will u get in to a relationship with a guy who slapped u?

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KambakthIshq

@KambakthIshq

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Posted: 12 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: rogerrocks
Ok are we doing this all over again? Especially at a time when Asad is literally worshiping Zoya?😆 Btw, i do think the slap was totally unjustified..But i never saw it as domestic violence as a man v. woman issue..I saw it as a scorned son who took it all out on the person who he thought was responsible for his mom's condition..Again am not justifying it..I always thought Asad's taunts were far more harsh and unjustified than the slap itself..For instance, him judging Zoya and saying that she doesn't deserve a family was the worse low for me..But now i firmly believe that Asad has been made to suffer for all this and more..Common, the guy was sexually assaulted, made to believe that he had sex with a bitch and also take responsibility for her child..So its kinda unfair to harp on the past and hold it against him..

naahh... I think we are just here to increase forum activity😆 QH ranking dropped😭😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: rogerrocks
Ok are we doing this all over again? Especially at a time when Asad is literally worshiping Zoya?😆 Btw, i do think the slap was totally unjustified..But i never saw it as domestic violence as a man v. woman issue..I saw it as a scorned son who took it all out on the person who he thought was responsible for his mom's condition..Again am not justifying it..I always thought Asad's taunts were far more harsh and unjustified than the slap itself..For instance, him judging Zoya and saying that she doesn't deserve a family was the worse low for me..But now i firmly believe that Asad has been made to suffer for all this and more..Common, the guy was sexually assaulted, made to believe that he had sex with a bitch and also take responsibility for her child..So its kinda unfair to harp on the past and hold it against him..

I think he paid way more than needed! I WOULD have been ok with zoya not forgiving him easy and dilshaad finding out about it!

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Inaya Haya

@lilmzsunshine

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Posted: 12 years ago

#53

See, for everyone (I think) it would depend on teh circumstance.

In the case of this show - Asad slapped her fairly early in their relationship. That would be closer to the first impression (a little past that, I agree, but closer to it than where we are now). So, I wouldn't want to get to know a guy who had such a temper problem.

Add to that the fact that he would blame me for anything and everything, would doubt my motives, would consider me bad influence for his sister, etc. Yeah, I wouldn't wanna marry him.

If I WAS married to him, if I HAD known him for years and he was as lovable, and loving, as Asad now is, and THEN he'd slapped me - it would be a different story.

But I'll say this - EVEN THEN, I wouldn't forgive and forget. Violence is a HUGE deal with me - temper also. I don't hit my kids, not even in the worst of my anger fits. I don't have, nor do I tolerate temper tantrums.

I have a very simple rule in my house. Everyone is allowed to get mad. You just can't act up.

Asad acted up, on someone who was a guest in his house, who was a girl (and Asad a guy), and mostly, someone he didn't know that well. So, I wouldn't have even wanted to stay in that house after that. Apology or no apology. If I HAD to stay there, I'd tell the guy to stay away from me, and not really talk to him.

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-Anku-

@-Anku-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: studentofdayear

zoya decided to marry him before the change!

BECAUSE she realized the man hidden behind the mask, unlike us even after almost a year into the show 🤔

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youth_showsfan

@youth_showsfan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

Zoya interfered in Asad's family's business...granted for a good reason. Thats not Asad's fault that she was buried.

Tanveer is just a crazy ass bitch. Even Zoya didnt realize that until late.

You cant fault Asad for those things just because they were his friend and family.

nd abt asad trusting billi i just realised seeing dt teacher scene asad never had any friend except billi, in skul ppl ignored him so much, he was made to feel infirior so much dt he had to do friendship with frogs dt explains y he trusted billi was she was his ONLY friend in childhood so he kind off didnt wanted to lose his only friend nd may b dts d reason he turned blind nd trusted billi more

seeing asad's past it makes sense y he is like this. like others he never enjoyed he was studying, working with his mother handling mom n his sister where as zoya was pampered by her sister n jiju dts y she is bubly n asad is like this.

but i am happy finally he is learning to live he is coming out of his shell now😊

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Andrea

@DreA

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Posted: 12 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: studentofdayear
@DREA if Asad can hold zoya responsible for his mother's so called attack, why can't I hold him responsible for all the attacks that has happened on zoya?? it is not like I am slapping him!

Because she started the ball rolling when she interfered in his family business in Mangulpur. She was the one who was hiding a person in his house even though he warned her against having contact with Mariam. And his family members werent the ones who attacked Dilshad even though they thought it was them at the time. Technically it was her father's wife. 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

Because she started the ball rolling when she interfered in his family business in Mangulpur. She was the one who was hiding a person in his house even though he warned her against having contact with Mariam. And his family members werent the ones who attacked Dilshad even though they thought it was them at the time. Technically it was her father's wife. 😆

well still there have been countless incidents where zoya has been endangered due to Asad! that is not cool! on top of that he has shouted at her and has even slapped her! not cool dude! not cool! I think Zoya should have spoken up for herself

Edited by studentofdayear - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

#58

I think the fact ASAD AHMED KHAN is extremely good looking and rich helps! if he looked like imran someone like me or even Zoya would have dumped him ages ago! sad but true!

Edited by studentofdayear - 12 years ago

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..vidhi..

@..vidhi..

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Posted: 12 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: -Shayari-
Actually im sorry to say but if i understood why he slapped me, had a genuine reason and not to disrespect or hurt me but saw the value behind the slap: love and concern for a mother who was seemingly hospitalized due to what was apparently my mistake in his eyes, i wouldnt dump the guy because of it. Because to me that would elevate the guy in my eyes that he cares and will go to exteeme legnths to protect his family. One slap. He slapped her once and that too out of a genuine reason. If it were me i wouldnt leave that guy just forthat. The reasonfor the slap has to justify the slap in my pov and asads reason was pure and that along with an understandin of the person he is doesnt give me a reason to dump or leave someone like that. Cause one slap out of genuine reasons is outweighed by the numerous times the guy showed his love and concern for me (savin me on multiple occasions, worrying for me, etc.)

Thats my answer and i stand by it.

Of course if the slap was with a diff puprose yes i would leave that guy. But relationships break easily and are mainted very difficultly. When in relationships you have to concisder eerything an weigh everything before jumping to decisions.

:)

agreed😳