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First, I know this forum is an AsYa majority.
So I can understand how much you all hate Ayaan. And how you've always hated him - because he's a hothead.
So the ZoYaan nikkaah happened. It was NOT either of their fault. It happened by accident. We all know it.
Ayaan:
Yes it was wrong for Ayaan to ask Zoya to be his wife for Nikhat's sake until the marriage gets fixed. Does he really think once Nikhat and Najma gets married to Farhan and Imran resp, he'll just RETURN Zoya to Asad?
But BOY he did not expect the entire forum to call him ALL sorts of names. Even Tanveer wouldnt have as many hatemails as he has right now. Lets calm down and realize that he is also going through a heartbreak. He loved Humeira. Just when things were working out for them, this happened. He does not love Zoya and hence an equal chance that he isnt going to be a happy camper with her.. just like Zoya isnt going to be happy with him.
To ask him to die because some deluded people think he PURPOSELY broke AsYa is just downright ridiculous. He IS acting stupid. But so is Asad.
Do we not know Asad's character yet? Did we really think if Ayaan hadnt asked Asad, he wouldnt have done the same after coming to know about Nikhat's suicide attempt?
Why is ALL the blame directed towards Ayaan? I just find this inexcusable. Just because you like AsYa, everyone around them cant be blamed.
I blame Asad more than Ayaan for all this. Atleast if it was only Ayaan that requested her - Zoya WOULD have said NO. Very easily. Now because Asad has chosen to act like a bloody martyr - she is forced to not have a choice.
Ayaan IS NOT AT FAULT FOR EVERY BLOODY THING. If everyone is going to wear rosy Asad glasses and blame Ayaan for everything -- well I can't do anything about that can i? I will still root for ZoYaan to break and AyRa to happen.
And for all asking Nikhat to die because she's a pathetic, weak, dumb woman - please stop and think about what message that sends out. We all love a strong woman like Zoya (Oops, I take that back in this track) - but is everybody that strong? Always? Hasnt Nikhat shown she can be super strong? When she stopped the Asad- Ayaan conflict at Haseena Bi's place? Give that girl a break! She has always had low self esteem and after Imran, she went through a heartbreak and recently, thanks to Haseena's insults and the revoking of her rishta - she is going through a depression.
IF the CV's were trying to show women undergoing mental torture and THIS is how we react, how can we assume any show to send out a message? Safety against men isnt the only problem indian women face. This is equally frightening.
I'm not justifying Nikhat, I LOVE strong women. But I cant hate Nikhat for being weak. I sympathize with her.
Shiv Shakti
