Asad! Stop calling another man's wife. Where are your ethics now? - Page 9

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Posted: 12 years ago
#81
I agree God look at the nerve first he blackmails her, decides her Muqadar and later calls her???😡Asad still hasnt learn his lesson. First Zoya suffered because of his bitchy best friend and now for his ass of a sis🤢 He puts her life at stake🤬

But i have to agree CVs need to show Zoya felling guilty as well for not trusting Asad and leaving the house. Shes partially at fault too. Cvs need to make her realize her mistakes and not to make her a victim and bechari all the time.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

the only thing I know for now is that Zoya should not return to Asad... he has truely betrayed her and this time is no going back...since they are not going to show Zoya working...the only option is they bring on a new guy for her...gosh someone normal.


I for one think that all of them are at fault...and the most at fault is the writing that has shoved this crap down our throats...I have no sympathy for women who raise their voice only when the damage is done...Zoya is doing exactly that...

As for Asad..he doesn't know only what has hit him...agreed..he had no right to force Zoe..but she could and should have put her foot down...and as everyone here agrees, Asad does not know the marriage is invalid...but he does know it is temporary and that is what he wants to re-assure to Zoe too...because he knows what marriage means to her...so actually more than trying to re-assure her, he is re-assuring himself...

Ayan is a jerk..he manipulates every single person to his whims and fancies...Humz and Asad top that list...to me each of them is at fault...not one person...and if I may quote Lord Krishna "The bigger sinner is the one who tolerates injustice, not the one who metes it out"

Asad's character has been butchered to make Zoya look good...which makes QH another abla naari promoting show...and I do not think that's fair...


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Posted: 12 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes


I for one think that all of them are at fault...and the most at fault is the writing that has shoved this crap down our throats...I have no sympathy for women who raise their voice only when the damage is done...Zoya is doing exactly that...

As for Asad..he doesn't know only what has hit him...agreed..he had no right to force Zoe..but she could and should have put her foot down...and as everyone here agrees, Asad does not know the marriage is invalid...but he does know it is temporary and that is what he wants to re-assure to Zoe too...because he knows what marriage means to her...so actually more than trying to re-assure her, he is re-assuring himself...

Ayan is a jerk..he manipulates every single person to his whims and fancies...Humz and Asad top that list...to me each of them is at fault...not one person...and if I may quote Lord Krishna "The bigger sinner is the one who tolerates injustice, not the one who metes it out"

Asad's character has been butchered to make Zoya look good...which makes QH another abla naari promoting show...and I do not think that's fair...



True thats what i hate They butchered is character when Tanveer came. He acted all dumb and now they have put his character at the receiving end who keeps on getting blamed and bashed. Zoyas character isnt realizing her fault. She s made into a victim and shown a s a bechari
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Posted: 12 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes


I for one think that all of them are at fault...and the most at fault is the writing that has shoved this crap down our throats...I have no sympathy for women who raise their voice only when the damage is done...Zoya is doing exactly that...

As for Asad..he doesn't know only what has hit him...agreed..he had no right to force Zoe..but she could and should have put her foot down...and as everyone here agrees, Asad does not know the marriage is invalid...but he does know it is temporary and that is what he wants to re-assure to Zoe too...because he knows what marriage means to her...so actually more than trying to re-assure her, he is re-assuring himself...

Ayan is a jerk..he manipulates every single person to his whims and fancies...Humz and Asad top that list...to me each of them is at fault...not one person...and if I may quote Lord Krishna "The bigger sinner is the one who tolerates injustice, not the one who metes it out"

Asad's character has been butchered to make Zoya look good...which makes QH another abla naari promoting show...and I do not think that's fair...



Totally agree with whatever you just said. I think everyone is at fault. Ayaan I think is the core of the problem, because the Qazi came to him first, had he denied a nikaah entirely explaining the situation, none of this would have happened. He went on to ask his brother for something that is sick of him in the first place. Why should Asad sacrifice, why should Zoya sacrifice for Nikhat?
Asad is a weak man when it comes to the matters of the heart, and the saga sautela bate always tends to make him weaker, riding in guilt, and easily emotionally blackmailed he thought he would let Zoya be there just so that this matter is cleared up and to add to that, though invalid Zoya and Ayaan said they had a nikaah. But he knows none of them want it and SO he knows that Zoya won't stay in that house forever and nor will he let her. Of course he was wrong, he should have asked Zoya what she wanted, or if not, he should have reassured her ..
And Zoya is wrong too, clearly wrong for making impulsive decisions and clearly even more wrong for not voicing up in matters when she could have.
The weakest point in the story is that its been twisted to another matter. It could have been more interesting if the makers DID LET Zoya and Ayaan be in the wrong, and have a character growth. Ayaan might learn a lesson, but Zoya's character won't have an ounce of development. Asad had definitely had its growth, by doing what they did, they've taken it all ten steps back.
I am honestly tired of seeing Zoya as the bechari when she clearly is not.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#85
your right what Asad did was wrong, but his reasons were not, sure in reality if someone did something like that he shouldnt be forgiven so easily. but its also wrong to call "zoya another man's wife" technically she may be but only on paper, but paper means nothing if it does not represent or trully expresses ones sentiments and wishes. you are as wrong as Asad to call Zoya another mans wife. when she herself doesnt consider herself one. and yes she has every right to be angry with both Asad and Ayaan.
but one cant expect Asad and Zoya to forget that they love each other and give up wanting to be together.

all i saying Asad should now work hard to gain Zoya respects and trust. but he should not give up on her. cause if he did it believe that Zoya would be more angry and hurt. he now needs to fight to get Zoya back, even if he has to fight Zoya herself. but he cant and cannot give up
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Posted: 12 years ago
#86
We all know that the marriage was invalid... but as per Asad, Ayaan and Zoya, Zoya and Ayaan have signed on the nikahnamma... and though neither is ready to accept the marriage they don't know that its not a valid nikah. Signing the nikahnamma they know they have hit the final nail!
So as per that now that now that the brothers have jumped into this and pulled Zoya alongwith... its only fair they realize the enormity of the situation and realize that marriage is no joke or a temporary arrangement.

I repeat as per what's being shown, the trio is still not thinking about the legitimacy of the marriage. They are just not accepting it... shutting ur eyes doesn't drive the monster away!

Asad needs to realize his mistake and that cannot happen if he's given a freeway here. If at all in the past when Tanveer was blackmailing Zoya over the identity of her father... could we have forgiven Zoya if she would have agreed to the bargain and ruined Asad's life in the process?

-Sonia
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Posted: 12 years ago
#87
wth?? wen did asad become a stranger fr hr??? now ppl r saying they shudnt talk... guys this nikah is invalid n zoya clearly said mere dil pe sirf ek insaan ka nam hai - asad ahmed khan!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

To be very honest...Asad and Ayaan are idiots coz they don't even know what stand they should take...

Asad told Dilshaad that Zoe is now Ayaan's wife..and he told the same to Ayaan...but the 'mere bhaijaan ko mujhse zyaada koi nahi jaanta' Ayaan has now realized that his bhaijaan and Zoya really wanted to be together so he comes and tells him I will return your amanat when loan period lapses..

Mind u Asad is still unsure because Zoe does not take marriage lightly...since all three are so intelligent as Pri rightly pointed out, they are still unaware that the marriage is invalid...😆..

In fact I thought this marriage will hit Zoe the most as far as her beliefs are concerned..but she actually voiced out that this is temporary...Ayaan and Asad need to decide coz right now Asad relies only on Ayaan's version of things but is still unsure that Zoe thinks the same... They have all been dumbed down and have regressed into Stone age to show this story...and guess what...Gaffy leaves for Indore one day to post muqaddar ka khel...now Razia will start doing the same what Tanveer did in KV...


Star,



1. Asad told Dilshad Zoya is Ayan's wife...

Galti ho gayi Ammi...He had gone with the intention of a display for the benefit of one stupid qasi, and getting back home together...but every step of the way, he told her TO TRUST HIM...which means WHATEVER HAPPENED, he intends to get her back.

He knows Ayan wants only Humeira too..but that kagaz ka thukda...he has foregone his rights to LIVE UNDER ONE ROOF with her, until that is solved. He cannot bear even hours of separation from her.

2. Asad is the most righteous among the lot. It is difficult to take back his word now...but he has given his word to Zoya too, which he can fulfill only after Nikhat's wedding.

3. Ayan: Half understands the seriousness. But he has made the whole plan with bhaijaan...with his (blackmailed) blessings...so things cannot go wrong. Because bhaijaan is with him in this. How he solves this...like Zoya says, tum dono bhai kuchh nahi kar sakte...Until Nikhat gets married,

I guess their hands are tied until that happens.

Any way it came to all this, might as well get the result before they start unwinding the nikah mess...😉 (That will be quite a feat, getting Nikhat married...they made the impossible, POSSIBLE!😆)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: euphoric

We all know that the marriage was invalid... but as per Asad, Ayaan and Zoya, Zoya and Ayaan have signed on the nikahnamma... and though neither is ready to accept the marriage they don't know that its not a valid nikah. Signing the nikahnamma they know they have hit the final nail!

So as per that now that now that the brothers have jumped into this and pulled Zoya alongwith... its only fair they realize the enormity of the situation and realize that marriage is no joke or a temporary arrangement.

I repeat as per what's being shown, the trio is still not thinking about the legitimacy of the marriage. They are just not accepting it... shutting ur eyes doesn't drive the monster away!

Asad needs to realize his mistake and that cannot happen if he's given a freeway here. If at all in the past when Tanveer was blackmailing Zoya over the identity of her father... could we have forgiven Zoya if she would have agreed to the bargain and ruined Asad's life in the process?

-Sonia

@bold.. very well said... if Zoya now get this chance to choose between her father n Asad.. i will be with her if she chooses her dad cz both brothers need to be taught 😆

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