Asad! Stop calling another man's wife. Where are your ethics now? - Page 7

Originally posted by: delena90

And that's my biggest issue with all three of them:

Ayaan had no right to ask.

Asad had no right to give.

and Zoya should have just walked out and flown back all the way to NY.

@Pri - Asad had no business calling her because:

1. It IS advocating infidelity. People seem to forget that marriage at the end of the day, legally, is a piece of paper. That is what confirms to society that you are indeed married. Your beliefs and feelings don't come into play. If it did I guarantee half the men and women in our society would not be "married".

2.What purpose did it serve for him to call her? From Zoya's POV he has betrayed her trust - as she pointed out in her internal monologue what exactly did he hope to achieve by calling her?

At this point Zoya needs a new man and Asad and Ayaan need new hobbies.

@pri...I am at a party dear but had to comment...yes, it is the first seed in infidelity...but what amazes is that ppl here thinks it's not a real marriage...the fact is that it doesn't matter what the brothers think...they signed a marriage certificate...Zoya and Ayaan are legally married. I was irked by the man's audacity to call her after forcing her to sign the papers...was he expecting that she would be running back in his arms...well, he should have thought about it before trading her off for his very whining and lame sister who wants to finish of her life because she cannot get a man.

Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

My issue is that the Nikaah is invalid. If the matrimony was legal and valid, only then would it advocate infidelity. Correct me if I am wrong, but people have pointed out that Zoya's name wasn't even correct on the nikaahnama. Obviously, the marriage has no religious or legal bases then. It is a sham that needs to be executed for the sake of another person.

Were ZoYaan actually married and Ayaan didn't consider Zoya his bhabhi, the situation would have been significantly different.

But the characters don't know that the marriage is invalid - the audience does. We were given a front row seat to the ZoYaan marriage which is why we do indeed know that all this is invalid. But for Asad and apparently everyone else this marriage is legal despite the circumstance. Both Zoya and Ayaan have harped on and on about the marriage being a mistake and accidental but have they bothered to find out whether the marriage was legal/valid or not?

Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

My issue is that the Nikaah is invalid. If the matrimony was legal and valid, only then would it advocate infidelity. Correct me if I am wrong, but people have pointed out that Zoya's name wasn't even correct on the nikaahnama. Obviously, the marriage has no religious or legal bases then. It is a sham that needs to be executed for the sake of another person.

Were ZoYaan actually married and Ayaan didn't consider Zoya his bhabhi, the situation would have been significantly different.

I don't know about the technicalities of the community marriage...but as far as I understand to consider the marriage invalid they do have to annul all the other marriages happened at the community. They did sign the papers which makes them married and all three of them knows that... infact Zoya and Ayaan has been repeatedly harping that it was a mistake. Anyways, as of now they are legally married.

Originally posted by: delena90

And that's my biggest issue with all three of them:

Ayaan had no right to ask.

Asad had no right to give.

and Zoya should have just walked out and flown back all the way to NY.

@Pri - Asad had no business calling her because:

1. It IS advocating infidelity. People seem to forget that marriage at the end of the day, legally, is a piece of paper. That is what confirms to society that you are indeed married. Your beliefs and feelings don't come into play. If it did I guarantee half the men and women in our society would not be "married".

2.What purpose did it serve for him to call her? From Zoya's POV he has betrayed her trust - as she pointed out in her internal monologue what exactly did he hope to achieve by calling her?

At this point Zoya needs a new man and Asad and Ayaan need new hobbies.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I don't know about the technicalities of the community marriage...but as far as I understand to consider the marriage invalid they do have to annul all the other marriages happened at the community. They did sign the papers which makes them married and all three of them knows that... infact Zoya and Ayaan has been repeatedly harping that it was a mistake. Anyways, as of now they are legally married.

Originally posted by: delena90

But the characters don't know that the marriage is invalid - the audience does. We were given a front row seat to the ZoYaan marriage which is why we do indeed know that all this is invalid. But for Asad and apparently everyone else this marriage is legal despite the circumstance. Both Zoya and Ayaan have harped on and on about the marriage being a mistake and accidental but have they bothered to find out whether the marriage was legal/valid or not?

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

1. Father's name was wrong .

2.They said haan haan two times only.they were asked once , should have been asked thrice.

3. They said it unknowingly.

4.it will be a wrong document .. with technical difficulties.

Originally posted by: delena90

And that's my biggest issue with all three of them:

Ayaan had no right to ask.

Asad had no right to give.

and Zoya should have just walked out and flown back all the way to NY.

@Pri - Asad had no business calling her because:

1. It IS advocating infidelity. People seem to forget that marriage at the end of the day, legally, is a piece of paper. That is what confirms to society that you are indeed married. Your beliefs and feelings don't come into play. If it did I guarantee half the men and women in our society would not be "married".

2.What purpose did it serve for him to call her? From Zoya's POV he has betrayed her trust - as she pointed out in her internal monologue what exactly did he hope to achieve by calling her?

At this point Zoya needs a new man and Asad and Ayaan need new hobbies.

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

1. Father's name was wrong .

2.They said haan haan two times only.they were asked once , should have been asked thrice.

3. They said it unknowingly.

4.it will be a wrong document .. with technical difficulties.

@blue - All things only the audience knows. Right now for the characters - this marriage is very much legal.

Originally posted by: hsvs

Amber, Yes, it is an invalid marriage - for the reasons you have mentioned... BUT have Zoya and Ayaan figured that out? NO!

We as an audience have been made privy to this.

When Zoya and Ayaan were telling Asad about it, they harped on it being an accident and a galti - not once did they think about its validity...

Worse they went and signed a legal document... So yes, the characters as they see it are married - even though they do want to end it the moment Nikhat gets married...