Has Ayaan or Nikhat shown any interest in Najma?

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Rupunzale

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Posted: 12 years ago

Has Ayaan or Nikhat or any of Rashid's second family including Rashid has ever shown any affection or the matter of fact any interest in Najma? The answer is No. They haven't...not once ...not ever.

What is Najma's fault here really? To smile after Imran the man she loves declares that he loves her in front of the families...why wouldn't she smile? Every girl in that position will feel ecstatic and similarly Najma behaved very much in character. Are we forgetting that this is the same girl who walked away after she learnt that Imran was Nikhat's fiance? She continuously hesitated until Imran broke down on his knees and claimed that he would not be able to live without her. Now, what is she suppose to do here? Reject the man who comes back to her after 3years just because he was Nikhat's fiance and knowing the fact that Nikhat was the one who broke it ?

I am sorry I don't feel Najma is obligated in anyway to Nikhat? It's not that she was the reason that Imran and Nikhat didn't work out or she was in anyway responsible for their breakup? She welcomed the man she was in love with after he came back to her ...pleading for her existence in his life...not the other way around.

I have seen numerous posts rebuking Najma and Zoya as selfish and insensitive? I would like to know...why so? Why does Najma has to sacrifice her happiness for Nikhat her half sibling who she has no relations with? They were not in talking terms even...maybe has spoken couple of sentences to each other in the past 17 years. Ayaan, Nikhat and nuzzat have led a wonderful life with both parents...pampered...sheltered...by everyone even Asad...I haven't really seen the khan half siblings ever think about Najma in their zingo club ...have we?

I don't want to comment about Zoya here in details other than mentioning that she is not insensitive towards Nikhat because for the matter of fact she doesn't know Nikhat...all she knows is that Nikhat herself has broken the engagement. Zoya is a loyal person and her loyalties lies with Najma because she loves her as her own sister. Nikhat is a stranger to her ...I expected her to sympathize with a stranger...and that is what she exactly did.

Zoya is an American...a newyorker...people here are rational, open minded, secular...and takes people by face value. Zoya is not a complicated person. Her heart is clean. Her been excited about Najma's marriage has nothing to do with her been insensitive...it just shows her support for Najma.

Anyways, this whole track frustrates me because the fact that marriage is portrayed as such a necessity for women boggles me...none of these women has a dream or aspiration about a career or been financially independent...all they want to do is marry...and that includes Zoya too. just cannot fathom the fact that she isn't working towards a career even if she is in India looking for her dad...how can she be dependent on Asad financially...it's extremely demeaning. Anyways, I atleast need to see Zoya working.

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 12 years ago

I knew you'll defend her. Reserved. Will be back!

Let me tell you, Najma is being extremely selfish here. She can smile all she wants after hearing the confession but circumstances matter. Did she not see Nikhat's expressions or all the drama happening? She doesn't have to feel bad for Nikhat because she's her step-sister but for humanity's sake, if she doesn't feel bad for Nikhat and is rejoicing the confession then I'm sorry but she's so selfish and self-absorbed. How can she not feel bad or guilty for all the drama? I just don't understand. If I was in her place, I would!

Who said Najma is obligated to Nikhat or anyone in that family? Just as a human, considering her feelings and putting herself in Nikhat's shoes? I don't blame Najma for letting Imran come back in her life but just smiling and rejoicing the confession after such huge drama. I don't even know how to explain this whole Najma situation but as a sister I won't be able to forgive myself for putting my brother in this situation and then just thought of being involved in a situation where two brothers are fighting and a girl's heart broke, I won't ever be able to get that guilt out of my mind. I'm not asking Najma to sacrifice her happiness for Nikhat but a little bit of sensitivity towards other's feelings? Realization of how big of an issue was created?

& About Zoya, I'm so damn annoyed with her that if she was in front of me, I would've seriously done something bad to her! Once again, it's not about being Nikhat being Asad's step-sister or a stranger, it's about someone's feelings, pain as a human. Zoya can be all mahan and show all greatness for every stranger in the world and heck, even feel and understand Rashid but can't understand or show a bit of sensitivity towards Nikhat's feelings? She can support Najma all she wants but why the rush for marriage? Why not let things cool down? & she claims to be all smart and even people on this forum brag about her smartness then what happened her? How the hell did she not find anything fishy with Haseena? How did she not even for a moment think why Haseena invited both families over at the same time?

& About being American, new yorker, PLEASE! Are you seriously saying this? Especially after seeing Zoya, a New Yorker, hiding her feelings all the time and putting on a facade? & seriously her support has nothing to do with her not considering Nikhat's feelings and pushing everyone for the marriage. How the hell did she believe Nikhat has moved on when she clearly knows it's not easy and she, herself, was never able to move on even after a month? She can support the marriage but why the rush? Why not let the situation cool down a bit? To hell with your support, if you can't consider other person's feelings. I'll have to say Zoya is being the most annoying person in the show with her marriage crap.

Edited by ..Kirann.. - 12 years ago

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Rupunzale

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..
I knew you'll defend her. Reserved. Will be back!

😊hi dear...h r u? I haven't been active in the forum lately...just occasionally commented in Pri's and Sangeeta's post...just came about and saw numerous posts bashing Najma and Zoya...just had to write down what I felt. I will be away for couple of hours but will comeback to see your thoughts.

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hydrogurl001

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Posted: 12 years ago

i agree. In terms of obligations, Najma shouldn't have any to Ayaan or Nikhat since none of them ever even talked before. Sure, Asad maintained good relations with all of them, but Najma, they barely know her. They just know her as being Asad's sister, their half-sibling, other than that, nothing. So why should Najma HAVE to do something to help Nikhat. Sure, it would be the right thing to do, and I feel like they should all have some sense to be kinder to each other. But literally speaking, Nikhat and Ayaan are basically strangers to Najma, they don't really know each other

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Maaneet099

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Posted: 12 years ago

I really dont have an opinion about Najma being right or wrong. My only complaint (like mentioned in the other thread) is the fact that Zoya does not want to know the story on Nikhat's side. I understand it is none of her business but her character has been portrayed as a lady who goes out of the way to help others, even strangers in many cases since the serial started and that is what really landed in trouble most of times. Humera was and still is a stranger from her point yet she helped her directly (ramp walk and sagaai time) and indirectly (convincing Ayaan for sagaai, etc). Even Rashid for that matter (when she met him) was a stranger. She tried her best to get him and Dilshaad together. and now suddenly she seems to be too engrossed with Najma's marriage that she doesn't realize what it is to be heart broken.

Zoya has always believed in girl power, individuality, and independence. She didn't want to be married in the first place (with Akram) because she wanted to etch a place for herself. And now all she wants to do is get Najma married, who in the first place has not even finished college!

Okay, she is a new yorker who has her loyalties towards Najma and close to Asad and Dilshaad. Yet she fails to see Asad breaking because his siblings are in trouble. She knows the value of family and relations yet she overlooks the fact that Ayaan has broken ties with his bhaijaan (of course it was stupid of him to severe ties without knowing Asad's side of the story but that is him, irrational! lol) while Asad is deeply hurt with the events taken place. She understands her Asad well yet fails miserably to see he is broken and troubled

For me Najma's decision to marry Imran (in spite of him being the black sheep) is her choice. and yes she did back away when she knew he was Nikhat's ex-fiancee and now she is in for it.. good for her but what bothers me is Zoya's unconditional support while ignoring other factors and tensions this event has created...

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rupunzale
😊hi dear...h r u? I haven't been active in the forum lately...just occasionally commented in Pri's and Sangeeta's post...just came about and saw numerous posts bashing Najma and Zoya...just had to write down what I felt. I will be away for couple of hours but will comeback to see your thoughts.

I'm good, you tell me?:) I'm not that active either and I barely get time to comment. LOL! Asad bashing went on for long time in this forum, so Zoya's bashing is okay once in a while😆 But seriously, Zoya has been extremely annoying and dumb and I feel like slapping her-_- I edited and okay. I'll hit the bed by then but sure check it out whenever you have time!

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 12 years ago

& About Ayaan showing any interest in Najma, well, he never claimed to neither did he share any special bond with Najma. So he never had any issues with Najma. His issue was with Asad because Asad shares special bond with him and Asad says Nikhat is as close to him as Najma. & Nikhat never accused Najma or Asad of anything, so I don't see why the complain?

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delena90

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Posted: 12 years ago

With regards to Najma I completely agree with you - I don't understand how the heck she is being insensitive about Nikhat. As you mentioned she doesn't owe Nikhat anything - at the end of the day they are strangers. It's not like Najma broke up Nikhat's engagement. Nikhat did that all on her own and I am going to sound really mean here but I actually don't feel sorry for Nikhat. She made a decision that altered the path of everyone involved. She cannot expect someone to wait around just because she loved them (and Nikhat admitted that too - only one with brains apparently). Nikhat's biggest problem is her low confidence which she has developed thanks to her dead beat parents. Imran was the first man who was kind to her and yes it is heart breaking for her but it is not the end of the world.

At the end of the day this is karma coming to bite Shireen and her kids in the ass and I for one am loving it. For years Asad and Najma were left in the sidelines watching their half-siblings live a life of luxury and "love" while they had to scrimp and save every penny. The pain the SM kids will go through is to restore the balance and frankly let them all burn.

Zoya to me was in character but she really needs to butt out of the conversation or at the very least she and Asad need to disagree verbally on the situation. While, I don't disagree with anything she said today, the timing was off. She could have at least waited a day or two before she said what she did.

Frankly, post yesterday - Asad and Ayaan have irritated me the most. Asad should put up a disclaimer - Love all siblings but not as much as I love Ayaan. These two characters need an epic break in their relationship so that Ayaan sees some much needed character growth and Asad realizes how he has excused and indulged his "brother" at everybody's expense!

Edited by delena90 - 12 years ago

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delena90

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..
& About Ayaan showing any interest in Najma, well, he never claimed to neither did he share any special bond with Najma. So he never had any issues with Najma. His issue was with Asad because Asad shares special bond with him and Asad says Nikhat is as close to him as Najma. & Nikhat never accused Najma or Asad of anything, so I don't see why the complain?

Because Ayaan comes across as a hypocrite...actually scratch that...he is a hypocrite. 😆

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: delena90

Because Ayaan comes across as a hypocrite...actually scratch that...he is a hypocrite. 😆

Of course he's a hypocrite and an ass who calls Asad 'bhaijaan' when convenient and then accuses him and brings in step-sibling relationship when something goes wrong in his life!

But I'm just talking about Ayaan here as Nikhat's brother. Not even once did he say anything to Najma. His main issue was with Asad because Asad is the one saying Nikhat is as close to him as Najma. So, Ayaan was right in saying if you were really her brother, you would understand her feelings and her pain by looking at her!

Edited by ..Kirann.. - 12 years ago

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