Hi girls,
I am rounding up the negative comments...😉
Just One stand on How. He should have declared her wronged Dilshad 17 years ago for all to hear and if possible in front of society itself. I don't care if Shireen died after that cause she has never felt sorry for what she did for Dilshad.
Sheila,
It is equivalent to declaring it in front of society...he has told his wife...told Asad...and Dilshad is the only one who has to give permission, not society or anyone else... and he is not carrying her away in the stealth of the night..he was man enough to come top a place where he knows he will be ridiculed...and claim his wife.If he has grown a spine to do that to Asad Ahmed Khan, he is ready to FACE ALL STORMS.
Shruti,
1. Once a cheater, always a cheater...once a liar..always a liar...infidelity is unacceptable...period...Love is not infidel and if it is..it ain't love...I am sorry my views on love are very radical...
2. He wants to stay with Dilshaad but not his son...such kind of a man does not deserve to be called a father in my dictionary..my dad says he will stay wherever his son wants him...but he will stay with his son...
3. What kind of a man is Rashid Ahmed Khan?...he has no self respect...jis ghar mein woh Dilshaad ko leke jaa raha hai..woh bhi uska khud ka nahi hai..he has no spine to walk out of his bro in laws house...if he had the guts...he would move in to KV against Asad's wishes which he anyways does not give a damn to...
Such a man does not deserve to be called a man...period
No. Once a cheater is not always a cheater...we would not have a word called REFORMATION then...😳 People CHANGE...if they want to...when they want to, it is called repentance.
He wants to stay with his son...is that ever going to happen. You tell me what will make Asad accept Rashid? Tomorrow if he claims her in front of the whole society also, he is going to say that he is putting up a drama. And for Asad, that si not teh answer to teh years of neglect his mom suffered...but why is it enough for Dilshad that he has teh spine to stand up against the one force he always gets crushed under...she knows WHAT ASAD MEANS TO RASHID...if U have been watching every scene it is clear...he has always CURSED HIMSELF THAT HE CAN NEVER RECONCILE WITH HIM...for him to give up on that son, and come for her means he MEANS BUSINESS...
How can he move into Asad's house? Siddiqui- hessi at least a partner there...and his name is connected to that house...how sick if he were to move out to a son's house...leaving his profession...and uprooting that part of his family...ideally he should be moving out to his own house...thing is he has taken all this in a rush..SPEED..he hopes at least that will deal with the blocks in hsi way...and right now, that is working...if it was not forthe speed with which he moved...Shireen would have created drama, Asad would be prepared to handle him, and Dilshad might think and think an decide this was going to make teh split wider...but he makes haste...and makes waste...😉
Nandini,
I didn't like his comment she is my wife before you're mom
Smelt of arrogance
Arrogance is not a trait of a man seeking forgiveness and trying to make amends
Arrogance of a man who finally found he had a voice and could use it...before he was silenced by death...the freedom of a man who refused to be BOUND anymore...
He sought forgiveness for a long time...was not given NOw his tone is FIRMER...he is demanding...not forgiveness any more, but his right- a RIGHT that is his since Dilshad HAS GIVEN HIM THAT.
Vash,
To forgive is Divine but to repeat idiotic mistakes is Stupidity.
My question is . How could a mother have the stomach to abandon her child and share a man .. with another woman!!
Animals don't do that !!
We don't know if it is the same mistake...we don't know if Rashid will abandon her or stand up for her...so let us decide that after seeing how it ends.
And animals do worse...they even mate with their offsprings...😆 Eg. Dogs, cattle.😆
DILSHAD IS NOT THROWING ASAD AWAY FOR GODSAKE...she is not going to a point OF NO RETURN...unless ASAD IS THE ONE WHO GIVES THAT ULTIMATUM..U step out and U R not my mother.😉 So long as he does not do that, she has all right to come back, and she will come back when he needs her..Rashid will allow her. As regards a man with anoither wife...I REALLY REALLY THINK WE SHOULD THINK OUTSIDE THE CONTEXT OF OUR LIFE...we don't know HOW POLYGAMY WORKS...You can badmouth it as much as U ant...but it works for some people. And they are all not idiots.It is a way of life that si common in some societies...let us not trivialise or ridicule something because we don't know that...and most polygamous marriages do not happen with the consent of first wife...the consent may be there in paper, but she will not be happy inside...so same situation with Dilshad here...still such marriages work, and both women learn to love their husband and be sisters to each other, I suppose.
Purrfect,
I have to say, those who find Rashid innocent, you've got VERY forgiving personality lol.
No one says Rashid is innocent. But if U have really followed the tale through the eyes of the writer...seen all episodes and seen the justification for each charcater...it is there...for every character except Tanveer and Raziya...and to an extent Siddiqui and Farhan...the rest are ALL JUSTIFIABLE, though they are not as straightforward as Dilshad or AsYa. That is because they have not been fortunate enough to know their scriptures well...if they did, they would not be like this...(Remember Zoya's dialogue to Siddiqui at the orphanage...)
When U watch QH, it'd be good to keep in mind that it is about ACCEPTANCE...and there are a lot of hard experiences that the protagonists will accept and embrace or move on..in the end, RASHID WILL HAVE BOTH HIS WIVES< AND THE FIVE CHILDREN WILL BE KNOWN TO THE WHOLE WORLD AS HIS CHILDREN...whether anyone likes it or not- I mean the audience here. THAT IS CLEARLY WRITTEN AND SAID...it is about the yearning to be HUM PAANCH and how one woman who has had the worst nightmare of her father murdering her mother will overcome the hurdles of disbelief in humanity to bring that about At least that is what I have seen and has been shown...and I have no complaints.😳
So if U have a lot of problem with this, please try to brace yourself for more such shocking nonsenses as it may occur to you.😉
Actually I had some friends who hated this concept of polygamy from the very beginning of QH...they stopped watching...I am surprised you guys can still stand the show...I am not ridiculing you guys at all, but I really wonder how you all still stick to watching something youcannot accept. Is it because you did not see this coming> I always saw thsi coming sometime or the other. Dilshad never hated Rashid...she always had a soft corner which only grew through the tracks...until she lashed out in despair once at him...again that showed the relationship was very much alive since she HAD EXPECTATIONS from him.😳
So hoping U all can continue to enjoy the show, because no one can convince U about the story..and the story is going to be just that with ups and downs.🤗
Edited by chicksoup - 11 years ago
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