Don't Sweat The Small Stuff: Nov 14 - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said Sangeeta, I agree, Sometimes you just have to enjoy silly things, thats what is happening n QH, I have not seen today's episode yet, but I enjoyed yesterday and the day before, finally Asya are back , and i am okie with little silly idiotic things that they are doing. We can not all the time think about logic, as this is just a drama, and Writers will do what they want to do. I agree that they need to focus on the story and the characters, now a days its like they are doing per episode writing, that bothers me but I am just keeping myself happy seeing Asya together. Anyway I have to see what level of stupidity they have done today that everyone is so pissed off😊 As I always said, they have awesome actors, and Gul should use them properly, focus more on the story. I really hope they get the old OH magic back.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi

<font color="#330099">Just a short post as I am quite upset with the constant negativity and bashing on this forum</font>


<font color="#330099">I have read a lot of negative posts on today's episode but frankly, I didn't mind it at all. AsYa were adorable as always. Yes, Zoya is trying to change him a little - not because she wants a messy husband but because she wants him to be less uptight and less serious about life in general. She obviously loves him the way he is but if he were less serious and less uptight, he would definitely learn to enjoy the small pleasures of life and not sweat the small stuff.' Imagine when they are actually married, how much more fun they could have if Asad was just a little less uptight.? Even love making would be more enjoyable<i></i>Yes, she could learn some of his habits too. How do we know she hasn't planned to do that next week? Maybe she will try to live a day like an OCD person?

It's become a habit of the QH fandom to nit pick and focus on the negativity. Then they complain about why QH is so negative? Why can't a light hearted episode be enjoyed for what it is?</font>

<font color="#3300cc">People upset about Zoya's hyper behavior should realize that Zoya always become more hyper when she is stressed. The talk about divorce the night before definitely had her stressed. So, the next morning we get a rebound behavior from her....that's how she deals with stress. Asad deals with stress with anger or punching a bag. She just becomes OTT...we all have our ways.</font>



This is the first time I am not agreeing with you about zoya's behavior. Few days back when she was in SM, she was much more streesed, how come that time we didn't see this OTT behavior. Why only in KM?

I respect your p.o.v. a lot. But please tell me u seriously think a 20+ women bahaves like this.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#13
When they were not together - complains . Positive !!
When they're together complains .. Negative !!
Is there a way to have them together and not together at the same time , so the complains could transform the negative to positive ?? . Please anyone ??
Anyways .. I loved the episode . !!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks for all your replies. I am not going to answer each response individually

Just wanted to state that both Asad and Zoya have not had a normal childhood like most of us and that's why it's not easy to understand their actions and words at times.

Someone asked me how many 20+ year old women act like this? Very few but that doesn't mean there are no women like Zoya in this world. Zoya had a traumatic childhood. How many of us have seen our mothers burn in front of our eyes? She has developed her own defenses to deal with grief. One of her defenses is OTT behavior and hyperactivity. In real life, a lot of kids react this way to adverse situations. Yes, you can say she is an overgrown child but that doesn't mean she will not learn one day.

Similarly, Asad has reacted to the stresses in his life by becoming a neat freak and a person who can't even imagine getting his hands dirty anywhere (except Mangalpur of course) He is also an extreme just like Zoya is an extreme in her reactions.

While depicting some situations onscreen, things are often exaggerated. Most rom coms often have exaggerated situational comedy.

That's all I have to say.

As a viewer, I try to understand where the character is coming from. Every person in this world reacts to situations differently, so why expect Asya to react like us? They are unique and as long as they are happy with each other, who are we to judge them?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree 100%

Plus i see it more as some light hearted relaxing episodes after the month of irritating negativity.

And if we are looking at change.. they both clearly have accepted eachother. Its just a matter of them seeing the others pov and what its like to be eachother.

They are going to be married eventually and are in a relationship.. why not take advantage of chances to know their partnee better?


That being said idont like that asad is the only one trying to change a little.. or see the others perspective. This challenge should hVe gone both ways. Asad should have back challenged zoe to be like him.

Edited by -Shayari- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Shayari-

Agree 100%

Plus i see it more as some light hearted relaxing episodes after the month of irritating negativity.

And if we are looking at change.. they both clearly have accepted eachother. Its just a matter of them seeing the others pov and what its like to be eachother.

They are going to be married eventually and are in a relationship.. why not take advantage of chances to know their partnee better?


That being said idont like that asad is the only one trying to change a little.. or see the others perspective. This challenge should hVe gone both ways. Asad should have back challenged zoe to be like him.


maybe he will...next week
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Sangeeta, I feel today they went way too far with childishness, and these things are fine when are in small dose and happens just as part of day..
Zoya, you are right behave extreme when stressed, but did you feel she is stressed anywhere? Maybe she is just too happy to be back at KV after her jail SM term. I wish she complained of how she was restricted in SM and they did something together, like maybe watching TV and discuss some character and fighting over it rather this mess..
Is it really Asad who we loved, he is not 1% of him before. His principal, personality, choices and even looks are changing. Did you once even felt you were watching Asad? I felt it was some other guy the whole time
I don't mind these scenes if side by side on going story is moving in some direction not random new story being added to already confused story.
Still see some sense in Dilshad today, her mind is clouded hopefully se make right choice. I just want to see Asad in action soon without ponytail.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is not the characters fault. It is the writer's fault. They bring their OTT and OCD behavior when they want to and they conveniently forget other times. Like I said earlier, she forgot about her OTT behavior when she was in SM even though she was under lot of stress.

I understand as long as AsYa are happy who are we to judge, but than this a drama and not real life. We the audience are watching this, it is our right to criticise what is being shown.

I do not bash unnecessarily, I am just unhappy that this story is not moving. Lot of people are saying it's better to watch this than haseena and tanveer. Yes I agree to that. But if they don't move on with some interesting track , even these asya scenes will come under the same category as tanveer and haseena.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Vineeta and @ Vinita

Yes, I agree they did exaggerate the scenes today

At KV, she is in her comfort zone and that's why can behave the way she wants. At SM, she almost became a bit cuckoo as she couldn't be free there

Yes, the story crawls but I feel they are trying to get some viewers back along with the raaz track...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome post di,May i add something? This was just a plan by zoya to make her Mr.Khan learn to enjoy life and smile. Even in SM she said"PEHLE CHALI JAUNGI TO BAHUT KHUSH HO JAINGE TUM TO JAANTE HO AYAN MR. KHAN KITNA KAM HASTE HAIN".Even in birthday zoya made an emotional comment"AP KABHI NAHI HASENGE NA" .So zoya is just trying to make AAK a little carefree nothing else.
Edited by abhi.sweet - 11 years ago

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