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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

she knew Asad was under the impression that his mother was on death bed bcoz of her. He was minding his own business moping in a corner. she had to go talk to him right?
how can a sane person be calm? he tried...he was holding his anger until she decided to butt in again. He asked her to get lost several times...did she leave? If she had enough self respect..she would have left him the first time he kicked her out.
I agree nothing justifies abuse...but if I were in Asad's place, things could have been even worse.

when you say no matter what the circumstance a woman should not be slapped!...does this apply to women like Billi and Razia?

P.S. I think TM opened this topic to increase forum activity😉 after all QH ranking dropped na😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Meriaashiqui


Asad has turned in to a sweetie pie now, before? not so much! he didn't really value zoya! always shouted at her!


So now he has right? No human is perfect, but if he is human enough that is important. People learn how to love, trust and value, and if they have THAT is what matters.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: Meriaashiqui


doesn't matter! indirectly or directly all the dangers zoya has faced is because of asad! otherwise she would have been fine!

Oh please! So anything/anybody connected to Asad that tries to hurt Zoya is automatically HIS fault? What bullshit! He doesn't control the minds of the people around him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: Ankita.M


So now he has right? No human is perfect, but if he is human enough that is important. People learn how to love, trust and value, and if they have THAT is what matters.


zoya decided to marry him before the change!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45
Ok are we doing this all over again? Especially at a time when Asad is literally worshiping Zoya?😆 Btw, i do think the slap was totally unjustified..But i never saw it as domestic violence as a man v. woman issue..I saw it as a scorned son who took it all out on the person who he thought was responsible for his mom's condition..Again am not justifying it..I always thought Asad's taunts were far more harsh and unjustified than the slap itself..For instance, him judging Zoya and saying that she doesn't deserve a family was the worse low for me..But now i firmly believe that Asad has been made to suffer for all this and more..Common, the guy was sexually assaulted, made to believe that he had sex with a bitch and also take responsibility for her child..So its kinda unfair to harp on the past and hold it against him..
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Posted: 12 years ago
#46
Does there have to be a justification for falling in love? 😕 Does there have be a logical reason to all feelings?

I do not support any kind of abuse. I am just stating my POV.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: Meriaashiqui


doesn't matter! indirectly or directly all the dangers zoya has faced is because of asad! otherwise she would have been fine!

zoya has been in problem cos of her impulsive nature she always things to do something but ends up falling in a trap nd its asad who saves her always😊
dt meethai scene? i am sure u cant say its cos of asad 😆 cos asad didnt even know she ws going there but she ended up in atrouble didnt she?
nd during mariam track she made mariam run and said Q nhn hai again asad saved her i know she helped mariam for good but dt handling a situation in a mature way wudnt have led her to get burried. she didnt know she was taking panga with gunda's.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Meriaashiqui


doesn't matter! indirectly or directly all the dangers zoya has faced is because of asad! otherwise she would have been fine!


Better yet!! she could have just left his house when he asked her to. She would have escaped all the dangers😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#49
@DREA if Asad can hold zoya responsible for his mother's so called attack, why can't I hold him responsible for all the attacks that has happened on zoya?? it is not like I am slapping him!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3


that doesn't justify his man-handling or the slap


BUT hasn't he covered up for all that? Does that mistake made in a matter of turmoil pain and fear count for so much that no matter what the person does,he'll always be undeserving of Zoya's love?

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