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Sadie

@--starstruck--

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: sohu_ksgian
Im disappointed and literally pissed with Zoe..Why is she in such a hurry to get najma married off?? And why on earth is she SOO SUPPORTIVE towards that ass??😡
I want my answers😵
Nikhat, take a bow!!!
Archana you rock👏

because she loves Najma and wants her to be happy! 😊

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sujata

@GoodyTwoShoes

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: --starstruck--

dear read the note below! thats exactly what i said! i'm justifying her siding with Najma but im hating the way she is handling the situation 😊

i am sorry i didn't read it...i agree she is rushing things...but i dont think she is insensitive or selfish which most of people think right now..anyways thats my POV and i respect other's too

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Divya

@divyabelle

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

Same here.

It seems all she understand's now is love. Where's the Zoya who could once understand the pain of others. Has being in love made her lose one of her best qualities - the ability to empathize? Ugh.

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Sadie

@--starstruck--

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy

but she didnt rt...dilshaad and shireen..she infact continued her realtionship wid rashid...chodo..no point discussing this..wat she is doing is not in favour of najma either..thats another angle..i dont think she is thinking at all..

if that's what you think! i dont wanna fight

*PEACE*

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Ankita

@Violet_orchid

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

yes sadie,i m dissapointed with zoya 2...

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Sadie

@--starstruck--

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: divyabelle
Same here.

It seems all she understand's now is love. Where's the Zoya who could once understand the pain of others. Has being in love made her lose one of her best qualities - the ability to empathize? Ugh.

she is empathizing but only with Najma! and i dont feel she should be empathizing for Nikhat since she doesn't know her on a personal level

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ananyasm86

@ananyasm86

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

I am disappointed with Zoya not because she is failing to see Nikhat's tears and pain over Najma's happiness, but because she is oblivious to Imran and Haseena and how this will pan out for her immature tamater.

She saw first hand Haseena's evil plan of having the families war against each other. She may not know why Nikhat broke off the engagement, but she does know that this guy walked in Najma's life after three years and suddenly only after his engagement broke off.

What is the hurry? She knows the bond between Asad and Ayaan and if not Nikhat, she is somewhat close to Ayaan at least. When she saw him riled up, isn't it sensible to shut up and actually tell Asad, that yes Najma's happiness is important, but she will only be happy, if everything between the two families is sorted and given some time to process. How can Najma be happy after walking over an entire families hopes and dreams so easily? What is the jaldi is my question?

Zoya is someone who is attuned to feelings of people, and hence I understand that she gets Najma's restlessness about getting married ASAP and her jubilations at finally having Imran in her life again. But, where is old Zoya who would also see Ayaan and see his pain? Or see Asad and see what a quandary this situation is for him and how he has to tackle it oh so delicately as to not screw up the relationship further between two families? How is she oblivious to Haseena's nature and what that could mean for Najma's future marital life?

Instead of being a support to the family right now, she is being a needless cupid for Najma. She may support Najma-Imran wedding, but she can be the bhabhi to tell Najma that they need to go slow because a lot of relationships are on stake here.

Where has Dilshad's brain gone? A woman who has suffered a fate where a man leaves her behind to marry someone else, cannot see Nikhat's position? A woman who has first hand seen Haseena come and make accusatory claims on her and Zoya, cannot see how this MIL would ruin her daughter's life? She has to be more stern about this, instead of letting Zoya overrule her fears.

Najma, less said the better. I don't expect her to be in tune to Nikhat's misery or even feel wrong, as she has no idea why engagement was broken or whether Nikhat ever loved Imran. She doesn't know the hollow promises her spineless wimp made to Nikhat. But what is this random love? 3 years later he walks into your life, after having broken up with your step sister, man give it a little thought and time to process it all. Don't jump like some hormonal teenager on the first chance at marrying this useless lallu of yours. Although the blame is not on her shoulder as much as Dilshad, Asad and Zoya.

Asad gets the least blame, because you can see him atleast gauging the situation and looking at all angles, and everyone's feelings, instead of only looking out for his tamater. He is being wrong on many levels, but he is at least being shown mature.

Dilshad and zoya are disappointing. Zoya needed to hear Asad ask hr to shut up for once. I loved it. Enough of this love sick puppy-giri. That girl needs a reality check sometimes.

But Gul, please give us the old Zoya back. Watching her be a walking talking moron is upsetting. She is so much more than this.

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enigmatic_zephy

@enigmatic_zephy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: --starstruck--
Guys you may feel i am contradicting with myself so let me clear one thing

i am disappointed that zoya could behave in such a fashion but i am defending zoya because apparently almost everyone expects her to chose nikhat over najma!

if i had to choose between my BFF and a girl whose name i know it wouldn't take a genius to guess who i'll side with! so you honestly can't expect her to be suddenly so sensitive toward Nikhat and leave Najma alone.

i know people are against Najma at the moment and hence want zoya to also be against her but rationally that is not possible cuz she will always chose Najma over anyone else

i am only disappointed with the way she is handling such a sensitive issue so nonchalantly! she should realize that if she doesn't feel anything for nikhat doesn't mean no one else does!

sry again to butt in.. 😆

not abt choosing nikhat over najma..

its all abt shutting up..the thing is she is not thinking najma either rt now...and even if she is...how hard is it for her to shut up and respect her to be husband's responsibility and emotions at this point..how difficult is it to act like the to be DIL that she is going to be..how incredibly insensitive can u be towards your loved one to forget basic etiquette...

and lastly...why was asad wrong to throw myriem out when he cared for his loved ones..

nahi..wat zoya is doing rt now is called bending the rules as per one's own whims and fancies..

The thing is, she is in love..has just been told he loves her..he is fulfilling her wishes..everything is perfect..so she is in that lovesmitten mood..

and for her rt now all that matters is two people who have affection..should just get amrried...i think she has conjured half the image of their love story by herself in her brain..and thats all she is thinking..she has no clue of the real world..had it been any grl..she wud have supported her..this is nothing ot do with najma..

Edited by enigmatic_zephy - 12 years ago

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Sohini Dasgupta

@.SoHu.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: --starstruck--

because she loves Najma and wants her to be happy! 😊

I get that..totally!! But then I expect a her to understand Nikhat's POV too Sadie
But will Najma be really happy??? Im sure she wont🥱
Tera LOL smile kahaan hain bewdi??😆

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enigmatic_zephy

@enigmatic_zephy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: sujataraje
sorry i beg to differ... i dont understand why zoya is supposed to understand nikhat's deep feelings...she takes her at her face value..its not liek she is wishing bad to nkihat...its simple she is believing what nikhat is saying..because they are not BFFs as zoya and nazma are...i mean they have no connection for god sake...she appreciated nikhat ..she admitted that its difficlut to go though all this but she will move on...of course nikhat has to move on..because imraan does not love her..it does not matter that he loves nazma or not..but when its clear imraan does not love nikhat...nikhat has to move on and get better things in life because she deserves it...zoya is connected to dilshaad,asad and nazma...you can not expect the same bond between nikhat and zoya which namza and zoya share..same what nikhat and humeira share and zoya and nikhat does not...
zoya has seen nazma carving for imraan not nikhat shedding tears for the same man..so she is expected to feel more for nazma..and she is not insensitive...

That's it...if she cant take a step back and assess the bigger picture..she doesn't need to know abt nikhat..but what she needs to consider is that her to be husband..thinks of others as his family..she needs to think that wud the two families have some kind of 'thinking' to do in situation like this? She needs to atleast understand why did the rishta break in the first place..every1 has assumed rt now..that nikhat broke it..because of her whims and fancies..and ofcourse imran or family were not at fault..nikhat woke up one fine morning and broke the engagement..

that is being dumb..

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