It's only AsYa! (Part 4) - Page 9

Originally posted by: loveableangel

To be honest its all about characterisation, all humans are flawed its Human nature we are self Seeking creatures is it that big a deal to see humans on tv, humans we Can relate too?
So to call zoya selfish or acting impulsive doesn't make her a stupid person, there's not one person on this forum that wouldnt go to the end of this world to get your siblings happiness. Zoya has no family And najma and co are her family so she will do anything for them and in this case if that means looking over nikhits feelings who btw has said she's fine with it a dozen times what's the harm. At the end of the day zoya can push for the wedding all she want s but it's dilshaad and Asad's decision at the end of the day not zoya so I feel she has no blame in this she's just letting najmas feelings be known.
Anyway ever since farhaan has been mentioned I've been thinking about something. Do you think zoya is capable of having a boyfriend? Could farhaan be that boyfriend? She was a hot girl nice personality wouldn't she have a boyfriend? How would asad mainly and others react to this
Let's all discuss this

Not "boyfriend" but very possible that he would turn out to be Zoya's guy friend! And maybe a small jealousy track will begin.. Maybe Farhan would know something about Tanu? Probably he would hear Imran and Tanu talk and because of friendship to Zoya, he wouldn't hide the truth and get Zoya on it! They both spend some time together to figure out what to do and Asad wouldn't know about it and may get jealous..but I doubt any major jealousy track.. Asad has already suffered a lot./they won't show him going through this much..so jealousy track will be very short, if it does happen!

Okay so here is my take on people thinking Zoya was insensitive towards Asad's feelings.

Originally posted by: niki_12

Okay so here is my take on people thinking Zoya was insensitive towards Asad's feelings.

Firstly you all know I love Asad! I defended him throughout the billi fiasco. Even when he was being a jackass to Zoya and yelled at her in front of everyone, made her say sorry to billi, insulted her, questioned her morals, and even accused her of the most horrible things. Why did I defend him when he was being insensitive? Because he was in character. Billi was his best friend and despite knowing her for so long and so well he could not see her true face. I understood his situation.

Zoya was not being insensitive towards Asad at all. Yes Asad was hurt when Ayaan accused him but the last thing that happened at Haseena's house was Nikhat telling Asad not to blame himself and giving Imran's hand to Najma. That is the final thing that came out of the whole fiasco. Now tell me, if Najma's heart was broken and she was crying wouldn't that hurt Asad? I know Asad loves all his siblings a lot but we have to admit that even if he does not say it or ever intend to his loyalties should be towards Najma. God forbid he had to pick someone between Najma and A/N/N to save who do you think he would pick? It has to be Najma. What would Asad go through if his baby sister who he raised as a daughter would be emotionally so broken (kind of like Zoya was after the SR Fiasco). Wouldn't that kill Asad? Zoya for anything was making sure Asad and Najma would not be so hurt.

Asad does not need reassurance IMO. Yes it would have been a great scene but Zoya knows and Asad knows and everyone knows that Asad has always loved his siblings equally. He even told Nikhat his khuda is his gawa. Asad was more upset about the situation created then Ayaan's accusations because he knows Ayaan so well he knows Ayaan is hot headed but Asad has always been confident. The guy who could read Zoya's feelings for him without even confessing knows that he is not differentiating between his siblings. Why would Zoya need to reassure him? Zoya also knows that Asad is a great brother IMO he does not need to hear it from Zoya's mouth. Itna toh confidence usko uske pyaar pe hona chahiye or Hai.

If anything Zoya was insensitive towards Nikhat and that is justified because she doesn't know her well. Like I said before would Humera put Najma over Nikhat? No right? Then why Zoya?

Acha chal..you have a point too..phir bhi..I really wanted a scene of Zoya comforting Asad, cheering him on etc..I just wanted her to see things from Asad's side aswell..and where he stands in the whole situation as the eldest son of the house and the big brother and the pressure that he has of making sure that he doesn't play favorites and think for both the sisters..he really needed some words of encouragement..something to lift him up..

Originally posted by: mbficoa

Acha chal..you have a point too..phir bhi..I really wanted a scene of Zoya comforting Asad, cheering him on etc..I just wanted her to see things from Asad's side aswell..and where he stands in the whole situation as the eldest son of the house and the big brother and the pressure that he has of making sure that he doesn't play favorites and think for both the sisters..he really needed some words of encouragement..something to lift him up..

Niks mei nay tu kaha tu may clash will be short..thora patch up and then clash again..Asad Ayaan bhai hain..they can't just let circumstances put a permanent wall between them! They have been together their whole lives, went against their parents wish but didn't let anything separate them..so clashes will always be like this..ek clash hoga..phir dosti..phir koi clash..phir dosti..but clashes kay beech mei gap ho ga in order to make the clash dramatic! Last clash Gudia factory days mein howa and now it happened..after a while..

I have said this before, Nikhat is very big on her family's izat and khushi..Even if she goes through heck, she won't show it to anyone..it will all be private..she will never do anything which could make her family sad..maybe to try to act and show that everything is well with her, she goes back to her studies and continues her dance and that's when she will find herself again..her passion..her identity..her value..

Zoya's mom story can cause the clash (Rashid's involvement) and Zoya's dad can cause the clash too.. But iss mei abhi time hai..

Okay one more addition of why Zoya is justified.

Originally posted by: mbficoa

Niks mei nay tu kaha tu may clash will be short..thora patch up and then clash again..Asad Ayaan bhai hain..they can't just let circumstances put a permanent wall between them! They have been together their whole lives, went against their parents wish but didn't let anything separate them..so clashes will always be like this..ek clash hoga..phir dosti..phir koi clash..phir dosti..but clashes kay beech mei gap ho ga in order to make the clash dramatic! Last clash Gudia factory days mein howa and now it happened..after a while..

I have said this before, Nikhat is very big on her family's izat and khushi..Even if she goes through heck, she won't show it to anyone..it will all be private..she will never do anything which could make her family sad..maybe to try to act and show that everything is well with her, she goes back to her studies and continues her dance and that's when she will find herself again..her passion..her identity..her value..

Zoya's mom story can cause the clash (Rashid's involvement) and Zoya's dad can cause the clash too.. But iss mei abhi time hai..

Niks! Neither of the sisters will have any love story any time soon! Farhan may develop feelings for najma or what if he liked Zoya back in the day and his feelings are still very much there.. But anyways..he could still fall for Najma but she would refuse..and then this Farhan guy will go back and maybe later he will come back one day when Najma is ready for a relationship..Farhan is not gonna be a permanent cast, I think! He will do his job, fall in love maybe, with one of the sisters, and then leave for the USA after being rejected and maybe come back a year or two to win his love back?