Get the right message across or the complete one atleast! - Page 3

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Word to everything you said👏I was telling my mom the exact same thing yesterday..its great that they are showing Zoya being brave and giving it right back to the creep but that doesn't really nullify her irresponsible behavior in the past..I hate it when people bring in a feministic perspective or rant about male chauvinism in such a scenario..Its nice to talk about women's rights but people need to be a lil practical for god's sake..Am not saying you should just lock yourself in your room..But your safety is in your hands cos the system in the country is unfortunately pathetic & we have people giving lectures only after the girl's life is ruined..So we first need to take adequate precautions cos at the end of the day we have no Mr.Khan to protect us😆I hope people don misunderstand what i just said cos am one of those who hate male chauvinists..But its also important to be practical cos the society is unfortunately effed up😆

WORD Ranjini. With the various loopholes that can be exploited in the system and the perverse nature of society we ultimately need to control are own safety. It's not about staying home - as I said I am a party animal...or used to before I started working - but the independence to choose what you want to do with your life doesn't mean you should be obstinate and stupid.

If I am chauvinist because of this - god help your narrow-minded low IQ minds.

P.S - lol I don't have the patience to be kind to them.

Originally posted by: Ethereal.Surbhi

ok i got u :) ya it was created by Zoya herself that doesnt mean such guy should rape her. they should develop their mentality first. here to show they created the situation like Zoya was forced to take lift but in real people get in more trouble just for a small mistake. thats really not mistake if those rapist respect women.everything is avoidable. people goes for enjoying yet come home getting rape. so isnt it avoidable like if they din go out, they wouldnt be raped

You have completely missed the point. Re-read the post and then comment.

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You are either very young and naive or very idealistic. Rapist respecting women is a utopia. Society is such that these people shall always exist. No matter what social reform you try to enforce or what punishment you dish out there will always be sick and twisted people in the world. In a misguided bid for independence there is no reason to put yourself in harms way.

And if you read my post properly you would know that I do go out a lot myself but that doesn't mean I don't make provisions to ensure my safe return home. And zoya in this scenario went running after a pointless celebrity!

Originally posted by: studentofdayear

u r being sexist

😆 and you are being immature and naive.

Live a day on your own without your parents and we will see what you say then.

😊

Originally posted by: penfriend28

well said 👍🏼...

One has to takecare of themselves..people
in society don't behave in the way we like.we have to behave or take care
accordingly.no one can guard you 24/7.the message should be clear.even though
zoya accepted the fact that asad was right in suspecting the guy,it late...she
behaved foolish in giving them a deaf ear.what if something happened that
day?only zoya is responsible..

Word!

Originally posted by: delena90

She could have called him and let him know that she was going - when she was on a bus anytime. He would have come and picked her up at least.

Zoya needed a spanking!

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

For me it is important that Zoya apologizes and accepts she was a wrong judge of character with Rajveer, if she does that I think the message being given out will be quite a success. Or else like you said it would not make much of a difference.

Zoya did not have network actually to call Asad at all, but her not accepting she was wrong, being way too polite and careless around Rajveer was wrong too. I mean she could have clearly told him off for coming to the Khan mansion twice, in a way she was wrong too, she needs to understand till where she can enjoy her independence.

Totally. I really hope she sits down and thinks it through. If not, have Asad put sense into her. For someone who helped track down a shooter, she sure did NOT use that intelligence. Everything about that guy screamed STALKER ! Zoya should be glad he didn't misbehave with her during the ride.
That doesn't mean I dont admire the attempt to cover the issue and at least a scene where she admits she was a wrong judge of character.
And I am glad you told that to Forum 32.

Originally posted by: delena90

WORD Ranjini. With the various loopholes that can be exploited in the system and the perverse nature of society we ultimately need to control are own safety. It's not about staying home - as I said I am a party animal...or used to before I started working - but the independence to choose what you want to do with your life doesn't mean you should be obstinate and stupid.

If I am chauvinist because of this - god help your narrow-minded low IQ minds.

P.S - lol I don't have the patience to be kind to them.

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

You know i don get what Gul is actually trying to show..Raising awareness is not her cup of tea..She should let shows like BV and DABH do that job😆 For one, they already messed up in the Tannu fiasco..They show a guy being literally raped and then let the woman go scot-free🥱 Then they show stuff like sending Razia to a masala factory for abusing an old woman😆 And now this..The least they can show is Zoya acknowledging her mistake atleast to herself if not to Asad😆

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

Sorry to interrupt 😊 Actually it was the channels call to give that message out, so the makers had to inculcate that message it through the story.. They chose QH because it is most watched on Zee.