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Posted: 11 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: delena90



Sorry sangeeta - them fantasizing about each other is not something I will respect.

Frankly, if zoya honors this marriage the AsYa story ends there. It also begs the question why they didn't annul the marriage right away instead of months from the day of the Nikaah. And tanveer blackmailing them is not an excuse/reason - as she isn't sitting in SM. Nothing is stopping them from annulling it. Also if Tanveer's blackmailing them can Zoya use we damn brains and call the cops?!?

Their relationship would be less in my opinion because while asad was framed, zoya is just selfish and stupid and asad would in this scenario deserve better.



Are marriage allowed to be anulled right away del? Dont they take a few months?
And as for thinking about eachother i dont understand how two former lovers who were so eager to marry eahother can completely cold turkey stop thinking about eachother. =|

It takes a while and is a gradual process. But as bheegi said asya wouldnt cross their boundries.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pk1611

What I meant was one with intimate relationship.. I didnt bring this up.. The topic was abt discussions abt this issue in forums..
N nowadays it feels like only v remember that Zoya is an educated girl who ran away frm her own wedding just bcoz she could not marry som1whom she had never met n b4 she found her father!

😉 an impulsive, childish, brattish...I can go on and on girl !
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Posted: 11 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: sujataraje

can i wish that jumping directly to 5th wish was not blooper???😉

can i see something like parineeta here😆



Thats what i am suggesting an had it in my mind for a few days but didnt want to make a post and have everyome say im eing to optimistic.

Its possible asads fourth wish was that they got married in private to be safe. 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: -Shayari-

Thank u bheegi from bringig secrets nikaah up because its still possible. I just didnt want to be the one to say it and be labeled to optimisitc.

The fact is they forgot the fourth wish. And the hype of the sevrey nikaah and engagement was still there.

Its very much possible that they had a completely private ceremony already.

But we love you Rosh.. and love your optimism too !!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

😉 an impulsive, childish, brattish...I can go on and on girl !

Oh yeah.. Me too.. 😛..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: delena90



Sorry sangeeta - them fantasizing about each other is not something I will respect.

Frankly, if zoya honors this marriage the AsYa story ends there. It also begs the question why they didn't annul the marriage right away instead of months from the day of the Nikaah. And tanveer blackmailing them is not an excuse/reason - as she isn't sitting in SM. Nothing is stopping them from annulling it. Also if Tanveer's blackmailing them can Zoya use we damn brains and call the cops?!?

Their relationship would be less in my opinion because while asad was framed, zoya is just selfish and stupid and asad would in this scenario deserve better.


Yes, they should annul it right away- that is if they really do get married. That would be the only logical thing in this twisted track but if that's what Gul wants to show, why go through with the nikaah at all? Let's wait and see what she is planning...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

But we love you Rosh.. and love your optimism too !!


What did Zoya say yesterday when Asad called her Mrs. AAK? Anyone remember the exact words?


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kankabhor


I agree with Delena and not really want to see them fantasizing about each other.. This is my personal opinion..But Sangita has point and what she is saying is more practical I guess.. moving on from break up does take time in real person's life.. Suppose I girl gets arranged marraigef forcefully by parents when she was in love with other guy, practically the girl will think about a guy she loved and moving on with her husband wil take time..In future she may move on completely, but it will defo take time.. Even if you have made mind to move on, you do think these thinks, thats how human brain works.. As I have seen many of my friends break up and there was time when they used to have feeling for both persons but after few days they are totally committed in relationship, so this is very much practical..

But as this is drama, I kinds want to see ideal situations


Agree with u Kanka. I was abt to make a post on this. Zoyaan nikaah is accidental. U can't expect Zoya to just completely stop thinking abt Asad n move on. Even if it was not accidental but a forced marriage even then it wd've been very difficult to move on. She wd most certainly think abt the time that she spent with Asad n the lovely moments they shared. It's only natural.

But with time n her belief in the institution of marriage she will learn to forget and move on.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

I don't understand or appreciate the term real marriage or fake marriage...
What does it mean. marriage is marriage. I can understand that if there is an accidental marriage(dramatic license).. which I have never ever seen or heard about in real life...get it annulled. Zoya grew up in NY... 21st century girl... even Islam allows divorces . And above all islamically accidental marriage is not possible. Wedding in Islam is always thok Baja kar...
and Zoya is an expert in saying Qubool Nahin hai and running away... so why not now !!


Amber, you are on fire girl.. Yeah, either its marriage or no marriage... Isn't marriage all about belief?? In hindu , they think putting sinddor, mangalsutra is marraige, actors does is on daily basis, does that mean they dnt respect these rituals.. They do, but under situation when two souls do that willingly and mean them..When you dnt mean them, they are nothing.. When you mean it , at that time only IT MEANS SOMETHING.. If you utter those 7 oaths just like that , its nothing but when you mean them from heart, they mean commitment.. Its always in your mind and not in external rituals and ceremonies..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ Bheegi, @ Rosh - Are you guys holding out hope that the marriage will not happen? I am still doubtful that ZoYaan will actually happen or any version of them.

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