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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

I'm on my phone now, so my Times New Romans awesomeness has to go.


Anyways, your counterargument merely serves to strengthen my point Amber. What stabilizes Nikhat's will to live? What changed? Certainly not Nikhat's perception about herself. Given, she will regret her decision. But only for others. Not for herself. Killing yourself would still be presented as a viable option, as long as you're not hurting others.

Now, if Nikhat is shown as a dignified woman who decides to not let society dictate her life, I'll be the first one to eat my words.

P.S.: I would appreciate it if my comment is not misconstrued in quotes as bashing. I would prefer not to talk about how afflicted Gul, or anyone for that matter, is with avarice.


Small steps jazz, while we have come a long way still miles to go..
Its not only female life , its life in general that is not valued in so many countries. Poverty , lack of education and other social stigmas contribute to the society's thinking.
Nikhat cannot become a confident and empowered woman overnight.
she has not been raised that way. But she can do something about it slowly , like raise her daughters as an independent , strong willed female.
its not only India. USA still does not have a female president after 200 plus years of in dependence.
but with girls like you, we have hope. The future looks promising
to quote mlk
Human progress is neither automatic nor inevitable... Every step toward the goal of justice requires sacrifice, suffering, and struggle; the tireless exertions and passionate concern of dedicated individuals.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

even i want zoya to attempt suicide now ...=))dats d only way out ...

I meant it as a joke !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manoshono

Sadly she didn't wear a running shoes this time under her bridal dress 😆

they would have come in handy !
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: karan-007

I like your post even I want zoya to go back to N.Y. n chill rather then become a football n be in contact with dilshaad n fot asad this was the time for him to say it on face to rashid n shireen wat yu did to moi mother ab wahi tumhari beti ke saath ho raha hai but nah he says tumhe mujh pe yakeen hai na this yakeen thing is making me mad y ssad character changed souch may be bcoz of hearing thst ayaan n she got married


it was indeed zoya's mistake that she left the house on her wedding day and her bad luck that she got married this way, but its up to her to save herself.
she will not gain anything by losing herself .Asad's character has always been flawed, he is like this only.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35
Before i begin to say anything, its a fictional show, yes, but argument and different point of views is needed here!
Nikhat has always been the quiet, shy, tedious and a very vanilla-icous kind of character. Ayaan has stood up for her considerable times, however she has always stopped him being afraid that something might go wrong because of her! but i do appreciate the fact that they have kept her traits consistent and not all of sudden is shouting her opinions.
i feel like or more like believe that shes been added, as a very necessary character, for the cliche(i know this work might sound mean) kind of women out there who go by what others command and demand!

once again, i feel like Gul has been trying portray that suicidal is not the answer to all the problems and just causes more stress and conflicts arise but she incredibly failed because shes conveying that u can get out urself out of the situation by killing urself i think the scenes need a little adjustments to make the message understandable and clear.

When one is about to commit suicide they dont realize how many lives will be going along with them! but all their are eyes are adjusted to the fact that there is no one out there that "loves" them.

great post ambs! always look forward to them! yo yo honey singh! and love ya!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: littles12

Before i begin to say anything, its a fictional show, yes, but argument and different point of views is needed here!

Nikhat has always been the quiet, shy, tedious and a very vanilla-icous kind of character. Ayaan has stood up for her considerable times, however she has always stopped him being afraid that something might go wrong because of her! but i do appreciate the fact that they have kept her traits consistent and not all of sudden is shouting her opinions.
i feel like or more like believe that shes been added, as a very necessary character, for the cliche(i know this work might sound mean) kind of women out there who go by what others command and demand!

once again, i feel like Gul has been trying portray that suicidal is not the answer to all the problems and just causes more stress and conflicts arise but she incredibly failed because shes conveying that u can get out urself out of the situation by killing urself i think the scenes need a little adjustments to make the message understandable and clear.

When one is about to commit suicide they dont realize how many lives will be going along with them! but all their are eyes are adjusted to the fact that there is no one out there that "loves" them.

great post ambs! always look forward to them! yo yo honey singh! and love ya!

Yo Yo Honey singh and I love you too
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Jaya8423

Haha ur post is so funny..."watch macy thanks giving parade and chill " cracked me up...jokes apart i strongly feel she shud annul the marriage and run..

She is from NY and next best thing will be Thanksgiving parade.
Jokes apart , now she is to blame not Muqaddar !
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38
Brilliant post🤣. Suicide is never the answer but yes it takes lots of guts to do it and if the same guts were used to sort out ones problem would be more worth it. Nikhat needs psychiatric help and along with her Shireen too.🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MannieXO

bhaag Zoya bhaag ... and dont look back 😆

Oh I so wish that she does that !
Congratulations you just turned red !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

Brilliant post🤣. Suicide is never the answer but yes it takes lots of guts to do it and if the same guts were used to sort out ones problem would be more worth it. Nikhat needs psychiatric help and along with her Shireen too.🤔

The whole mindset needs to change. They have been brought up as if the only aim in life is to get married !

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