess...justthat I wouldn't be able to watch I don'y believe in...and obviously I see QH differently from you.😳

Shruti,

If he is always a cheater...he should have cheated on Shireen too...😕😉 Reformed cheater...who has learned a lesson.😆 But now a cheater turned polygamist!😡😉 (Do read up on polygamy a bit if U R interested.)

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

His not cheating on Shireen was more out of pressure than anything else...anyways he kept meeting Dilshaad so yeah whatever...in Shireen's case it could be polygamy...in Dilshaad's, it's called extramarital affair...or cheating...and I do not believe in the concept of reformed cheater as I already mentioned before...Infidelity is unacceptable to me...so for me people like Rashid hold no respect...as simple as that😊...I have read a lot on polygamy and it's rules already...and with due respect to the fact that it is accepted in many sects and parts of the world...i do not believe in it...I have a lot of Muslim friends who tell me that polygamy is an option allowed but rarely followed...at least in this part of the world