The last time I made a post about Zoya was when I was calling her a hypocrite for rushing Najma-Imraan to get married and not worrying about Nikhat's feelings.
Today I'm making a post in her defense.
I know everyone's entitled to their own opinions but I dont get how other people especially women dont feel sorry for her or are saying Zoya deserves all this. Like put yourself in Zoya's shoes, would you really deserve being forced into a loveless marriage all because you made some unintentional mistakes while trying to help someone (Najma-trying to prevent her life from getting ruined). Granted Zoya should have told someone before leaving or should have at least called Asad when she sat down at the community hall... but we dont know what her thought process was exactly. What ever her thoughts were made sense to her... Perhaps maybe she didnt tell anyone she was leaving the house because she didnt have time to explain things. She was in a hurry to get to the place so she can see hear Imraan-Tanveer's conversation which unfortunately didnt happen... and then maybe at the community hall she didnt call anyone because she was scared, there were goons around her. If I was her with goons around me, forget a phone call I would be so scared to even whisper a sound. Also imagine after running away from goons, what your heart rate and state of mind would be like... does everyone think clearly in these kinds of situations? No. Why? Because everyone is different.
And then on top of all that, Najma and Imraan actually got married!! Imagine what Zoya's going through right now. All that guilt: the guilt of not being able to stop Najma-Imraan's wedding, the guilt of Nikhat-Farhan's rishta breaking because of her nikhah fiasco, and the guilt of Nikhat attempting suicide. And now with Zoya being forced to live with Ayaan, imagine the more guilt she's feeling, the guilt of making Asad feel betrayed, the guilt for inflicting so much pain on Dilshaad, breaking her heart too. Her guilt's going to get even more worse when she's going to have to face Humaira. Imagine having to face a woman everyday, the woman who's dreams you've shattered (she knows about Humaira loving Ayaan and Humaira-Ayaan getting engaged since she witnessed it), the woman who's man you snatched. If Zoya finds out Humaira is her sister and she's still married to Ayaan, imagine how horrible Zoya will feel. We all know AsYa are endgame but if you were in Zoya's position, would you ever be able to get past the fact that you married your little sister's love? Wont that mistake taunt you for the rest of your life?
I think for the mistakes Zoya committed (if you consider Zoya at fault), this accidental nikhah was too big of a punishment. As a woman I truely do feel sympathetic towards Zoya.
Sorry if I was harsh, didn't mean to hurt anyone
edit:
The biggest mistake in this situation Zoya made was not telling Asad her doubts about Imraan BEFORE the wedding day. If she at least done that then maybe this all would have turned out differently. But what happened on the wedding day, I dont blame Zoya... in fact I might have done the same thing as her if I was put in her situation.
Edited by MannieXO - 11 years ago