Dilshad ? - Page 2

In my opinion she shouldn't then again I don't know what il really do in that situation.but as a mother she should deffienetly speak to her kids before she commits to anything... Asad and Nazma have been hurt a lot by this man.

But this is not reality . It is a soap ..so I guess Dilshad willl be back with Rashid .

i just wish she doesnt

Rashid Miyan has guts is all that I can say! even suggesting to Shireen that Dilshad will come to stay in SM?!!! He obviously has lost all his marbles ---the optimistic in me thought he still had a few left!

Dilshad needs to do some introspection -- definitely not give in to the heavy dose of emotional blackmail! Does she even know what Rashid is thinking off--taking her to SM?

...and what about the children--all five of them? and their spouses? Asad and Najma have suffered and atleast Asad still has the scars to show for it! What about his feelings? It is not enough to say ---yeh nafrat karne ka time nahi hai! He wants His Father to be a MAN- a Man he can be proud of! So show him that you are capable of being a MAN and he will gladly accept you! He showed his craving when he told Zoya one of the things I wished for each year was for Abbu to come and wish me on my birthday---all the angst, the pain, the hope was in that confession. Every confrontation Asad has had with Rasheed--the longing in his eyes---ONCE an only once please speak up if not for me a tleast with me! Najma never bore the brunt of the desertion because has Asad shielded her!

The environmental influence has always been given lesser importance than the influence of the genes! This situation is a good example of how the impact of the environment is as much if not more then the effect of heredity! Dilsha and is an honest, strong woman who has given her children a value based foundation so both Asad and Najma are solid. Shireen's three children hav eonly seen a Father who was weak and really not there and a Mother who is wishy washy and easily swayed by anyone so long as her bubble does not burst- so Ayaan, Nikhat and Nuzhar are weak and selfish.

Yes in a nuclear family one would think maybe Dilshad needs companionship so Asad should allow her to accept Rashid - but in a joint family this cannot be the top priority.

Dilshad has to be strong and DEMAND her right of being the WIFE No One- not a woman whose husband left her for another woman because she was not good enough but because of his own weak and spineless character!

... and Rashid has to give the answers in front of Shireen, Razia, Gaffur Siddiqui and all the children!

Then and ONLY then can he be exonerated and accepted by those he deserted!